Livinginexile Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Keep your mouth shut and you can have both, open another apartment for visiting girl2 Pu Yings are better than 1 Yap well, i only sleep over with the current gf like twice a week... maybe i could get away with making up an excuse for not doing that for 3 weeks that would fly (e.g. 'i'm sick so let's just meet for lunch', etc.) but 3 weeks seems like she'd notice something was up. The typical guy would probably just attempt to do that (i.e. have both at same time), but i wouldn't be able to relax with that tension. Business trip! Or something like that. Thai women never question travelling if they think money is involved. Then just take your mia noy for a dirty weekend somewhere, AND LEAVE IT AT THAT. An old saying son...never shit in your own backyard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazygourmet Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 2 Pu Yings are better than 1 Sounds like an advertisement for "Eden Club"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CelticBhoy Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 I'd go for the threesome. It's going to go pear-shaped one way or another, at least take a gamble on a flash finish........and don't forget to vdo it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girlx Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 hey!! I would dump the guy like you! haha thithi i agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patsycat Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 hey!! I would dump the guy like you! haha thithi i agree Me too!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spongeman Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 A few years ago the Post did a big spread on stories of goolie reattachment and how they occoured. So unless you want to be in the next edition I would dump the first bird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dakhar Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 How do you tell her... Well, you can tell her about the warts, or the itching and burning on your own... or she can discover all about in due time Dude, thank your lucky stars you have shacked up with a modernized independent hotty and move on. Truth of the matter is, these "country girls" dump guys just as well. You are not the only "hero" out there, and I'll bet you are more like an "option" to her. So again, think poistive, hug you woman, and be calm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dakhar Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Keep your mouth shut and you can have both, open another apartment for visiting girl2 Pu Yings are better than 1 Yap well, i only sleep over with the current gf like twice a week... maybe i could get away with making up an excuse for not doing that for 3 weeks that would fly (e.g. 'i'm sick so let's just meet for lunch', etc.) but 3 weeks seems like she'd notice something was up. The typical guy would probably just attempt to do that (i.e. have both at same time), but i wouldn't be able to relax with that tension. Business trip! Or something like that. Thai women never question travelling if they think money is involved. Then just take your mia noy for a dirty weekend somewhere, AND LEAVE IT AT THAT. An old saying son...never shit in your own backyard. imoral, but veryt acurate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Birdman Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 forget the old one or big troubles will come after you started to mention the first few words to your now gf. You will NEVER be trusted again by her. Everything will be broken. If you love her, you will regret that sentimental shuffle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snuggzzz Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Women are very intuative, when meeting for the first time, the 'poor country girl' and your present girlfriend will look at each other, their body language will indicate to each one the pecking order and both will want rapid answers or perhaps none and your 'meat and two veg' will be put in a grinder or orbiting alongside the space station...!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RakJungTorlae Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 hey!! I would dump the guy like you! haha thithi i agree Me too!! Me three Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CelticBhoy Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 hey!! I would dump the guy like you! haha thithi i agree Avoid female comments/advice OP. They don't have any right giving a bloke any input on where he's tunnelling. (Just look at the 2 quotes above. Women are just not on the same page!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Yet another candidate for a 'Just Shoot Me' t-shirt? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connel707 Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 forget the old one or big troubles will come after you started to mention the first few words to your now gf. You will NEVER be trusted again by her. Everything will be broken. If you love her, you will regret that sentimental shuffle. Best Advice,... get rid of the first one. She is playing you like a fish. Stay away from poor Thai girls as all they want you for is your money, what do they call Farangs... walking ATMs. Her family and friends have sent her after you...for sure. you were naieve and gullable, the "perfect" catch ! You are the Issan girls dream, so dont allow your ego to steer you wrong. Never think about anything long term with any Thai girl who has not been to University and does not speak English. If they speak good English and have not got their degree, they learnt it working in a bar in Pattaya or somewhere. And, there are 100s of lovely Thai girls to be had. Move on .... or stay with Miss number 2.... Dont be a fool all your life. And another thing to remember, nearly all Thai girls have a Thai boy or husband in the background somewhere... and a baby or two....Thai girls prefer Thai men, its only natural. Farangs mean money..!!!!!! Use these facts to your advantage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wasabi Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Keep it on the DL or don't do it at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ihunnieibee Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Okay, this is what i would do if i was you..and of coarse my opinion could mean all of nothing for u...cuz im a farang girl lol Tell the first girl your situation and be honest with her tell her although u care for her, it just didnt work but you still want to help her (or whatever it is that ur keeping her around for) Let her stay with a friend or something along those lines...and try to hang out with her for a little bit and comfort her cuz shes gonna be pissed and crying... Tell her that if you two were in the same country things would have been different. I happen to know quite a few thai girls that this has happened to.. its normal... ur human..things happen. Eventually she will get over it. Maybe sooner than later..maybe u can even tell her before she comes..that would be best.. DONT MENTION A WORD TO THE NEW GIRL BECAUSE THEN U WILL BE LEFT WITH NO ONE...honestly shes better off not knowing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a2396 Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 My current "so-called girlfreind", who I have known for 2 years, says she doesn't care if I have other girls. I presume this lets her off the hook if she has other guys. I have never seen one of these "dick wackers" that everyone goes on & on about. Most of them I have met don't care what I do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Underbelly Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 (edited) Just be quiet about it, she can stay at my place if you like and you can come visit on weekends. PS. What does she look like? Edited March 29, 2009 by Underbelly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimjim Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Why do these guys even open up their horrible personal lives to a bunch of faceless posters on an internet forum? OP is just making himself look stupid as he obviously has commitment and loneliness issues. Figure it out yourself, man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy Jack Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Mathew 5:22 in the King James bible says (in part) "...whoever shall say [to another person] Thou Fool, shall be in danger of hel_l fire." I therefore have nothing further to say! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Underbelly Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Come on, i bet you there are hundreds of posts which people just make up, I mean some of the stories on here of what happens to people here just cant be real................................or can it??? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CelticBhoy Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 ^ I think the bible bit wasn't made up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OxfordWill Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 the bible bit is the only bit we can be sure was made up (even if thousands of years ago.) Definitely dont tell your new girlfriend anything about the old one! If you tell her youre just meeting as friends she will assume the worst anyway, in all liklihood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AsiaMB Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Well it's not exactly cheating, but my current Thai girlfriend and I are overseas, living in different accommodation, and an old Thai girlfriend of mine has called to say she's coming to visit me for a few weeks, and there's no way to hide the visit from my current girlfriend. I generally know to just follow my instinct when I finally tell my current gf the truth or my version of it, but I'd like to get advice if I should expect anything in particular (violence, etc.). I'm fully aware the sharks will have a field day with this post, and i'll be torn a new one by some, but it'd be cool if some of you could try to make your best assumptions about me rather than the typical worst and see where i'm coming from . Background of the situation- I'm in my twenties and the two gf's are really the first I've had (so I'm still kind of new to the scene, being a reclusive person before this), the first came from a very poor background with the usual thaivisa story behind it... we were together a couple years and she got really attached to me... I tried telling her a few months ago it wouldn't work out longterm just cuz we were so different (and other personal reasons), but her utterly innocent and helpless situation, especially considering the entirely unjust lot she'd been given in life, made it too hard for me to cleanly break it... also because she was my first and I was scared of being alone. She never cheated on me or requested money, etc etc. Well, that weakness on my part has led to the current situation where I met a new thai gf from a more hi-so background (actually she hasn't spent much time in Thailand) a couple months ago in this other asian country I'm currently working in, and now I have to find a way to tell this current gf about this visit coming up from the old one. I can't say no to the old gf visiting, partally cuz i'm scared of losing her and may still like her more than the new one, but also practically becuase she needs to come her for a few weeks to do a visa application that may substantially improve her life if granted. My plan is just to tell the current gf that I was naive fool who got attached to a poor country girl who was bad-fit for me (I will have to lie where i met her of course) and I just have to help her out with this visa thing then it will all be done. Yes the old gf will have to live with me, but I can't have sex with her because of this-and-this (there actually are some real reasons why I couldn't) so it's more like a friend i'm trying to convince i can't be with anymore, so you don't need to worry, etc. - will this work? the old gf really is only going to be around for like 3 weeks then leave. I dunno, my gut tells me this might explode disastroulsy with the current gf, but I really can't throw the old one in the gutters just yet... it just wouldn't be morally right... hopefully the new gf will be able to understand my compassion in that regard, and not just think I'm a rouge serially cheater who finally got caught. Ugh, I'm never going to let this happen again...now I see why it's good to get experience with relationships in junior/high school rather than when you're older and more is at stake in life. wow you think tooo much, never ever say anything, never admit or tell her.... no point....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torrenova Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 knives. beware the knives and the heavy sabres at dawn. buy armour for your pecker and balls. find out fastest route to next hospital with good surgeons I can hear the ducks quacking excitedly in anticipation as I write ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya_girl Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 hey!! I would dump the guy like you! haha thithi i agree Me too!! Me three And me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henryalleman Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 My advise to the OP GET A LIFE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junglejumbo Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 How do you tell her...Well, you can tell her about the warts, or the itching and burning on your own... or she can discover all about in due time Dude, thank your lucky stars you have shacked up with a modernized independent hotty and move on. Truth of the matter is, these "country girls" dump guys just as well. You are not the only "hero" out there, and I'll bet you are more like an "option" to her. So again, think poistive, hug you woman, and be calm. This is true. Don't pity anyone. It's not love. And these types have more than one of us up their sleeve. She's using you in truth. I retract my view to keep her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TopDogger Posted March 31, 2009 Share Posted March 31, 2009 A friend told me he found the following method fairly effective in the past.... (obviously, never get caught).... Deny all knowledge of cheating point blank, eventually though they will get far too suspicious and it will start to get out of control... Soon after this point, tell them you have something u want to tell them... Act all sorry, etc, and tell em u got a bj off a girl somewhere when u were drunk no so long ago and that u promise never to do it again, the tears will follow, etc and they may well walk out. No loss though as the situation had become unbearable anywayz. The chances are however, that they will forgive you under the misguided belief that you have actually been honest with them and should it happen again you'll be honest and tell them about it at which point they have the facts in place to make an informed decision. From this point on you'll be shocked as to how much u can get away with and how loving the girl becomes with her honest bloke... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Philosopher Posted March 31, 2009 Share Posted March 31, 2009 Well it's not exactly cheating, but my current Thai girlfriend and I are overseas, living in different accommodation, and an old Thai girlfriend of mine has called to say she's coming to visit me for a few weeks, and there's no way to hide the visit from my current girlfriend. I generally know to just follow my instinct when I finally tell my current gf the truth or my version of it, but I'd like to get advice if I should expect anything in particular (violence, etc.). I'm fully aware the sharks will have a field day with this post, and i'll be torn a new one by some, but it'd be cool if some of you could try to make your best assumptions about me rather than the typical worst and see where i'm coming from . Background of the situation- I'm in my twenties and the two gf's are really the first I've had (so I'm still kind of new to the scene, being a reclusive person before this), the first came from a very poor background with the usual thaivisa story behind it... we were together a couple years and she got really attached to me... I tried telling her a few months ago it wouldn't work out longterm just cuz we were so different (and other personal reasons), but her utterly innocent and helpless situation, especially considering the entirely unjust lot she'd been given in life, made it too hard for me to cleanly break it... also because she was my first and I was scared of being alone. She never cheated on me or requested money, etc etc. Well, that weakness on my part has led to the current situation where I met a new thai gf from a more hi-so background (actually she hasn't spent much time in Thailand) a couple months ago in this other asian country I'm currently working in, and now I have to find a way to tell this current gf about this visit coming up from the old one. I can't say no to the old gf visiting, partally cuz i'm scared of losing her and may still like her more than the new one, but also practically becuase she needs to come her for a few weeks to do a visa application that may substantially improve her life if granted. My plan is just to tell the current gf that I was naive fool who got attached to a poor country girl who was bad-fit for me (I will have to lie where i met her of course) and I just have to help her out with this visa thing then it will all be done. Yes the old gf will have to live with me, but I can't have sex with her because of this-and-this (there actually are some real reasons why I couldn't) so it's more like a friend i'm trying to convince i can't be with anymore, so you don't need to worry, etc. - will this work? the old gf really is only going to be around for like 3 weeks then leave. I dunno, my gut tells me this might explode disastroulsy with the current gf, but I really can't throw the old one in the gutters just yet... it just wouldn't be morally right... hopefully the new gf will be able to understand my compassion in that regard, and not just think I'm a rouge serially cheater who finally got caught. Ugh, I'm never going to let this happen again...now I see why it's good to get experience with relationships in junior/high school rather than when you're older and more is at stake in life. Buy a penis size container (dependent on your personal circumstances) and a load of ice then book an ambluance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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