100,000 Yen Enough ?

[Wasp]

I think there may be two things going on here . I think Banzaii might just be an English guy having a joke . Because this is such a stock standard story of someone heading for huge and expensive disaster . It's the perfect story . So I think it's a wind-up . If I am wrong ..... if you really do exist Banzaii ..... look very carefully at the things people have tried to say to you . Everybody has tried very carefully to say that you are doing totally the wrong thing . Everybody is gently telling you that your lovely Thai lady is almost certainly laughing at you - taking your money - and taking money from other people at the same time . It happens ALL THE TIME and every single day . Girls copy other girls successful emails to extract money from you . And they will never tell you that they are selling sex . They will always tell you they work in a hairdressers or in a hotel . She will kiss you goodbye at the airport Departures and then walk around the corner to the Arrivals lounge to wait for another boyfriend " sponsor" to land. The people here know what they are talking about . You should listen to what they are telling you .

Edited June 8, 2011 by Wasp

[aneliane]

Thankyou Cardholder and Wasp.

i will send 40,000 Yen, 100 looks like to much.

Thankyou to other people to, i don't understand the egg and the other words written or the meaning,sorry.

cardholder, yes, we met on the internet and she lives in pattaya.

Thankyou.

Yoshi.

Yoshi, you met on the Internet but you haven't said what job she has in Pattaya.

If you are sending Y40,000 that is a great addition to her wages. Is she happy to continue 'working' now she has found a boyfriend ? Some girls in Pattaya often like to return to their villages once they have a boyfriend. Perhaps different in Tokyo.

You may have to send a little bit more for her to do this.

Cardholder, thankyou.

She is working in a hair salon in pattaya, she had 3 weeks with no work as her boss had a family problem and closed the salon. now she is back at work, i want to help her but not to give to much.

i gave her 200,000 Yen at the airport when i left Thailand as she had to pay for rent and some money for family, i know it is not easy for her so i can help her a little.

i went with some some people from my office to roppongi last night, 4 people, our bill was total was 300,000 Yen. I paid for woman from england before 6 months ago, 200,000 yen one night, hostess club in ginza.

Thai women are not asking so much money.

Thankyou cardholder

Yoshi

Yoshi, are you confusing Girl Friend and Escort (in Ginza)or do you just have a very strange view on women ?

How can you compare money you give to your Girl friend to "help her" with a night with an escort from Ginza ?

[aneliane]

I think there may be two things going on here . I think Banzaii might just be an English guy having a joke . Because this is such a stock standard story of someone heading for huge and expensive disaster . It's the perfect story . So I think it's a wind-up . If I am wrong ..... if you really do exist Banzaii ..... look very carefully at the things people have tried to say to you . Everybody has tried very carefully to say that you are doing totally the wrong thing . Everybody is gently telling you that your lovely Thai lady is almost certainly laughing at you - taking your money - and taking money from other people at the same time . It happens ALL THE TIME and every single day . Girls copy other girls successful emails to extract money from you . And they will never tell you that they are selling sex . They will always tell you they work in a hairdressers or in a hotel . She will kiss you goodbye at the airport Departures and then walk around the corner to the Arrivals lounge to wait for another boyfriend " sponsor" to land. The people here know what they are talking about . You should listen to what they are telling you .

Oh goodie - Another thread about soi cowboys moaning about being doubled by their Thai gf . See you at post 4562.

[Wasp]

Why do you have to be such a negative whinger ? Nobody here has been moaning about being taken advantage of . Everybody seems to be trying to help Banzaii to AVOID that situation . People are being helpful . Nobody has whined about anything .

[MrsMills]

Why do you have to be such a negative whinger ? Nobody here has been moaning about being taken advantage of . Everybody seems to be trying to help Banzaii to AVOID that situation . People are being helpful . Nobody has whined about anything .

I dunno, you have told a total stranger that his girl is cheating on him, maybe your Thai GF cheated or still cheats on you, but I can assure you that it does not apply to everyone !

Understand this, most here are old men responding to their own relationships with Thai women many many years younger than they are, Yoshi stated he was still in his 20's, it's a totally different scenario.

Yoshi, if you are still on this forum, which somehow I doubt due to the ridiculous responses you had, go ahead, do what you want, the responses you will get from the majority here are from old men, old men that are jealous of your youth, they will always tell you how bad things are or will be for you, what they really mean is, that was what it was or is like for them.

40 years ago they would have been ok !

[aneliane]

Why do you have to be such a negative whinger ? Nobody here has been moaning about being taken advantage of . Everybody seems to be trying to help Banzaii to AVOID that situation . People are being helpful . Nobody has whined about anything .

I dunno, you have told a total stranger that his girl is cheating on him, maybe your Thai GF cheated or still cheats on you, but I can assure you that it does not apply to everyone !

Understand this, most here are old men responding to their own relationships with Thai women many many years younger than they are, Yoshi stated he was still in his 20's, it's a totally different scenario.

Yoshi, if you are still on this forum, which somehow I doubt due to the ridiculous responses you had, go ahead, do what you want, the responses you will get from the majority here are from old men, old men that are jealous of your youth, they will always tell you how bad things are or will be for you, what they really mean is, that was what it was or is like for them.

40 years ago they would have been ok !

I can't agree more; I am getting sick and tired of reading these stories about doubling Thai GF taking all their money, Yoshi if you want to give money to your GF go ahead, give what your heart tells you to give, not some unknown bitter guy here

[Wasp]

It's amazing and sad how many times people use the word " jealous " instead of apllying any intelligence . Nobody said that EVERY girl behaves that way . So why are you imagining a statement that is not there ? It's because you seek to create an argument where there is no argument . Would you NEVER ever advise anybody to take care in dubious situations ? If we see people being ripped off by say a condo developer is it not caring to say to other people to be careful when dealing with condo developers ? Or are we just being "jealous" in your eyes that people are buying a condo ? It's fatuous and lazy to say that people are " jealous" when they are advising caution .

" Jealous" is such an easy and empty word to use . Who has ever expressed any " jealousy" in this context ? If you see people being lied to and conned time after time after in this situation it's rather wise to say to somebody to step with care . If I see someone about to sit on a newly painted bench I think I would say something . Mrs Mills would probably think I am "jealous" of the paint or the bench !

[MrsMills]

If I see someone about to sit on a newly painted bench I think I would say something . Mrs Mills would probably think I am "jealous" of the paint or the bench !

Neither, I'd think you were an old pervert looking at their azz.

[Wasp]

I can see you've applied your total intelligence to that answer .

[transam]

I can see you've applied your total intelligence to that answer .

Must agree, Mrs.Mills is on form .

[PoorSucker]

edit

Edited June 8, 2011 by PoorSucker

[MrsMills]

Or maybe posts stating that young guys send money to Thai women are threatening to the old men who pay for women in Thailand.

Lets face it, if the old mans wife who gets 20,000 Baht per month can get 20,000 Baht per month from a young fit guy who she actually likes and likes to be seen with and actually enjoys his company who do you think she would prefer ?

Boot on the other foot, who would you prefer if you were her ?

No wonder there is so much hostility here !!! :lol:

Old men are miserable.

Edited June 8, 2011 by MrsMills

[MrsMills]

I can see you've applied your total intelligence to that answer .

Must agree, Mrs.Mills is on form .

[transam]

Or maybe posts stating that young guys send money to Thai women are threatening to the old men who pay for women in Thailand.

Lets face it, if the old mans wife who gets 20,000 Baht per month can get 20,000 Baht per month from a young fit guy who she actually likes and likes to be seen with and actually enjoys his company who do you think she would prefer ?

Boot on the other foot, who would you prefer if you were her ?

No wonder there is so much hostility here !!! :lol:

Old men are miserable.

Tell us how old you really are, THEN l will respond with my thoughts. Noooooooooooooooo lies now, how old are you, we don't know who you except it looks like you like dressing up in old ladies outfits, so no problem.

Edited June 8, 2011 by transam

[Wasp]

It would seem certain that poor old Mrs Mills has been badly bitten by somebody . Can you write the word " old" without automatically adding the word " pervert " ? I think not . If you are sitting in all your sadness and bitterness just looking for something negative to say that's not a difficult task . look at your comments . " Not all Thai women are like that " . Quite right . But apparently ALL old men are nasty creatures ! No generalisations there hey ? When you launch into a diatribe against people who are trying to help someone you make yourself look a bitter and sad soul . Try to smile . You must remember what a smile is ?

[MrsMills]

Tell us how old you really are, THEN l will respond with my thoughts.

17

[F1fanatic]

Or maybe posts stating that young guys send money to Thai women are threatening to the old men who pay for women in Thailand.

Lets face it, if the old mans wife who gets 20,000 Baht per month can get 20,000 Baht per month from a young fit guy who she actually likes and likes to be seen with and actually enjoys his company who do you think she would prefer ?

Boot on the other foot, who would you prefer if you were her ?

No wonder there is so much hostility here !!! :lol:

Old men are miserable.

Old men aren't miserable - they're just desperate to believe that they are still attractive to young women....

[MrsMills]

Old men aren't miserable - they're just desperate to believe that they are still attractive to young women....

LOL.

And when reality bites and they realize that it is all about money after all,they join ThaiVisa and post venom filled topics slating all Thai women and become .....................Miserable.

[Wasp]

When you say " they " .... are you truly saying that every old man is desperate to believe he is attractive to young women ? Is that truly what you are saying and what you believe ? I help care for an old guy who was deceived twice by Thai women and their Thai husbands and families . He never believed he was attractive at all . He just thought that he could help someone and inreturn he would have some companionship instead of living in loneliness . Now he just struggles to get by on much-reduced funds . Reduced by lying con people . So he is an old man getting by . Are you saying that along with all the others he is desperate to believe he is attractive ? Simply because he is an old guy in Thailand ? You seem to think you can just make any hurtful statements you like about people who don't deserve it just because you can hide in an internet world .

Edited June 8, 2011 by Wasp

[transam]

Or maybe posts stating that young guys send money to Thai women are threatening to the old men who pay for women in Thailand.

Lets face it, if the old mans wife who gets 20,000 Baht per month can get 20,000 Baht per month from a young fit guy who she actually likes and likes to be seen with and actually enjoys his company who do you think she would prefer ?

Boot on the other foot, who would you prefer if you were her ?

No wonder there is so much hostility here !!! :lol:

Old men are miserable.

Old men aren't miserable - they're just desperate to believe that they are still attractive to young women....

Nothing of the sort. Wake up to the real world of living, not just in your own weee bubble of eeeeeer, hmmmmm, sorry,ignorance. .

[Wasp]

Posted 3 minutes ago

When you say " they " .... are you truly saying that every old man is desperate to believe he is attractive to young women ? Is that truly what you are saying and what you believe ? I help care for an old guy who was deceived twice by Thai women and their Thai husbands and families . He never believed he was attractive at all . He just thought that he could help someone and inreturn he would have some companionship instead of living in loneliness . Now he just struggles to get by on much-reduced funds . Reduced by lying con people . So he is an old man getting by . Are you saying that along with all the others he is desperate to believe he is attractive ? Simply because he is an old guy in Thailand ? You seem to think you can just make any hurtful statements you like about people who don't deserve it just because you can hide in an internet world .

Old men aren't miserable - they're just desperate to believe that they are still attractive to young women....

LOL.

And when reality bites and they realize that it is all about money after all,they join ThaiVisa and post venom filled topics slating all Thai women and become .....................Miserable.

[F1fanatic]

When you say " they " .... are you truly saying that every old man is desperate to believe he is attractive to young women ? Is that truly what you are saying and what you believe ? I help care for an old guy who was deceived twice by Thai women and their Thai husbands and families . He never believed he was attractive at all . He just thought that he could help someone and inreturn he would have some companionship instead of living in loneliness . Now he just struggles to get by on much-reduced funds . Reduced by lying con people . So he is an old man getting by . Are you saying that along with all the others he is desperate to believe he is attractive ? Simply because he is an old guy in Thailand ? You seem to think you can just make any hurtful statements you like about people who don't deserve it just because you can hide in an internet world .

You're right. I've no doubt that this old guy was twice deceived by Thai women when he was only interested in helping them financially and seeking companionship. Obviously he never believed that they cared about him and realised it was all about money....

If he'd given them enough money they would have given him the 'companionship' he desired.

[aneliane]

Or maybe posts stating that young guys send money to Thai women are threatening to the old men who pay for women in Thailand.

Lets face it, if the old mans wife who gets 20,000 Baht per month can get 20,000 Baht per month from a young fit guy who she actually likes and likes to be seen with and actually enjoys his company who do you think she would prefer ?

Boot on the other foot, who would you prefer if you were her ?

No wonder there is so much hostility here !!! :lol:

Old men are miserable.

Spot on !

[transam]

Old men aren't miserable - they're just desperate to believe that they are still attractive to young women....

LOL.

And when reality bites and they realize that it is all about money after all,they join ThaiVisa and post venom filled topics slating all Thai women and become .....................Miserable.

17 eh, well not worth an input from me as you haven't lived yet.

You talk of reality, what's reality to many of life's up's and downs and how to move on and live a life instead of curling up and dying. For the brave, what ever age, go for it and live, not listen to whipper snappers who have done nothing in their lives or are afraid to do something.

[aneliane]

Old men aren't miserable - they're just desperate to believe that they are still attractive to young women....

LOL.

And when reality bites and they realize that it is all about money after all,they join ThaiVisa and post venom filled topics slating all Thai women and become .....................Miserable.

So true ...

[transam]

Old men aren't miserable - they're just desperate to believe that they are still attractive to young women....

LOL.

And when reality bites and they realize that it is all about money after all,they join ThaiVisa and post venom filled topics slating all Thai women and become .....................Miserable.

So true ...

Not another one, few posts in years and is miserable cos he's been ripped off.

[TheWalkingMan]

17

IF you actually are 17 then you really have not lived enough. Not a slight, but just the facts. You are still learning about yourself/life the world.

TheWalkingMan

[aneliane]

You talk of reality, what's reality to many of life's up's and downs and how to move on and live a life instead of curling up and dying. For the brave, what ever age, go for it and live, not listen to whipper snappers who have done nothing in their lives or are afraid to do something.

"Curling up and dying " translate : date women of their age in their own country.

"live a life" translate : Get a thai bride half my age, try to believe she's not here for the money, and moan when I realize it's not the case

[aneliane]

You talk of reality, what's reality to many of life's up's and downs and how to move on and live a life instead of curling up and dying. For the brave, what ever age, go for it and live, not listen to whipper snappers who have done nothing in their lives or are afraid to do something.

"Curling up and dying " translate : date women of their age in their own country.

"live a life" translate : Get a thai gf half my age, try to believe she's not here for the money, and moan on ThaiVisa when I realize it's not the case

[Gary A]

Yoshi, Don't pay too much attention to the cynics and Thai women haters here. If it is not a burden to you and it makes you happy, go for it. You will likely be well rewarded. The losers here think everyone is as stupid as they were.