Married

[MRSVETSARE]

Hi a plan to maried with my thaiwomen

and a want to know what tradision gift is for maried with thai women?

give family money? gold?how much gold shall a give to her?

and al things a want to know

[Mossfinn]

Go to the grey coloured bar at the top of the page.

Click on the search button top right of the Yellow Highlighted 'Insurance' icon.

Click on more search options

In the dialogue box to the left, write in +Sinsot+Sinsot.

You will have pages of threads to read

see you in 3 months

[MRSVETSARE]

Go to the grey coloured bar at the top of the page.

Click on the search button top right of the Yellow Highlighted 'Insurance' icon.

Click on more search options

In the dialogue box to the left, write in +Sinsot+Sinsot.

You will have pages of threads to read

see you in 3 months

what?

a nead answer , not this

[Mossfinn]

There is no definitive answer to your question:

Follow my bullet points and research the question and you can come to your own conclusion.

I would respectfully suggest it is the best answer you will get.

[Mossfinn]

write in +Sinsot+Sinsot. sinsod

Please except my apologies, it should read +sinsot+sinsod

[sbk]

OP does not even have to go so far as to search. Pinned to the General forum is a handy little thread:

Sin Sod - An Explanation. PLEASE READ THIS FIRST

[cdnvic]

Hi a plan to maried with my thaiwomen

and a want to know what tradision gift is for maried with thai women?

give family money? gold?how much gold shall a give to her?

and al things a want to know

Traditionally you would give her parents the gift of money and/or gold. The amount varies from a token amount to a large sum depending on the family. Your fiancé is the best person to ask about that as she will most likely know her parent's wishes so far. Important to keep in mind is your own culture and traditions which may be in conflict with her family's. There's often a fair middle ground to be reached through quiet negotiation. In many families the "sin-sod" or dowry is only for show, and is returned to the bride and groom after the ceremony. Never take this for granted though, and make sure everyone is in agreement before any exchanges are made.

[MRSVETSARE]

Hi a plan to maried with my thaiwomen

and a want to know what tradision gift is for maried with thai women?

give family money? gold?how much gold shall a give to her?

and al things a want to know

Traditionally you would give her parents the gift of money and/or gold. The amount varies from a token amount to a large sum depending on the family. Your fiancé is the best person to ask about that as she will most likely know her parent's wishes so far. Important to keep in mind is your own culture and traditions which may be in conflict with her family's. There's often a fair middle ground to be reached through quiet negotiation. In many families the "sin-sod" or dowry is only for show, and is returned to the bride and groom after the ceremony. Never take this for granted though, and make sure everyone is in agreement before any exchanges are made.

she not ask much to mamma +pappa

but she say it most be gold like 50000 bath to make this maried

its much gold or its normal?

[sbk]

Given that sin sot is not really related to family and children I am moving this to the General forum.

[MRSVETSARE]

okej

hope somebody can answer my questions then

[Maigo6]

Sin Sot threads are very rare on this Forum, so maybe we can all learn something .

[sassienie]

Hi a plan to maried with my thaiwomen

and a want to know what tradision gift is for maried with thai women?

give family money? gold?how much gold shall a give to her?

and al things a want to know

Check out this thread, here:

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/Thai-Dowry-t298561.html

It will answer all your questions.

[Krap]

okej

hope somebody can answer my questions then

Hej MrSvetsare!

50000 bath is not that much if u can afford it. Its up to u. Dont pay more than u feel is ok. If u feel something is wrong with the whole deal so it probably is and u better not pay. To pay something is about culture and in our culture its not habbit, so i think u just do what u feel is right and if u cant pay that amount then offer less. It depend on many things, the girls was married before? She have chikdren before? Things like that make her value less.

Lycka till

[soihok]

okej

hope somebody can answer my questions then

If you dont mind me asking.

What nationality are you?

Are you from India?

No issue , only to help with your questions , thats all.

Anyway, irrespective of your nationality.

Yes GOLD is the key mate.

Along with a house and a 4 door pick up , preferebly a Toyota.

[Mossfinn]

Things like that make her value less.

I understand that English isn't your first language, but that could be construed in all manor of ways, unfortunately, on occasion, people here will have a field day with the comment.

Just for clarity, if a previous marriage, or indeed child are involved it can lead to certain aspects being reviewed.

I am trying to be economical with words in order to try and alleviate the blood lust that is surely building with the mere mention of sinsot.

[soihok]

I get the feeling you are from India, or close.

Gold will do mate, but there is a lot more to it than just a simple deposit.....

Mossfinn, how the he_ll do you expect this guy to understand your post?

"construed in all manor of ways".

[Jimjim]

If your girl is older, say over 30, often Sin Sot wouldn't even be required. I dated a girl 3 years older than me, and she said I wouldn't have to pay a thing, as had just turned 30. She also wondered why I didn't date a younger girl than her, so there ya go, thinks she's already past it but I thought she was quite cute.

[soihok]

If your girl is older, say over 30, often Sin Sot wouldn't even be required. I dated a girl 3 years older than me, and she said I wouldn't have to pay a thing, as had just turned 30. She also wondered why I didn't date a younger girl than her, so there ya go, thinks she's already past it but I thought she was cute.

Kind of the same thing, although we had a kid on the way.

Parents eager to get us more established , so I ended up buying the house that we all live in happily. With another kid coming after.

I know where you are coming from jimjim.

Just cant say no.

[Mossfinn]

Mossfinn, how the he_ll do you expect this guy to understand your post?

"construed in all manor of ways".

I am not entirely sure I should structure my writing to each individual that posts on here, it could become quite tiresome in second guessing, either a persons nationality, or indeed their level of English comprehension.

However, on reflection, I did assemble it in such a way, as to try and negate the usual posts that this one inevitably brings, hyperbole and exaggeration go hand in hand with the mere mention of sinsot and the inane responses that most assuredly will follow, particularly when there has been such a variety of different, but related threads recently.

So on one hand I agree with you and on the other, I don't, if there was anything unclear in my post, someone could always ask clarification.

Now, trust me, watch the same old, same old post, after tiresome post, be trotted out by the same old posters with the same old statements, that have been trotted out, no less than probably a page ago.

Which is why I gave out the method with simple instruction on how to get a myriad of unsolicited threads, with innumerable posts on the differences of each individuals thoughts on sinsot and any related subject.

[Krap]

Things like that make her value less.

I understand that English isn't your first language, but that could be construed in all manor of ways, unfortunately, on occasion, people here will have a field day with the comment.

Just for clarity, if a previous marriage, or indeed child are involved it can lead to certain aspects being reviewed.

I am trying to be economical with words in order to try and alleviate the blood lust that is surely building with the mere mention of sinsot.

What didnt u like with my english? Staying in thailand makes me simplify grammar all the time....and for MrSvetare that might be the right aproach....

I suspect hes from scandinavia but who knows.

[Krap]

yr engrit is fine. yr brain isnt. if u worried bout how much gold to give family i suggest u run fast. they gold digging thai family.

Im not giving gold to anyone except as a pure gift to the mother of my child for ex a ring or such. Buying into marriage isnt my thing. Its not even needed when the girl is young, middleclass, well educated, non married with no previous children. If the girls loves u shell make sure ur together no matter what.