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Virginity - Dignity Or Lack Of Opportunity

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ajarnmark Silver Member

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I have been wondering for the last few months about this.

Virginity - a matter of dignity or lack of opportunity.

I have been having sex for last six and half years now and had few women in my life. I had only virgin girl. My current GF is a girl who was not virgin when I met her. She had had sex with 1/2 guyz before she met me.

I really wonder and sometimes I become furious because I love her so much and I want to marry her. But it seems that her loss of virginity is a matter that will bother me for all my life.

Although, she is too much honest and loyal to me and she has had sex 3/4 times only (she refuses to tell any details. according to her its something, she is too much ashamed of). According to her she has had sex because of the guy lied to her that he is single and as soon as she knew that he is married, she left her immediately. BTW she lost her virginity to that guy.

Its too difficult to figure it out whether she was really willing to have sex and whatever she has done with that guy.

P.S. THIS IS THE REAL STORY AND IS QUOTED FOR YOUR COMMENTS. IT HAPPENED TO ONE OF MY GOOD FRIEND

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I really wonder and sometimes I become furious because I love her so much and I want to marry her. But it seems that her loss of virginity is a matter that will bother me for all my life.

for heaven sake..!! are u virgin? if u were not virgin, u'd not ask for any girl ,

whats a fair life ..!!

get my point? :o

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I really wonder and sometimes I become furious because I love her so much and I want to marry her. But it seems that her loss of virginity is a matter that will bother me for all my life.

for heaven sake..!! are u virgin? if u were not virgin, u'd not ask for any girl ,

whats a fair life ..!!

get my point? :D

It beggars belief...... :o

Sound like a line from a Mills and Boon novel! :D !

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Oleg_Rus Silver Member

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I have been wondering for the last few months about this.

I have been having sex for last six and half years now and had few women in my life. I had only virgin girl. My current GF is a girl who was not virgin when I met her. She had had sex with 1/2 guyz before she met me.

Although, she is too much honest and loyal to me and she has had sex 3/4 times only (she refuses to tell any details. according to her its something, she is too much ashamed of). According to her she has had sex because of the guy lied to her that he is single and as soon as she knew that he is married, she left her immediately. BTW she lost her virginity to that guy.

6,5 years, 1/2 guyz (trans'ls ?), 3/4times ( 75% of what ?) - pretty wierd...

are you a muslim, so virginity is so important for you ?

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I have been wondering for the last few months about this.

Virginity - a matter of dignity or lack of opportunity.

I have been having sex for last six and half years now and had few women in my life. I had only virgin girl. My current GF is a girl who was not virgin when I met her. She had had sex with 1/2 guyz before she met me.

I really wonder and sometimes I become furious because I love her so much and I want to marry her. But it seems that her loss of virginity is a matter that will bother me for all my life.

Although, she is too much honest and loyal to me and she has had sex 3/4 times only (she refuses to tell any details. according to her its something, she is too much ashamed of). According to her she has had sex because of the guy lied to her that he is single and as soon as she knew that he is married, she left her immediately. BTW she lost her virginity to that guy.

Its too difficult to figure it out whether she was really willing to have sex and whatever she has done with that guy.

P.S. THIS IS THE REAL STORY AND IS QUOTED FOR YOUR COMMENTS. IT HAPPENED TO ONE OF MY GOOD FRIEND

This is a joke right....?

Did you share all details of your previous sexual experiences. Oh my do I feel sorry for the women who have been involved with you :o

...and wait they were virgins, so did you lie to them the same way as the guy lied to your GF?? I am sure this must be a joke :D

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cdnvic Star Member

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Too often this section of the forum seems less for women's discussions, and more for those seeking attention to bait the ladies into an arguement. :o

Removed from the ladies forum to a more general area.

cv

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donna Platinum Member

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This HAS to be a joke, right?

OK. Lets assume not.

AjarnMark, what do you think you have missed out on?

Are you worried that the other guy may have been better than you?

Get a grip, Love. It's the 21st century. If someone chooses to be a virgin until they marry, good for them (yes, I know a few). If they choose to sleep with a partner before hand, good for them.

Get over your 1900's attitude and get with the program, Honey. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

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Merlin Silver Member

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was not virgin when I met her. She had had sex with 1/2 guyz before she met me.

ok I'll leave the easy shot about having sex with a half a guy to others...

but one or two guys, right?

right, like she's

"only been working bar one month now"

"not go with farang before"

"100 baht for taxi?"

any others? - everyone else: add yours here...

btw did you happen to notice how new her cellphone is?

how many tattoos/piercings?

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ajarnmark if your friend is the female half of this relationship I would advise her to run a mile - this is just the beginning of the relationship and the man involved is showing signs of of being a total peanut - it will get worse . When she leaves maybe she should give him the phone number of a local psyhciatrist or maybe seminary

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Totster Star Member

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Definitely a lad - "wanted to play host for some girl named becky"? (reread his posts - all 6 of them) Definitely a troll!

Yeah... now that I see that post...

But don't you think this one sounds like it is from a female.. (allbeit very trollish)

So many nice replies and some of them are real funny. I just wonder the following:

1. An old farang, maybe 50-70 (sometimes he says 50 something, which turns out to be 68), has a girlfriend who is just 20 and she is skinny, dark and have big b***s. Girl cant speak English and the poor old fella cant speak Thai. So, I think only body language.

2. Most of the farangs are piece of sh** and they are really a$$***e, so why they expects that a Thai girl would love them.

3. Dont think that Thai girls r fools. They may have gone throught with maybe more than 100 guyz.

4. It happens everywhere in the world so why only Thailand is to be blamed.

totster :o

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