Are White Women Really All That Bad?

[jackr]

Must admit...put a gorgeous farang against her Thai counterpart and I have to say, the farang pips her to the post in my eyes.

[fourbaht]

Must admit...put a gorgeous farang against her Thai counterpart and I have to say, the farang pips her to the post in my eyes.

Your white stick is in the corner

[jackr]

Must admit...put a gorgeous farang against her Thai counterpart and I have to say, the farang pips her to the post in my eyes.

Your white stick is in the corner

[fourbaht]

Its one of the great things about being a guy we can keep on trading in as they get older.. a quote from one of my friends "you're only as old as the woman you feel"

[Axel]

Axel,

Mata yonde, kangaete kudasae.

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This is exactly what I like about a forum, before writing one can lean back and THINK, instead of sending enless long posts, twisting facts to fit one's own post.

Above is not directed to you padma, just a general remark.

However, I agree to your point: "therefore I will close to say there are good and bad PEOPLE of ALL races".

Guess that clears it for once and all.

PS: Sorry that I had switched to Japanese, I do this sometimes, usually when interviewing staff who claim to know the language. padma passed there and her Japanese is probably better than mine. That does not mean I agree to what was said over so many pages.

[Khutan]

mattnich

I have an ex wife I am currently in the process on divorcing.  haven't given her my number here.  Why would you take calls from a ex and her friendsif you were divorced and why do they have your number? I've been here 3 months and some of my friends don't know where to call me.  Advice for the future hang up the phone or change your number.

Women are great!  I can still say that after a bad marriage. I may be in the wrong place because my preference is a tall blonde with blue eyes.

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Sadly, we have children together, so the need to communicate will always exist. So in that circle, they will always know my telephone number.

Basicly, where her bitterness comes from and she has freely admitted, is her new partner has different priorities in life, and different financial objectives, for the limited resources they have. Whilst I still happily send a little more than $2500 a month to maintain the children, she admits she misses being able to have the regular disposable income that I provided her with. What the normal routine was, she would go to a b-b-q with friends, they would start th have a chat (men/women alike do this) and the booze, the funny cigarettes etc started to work.

If she didn't get satisfaction from the phone call, being prompted by a good amount of Red wine and encouragement from other drunken friends, one of the friends would call.

Why did I pick up the phone, well firstly caller-id didn't always work where I lived, so often I would just get "Call", other times, as you can in Australia, you can turn off your caller ID, therefore having no idea who was calling. Add to this, a business that traded well into the night, I always had to answer the phone. I am also a sucker, when I am on the phone, I like things to finish clear.

I am not going to delve into the situation further, as my sympathy now is highly variable, she knows she made a mistake, but it was one of those downward spirals.

Padma;

Why you are asking me to justify anything when you will not talk 1 sinlge specific is beyond me.

I am not going to respond to you, until you post an unconditional apology to my wife.

I don't really care for your opinion and I don't like your attitude.

Edited December 16, 2004 by mattnich

[chuchok]

Its one of the great things about being a guy we can keep on trading in as they get older..  a quote from one of my friends  "you're only as old as the woman you feel"

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I think Groucho Marx was the owner of that quote...

[Khutan]

One final thing Padma;

I find it funny your name literally translates as "fried dog"

Pad-Ma ???

Well thats the consensus at the factory this afternoon.

[Marshy]

Mattnich,

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Thanks Dave-----needed a laff

knew this was gonna be a shootin match

[padma]

Mattnich,

Glad your having great english conversations with abstract concepts.

Also glad your overweight "125kg" egocentric self has been taken off the market.

Feel pity for your beautiful," perfect skinned, 6 pack wife".

Funny how you speak of her broken english on other threads but on this one she can speak perfect english and about abstract concepts on top of that.

Get your story straight. Grow up.

Padma is taken from a sanskrit word.

[davethailand]

Mattnich,

Glad your having great english conversations with abstract concepts.

Also glad your overweight "125kg" egocentric self has been taken off the market.

Feel pity for your beautiful," perfect skinned, 6 pack wife".

Funny how you speak of her broken english on other threads but on this one she can speak perfect english and about abstract concepts on top of that.

Get your story straight. Grow up.

Padma is taken from a sanskrit word.

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???

[stumonster]

I think love is an abstract concept

your perceptions are based on your interactions in life - while you are still breathing those perceptions will still change , whether you notice/admit it does.

um, maybe I don't agree with what I just wrote anymore

[dhart001]

Padme, are you of Indian descent, by chance?

It would be interesting if you were, seeing as how you are defending the rights of "white" women from so called "developed countries".

Or do you consider yourself to be unaffiliated with (perhaps the word is above) your ethnic heritage?

Just curious.

[padma]

dhart001,

No i'm not of indian descent.

I have asian and western features.

Western features: height(tall), nose, bone structure.

Asian feature: weight(thin), eyes, skin, hair

Considered exotic in both cultures.

I tend to defend the underdog. I'll defend all women, white, yellow, red, black if I feel they are being discriminated against. In another thread I was defending Thai women.

I've protected and defended the gay boys in high school. I've been know to strap myself to trees to protect the forest from overzealous logging practices. etc.etc.

I'm not the meek little asian girl that stands behind her man and can't speak for herself. I'll get right in your face if I think your opinion sucks.

[Insight]

dhart001,

I'm not the meek little asian girl that stands behind her man and can't speak for herself.  I'll get right in your face if I think your opinion sucks.

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Haven't you got dishes to do?

[Explorer]

dhart001,

I'm not the meek little asian girl that stands behind her man and can't speak for herself.  I'll get right in your face if I think your opinion sucks.

Haven't you got dishes to do?

That's a good one! 5555555

Explorer

[chuchok]

Women should be obscene and not heard.

Edited December 16, 2004 by chuchok

[padma]

Ravisher,

I had written lengthy post in your response to mine about age difference.

My computer crashed.

But in summary, I have lots of stories I can take from and from a female perpective. I know a few models who make a good 6 figure incomes and still date "Rich" older men. In the west we can then sugar daddys.

Anna Nicole Smith had a several million dollar contract with Guess before she married her 90 year old billionaire. But she really loved him right.

I'm not even attempting to go into the psychogical reasons a young women would date a men twice her age or more. Abuse and abandonment from childhood can sometimes shape the future of an adult. I know of an abused trust fund girl that got into Porn movies.

Anyways, you did say that you didn't have a good past with western women right? and they took you for alot of cash? You think age could be the reason...perhaps if you married someone more mature things could have been different? Just wondering.

[davethailand]

I've protected and defended the gay boys in high school

Thats the first time i've heard it called that

I've been know to strap myself to trees to protect the forest from overzealous logging practices. etc.etc.

Are you that swampy hippy guy from Wanstead flats??

[Insight]

Way off topic...

I've been know to strap myself to trees to protect the forest from overzealous logging practices. etc.etc.

Are you that swampy hippy guy from Wanstead flats??

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Total blast from the past! There's a clip from The Best Of Have I Got News For You with him in it - well worth a watch. Let me know if you want to borrow the DVD Dave.

[Khutan]

Mattnich,

Glad your having great english conversations with abstract concepts.

Also glad your overweight "125kg" egocentric self has been taken off the market.

Feel pity for your beautiful," perfect skinned, 6 pack wife".

Funny how you speak of her broken english on other threads but on this one she can speak perfect english and about abstract concepts on top of that.

Get your story straight. Grow up.

Padma is taken from a sanskrit word.

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Oh, I have to laugh, such entertainment, Well whatever your protests, you will always to me just be fried dog.

Why, you protest... Well this is Thailand, and well, Thai is the spoken language, and has been for some time.

Little wonder G.I. Joe stopped you. I mean the way you can twist things, insert hyperbole, and reinvent the truth, wow, you you must be a spin-doctor, congratulations you get paid to lie. Who do you work for , a Multinational, a terrorist group, or maybe a tobacco company.

Just to make me laugh, I have to ask you when did I say this?

she can speak perfect english

I said many things, but not that.

Now Fried-dog, the rest of what you say is so beneth contempt.

[Explorer]

Another one, way beyond the topic.....

Padma - from VietNam?

I was in VietNam before and they eat dogs there.

Explorer

[motif]

mattnich,

know you may be trying to make a point. but the name calling is a bit childish I think. Padma may be right in telling you to grow up.

You seem to have brought it on yourself. You've been pointing out useless typos and then talk about your wife's execellent language skills in thai, english, khmer and mandarin. Talking about abstract concepts in english requires excellent english language ability. I understand the point being made here. Why don't you?

You've had a bad bought with a ex from the west. Same as me, same as some of my friends. Difference is never I or my friends are going to stereotype and start only dating asian women.

[Explorer]

i sense a troll in here with 2 nicks

Explorer

[Boo]

I sense the private slanging match between mattnich & padma may cause this thread to be closed down Insightful huh

[Pink Mist]

So far it's reasonable discussion and the humour is there, please don't start flaming each other, it's a good thread

[SK1972]

Explorer and Boo............I think maybe both of you are right........I do hope they calm down soon Never take things to heart.

[padma]

You know in the end of the day. I don't know who the *&%^*&% this Mattnich is and I probably never will.

I going to take my own advice and get a life.

How pathetic that I am even involving myself in this dialouge.

Waste of time. Never thought I would ever post anything anywhere.

Guess it takes living in a foriegn country and free time at work.

We all create our own realities. My new reality. Stop wasting time at the computer and start living life more. Just because it's not home is no excuse.

Mattnich,

I've got nothing more to say to you after being called a fried dog. I won't slag back. I know you like to bait. Would have loved to have heard the fights between your ex wife and yourself. Must of made for good TV.

And no you probably don't have to grow up as your wife (life companion) is 23.

And btw just because I have a few opinions about you I won't discriminate against every old overweight, australian man with a beautiful young thai wife. Even you,

I'll just assume your wife loves you for your fabulous personality. She also loves cleaning and cooking for you everyday (and as you said in a previous post also doesn't mind cleaning the skidmarks off your underwear)

I'm sure if she didn't come from a poor farming community and had a education and career of her own her choices would be different as would her life. She wouldn't have to be her husband's maid.

[Explorer]

I think Padma had just "crossed" the line. There are lines in giving comments to another person here, but telling someone that their wife made a bad choice marrying them is way below the belt. You DO NOT TELL another individual how to run their life, you got a life of your own and believe me you wouldn't like someone to tell you that your mother didn't raise you good enough to qualify as a human. Right?

Padma, if you do not know the Thai custom of husband and wife relationship, i suggest you seek life else where.

Explorer

[padma]

Explorer,

What are you implying I'm saying.

I think Mattnich's wife did good coming from a poor farming family.

I said if she had other possibilities in life she may have lived a different life.

I know plenty of Thai women. My best friend here is a thai women. She, all of them are educated and don't do housework for their men. They fortunately come from wealthy families.

Your reality of Thailand seems very different of mine.

There is a modern thailand where women aren't treated as objects and slaves.

Wake up! You're all not sleep walking are you?