32x Posted December 25, 2003 Share Posted December 25, 2003 Need some advice please? Later 2004 i plan to Marry my TGF. THE OTHER DAY WHEN WE WERE TALKING ABOUT THIS ON THE PHONE SHE TOLD ME SHE WANTED ME TO BE A MONK BEFORE WE MARRIED,AT HER LOCAL TEMPLE NEAR PIMMAI(KORAT). It seems like a really big deal to her so i said ok(wot have i let myself into?). So any advice from ex monks or other guys that have done this would be great. Many Thanks 32x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sabaijai Posted December 25, 2003 Share Posted December 25, 2003 7 days, nothing to it. Cut your hair real short before ordination day (if it's not already short), as it makes it easier for the wat to shave your head, less nicks, etc. The eyebrows go, too. Bring enough mossie repellant for a week and your set. The wat will provide everything else. I'd consider it an honor that your were asked. There's a Thai Buddhist saying that says it's better to live one day virtuous and meditative as a monk than it is to live a hundred years as a layman. Just a folk saying, but it conveys the importance placed on being a monk even if temporarily. Perhaps this topic belongs in another forum category though ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alleypanda Posted December 25, 2003 Share Posted December 25, 2003 hope you have a good time lol I think that is a little strenge. You will have to shave all of your hair and wearing yellow cloth(nothing underneath), eat only ONCE a day at 11 am. before that you have to ask a permition from the temple where you were attented to be in Balee language. It is a thai trediton for thai men he has to be a monk before he got married for his mother because we, thais believe that is the best bliss whoch is lead mother to the heaven . why can't you be a monk afterward? that because then your wife going to share a half of blissing. My father never be a monk,said that is no fun:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted December 25, 2003 Share Posted December 25, 2003 what about after you are married? can you still do it? have asked this b4 but so far no answer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alleypanda Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 you can become a monk whenever you want. (lord BD became a monk after he got married) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaiAdventure Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 Becomming a monk (or Nun) is more like going to confession than a lifestyle choice. You can do it when you like, for as long as you like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
32x Posted December 26, 2003 Author Share Posted December 26, 2003 Thanks for all the great advice. If its going to make my future wife happy im more than glad to do it. With some luck it should make me a better person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 You'll actually get two meals a day...breakfast and lunch. The mozzie repellant is a good idea, as is getting your hair down to the undercoat in advance. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 Saw a Nephew go thru the process, party in the morning then off to temple in arvo got the robes on and saw him a week later. Wife has mentioned it to me a couple of times will have a long hard think about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 A week at the Adelaide Wat in the first week of spring might be the go Bronco ( If there's enough Thai's there in Adelaide to ensure that you don't starve ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the gentleman Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 I would say that is the first time I have heard a potential or wife ask this and Bronco as well? I have heard of farngs going to the wat, but being asked to by the MRS - Is this common? Good Luck to you mate, practice crossing those legs I would say. Dr P, As I am also from the city of churches, is there a big Thai contingent there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuky Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 My sister-in-law spent a week at the wat recently, she bought one of those fake bald head things so she didn't have to shave her head. Very interesting. Anyone ever heard of a woman doing it before? What kind of reasons would a woman need for becoming a monk for a week? 32x, if my wife had asked me to I would have jumped at the experience. Good luck. Hope you enjoy it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 Dr P, As I am also from the city of churches, is there a big Thai contingent there? Last time I ws there I thought there were more pubs than Churches. I don't think that there is a huge Thai Community thereabouts, but ole Bronco will jump in and say what is what. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 Jumping in head first doc There isn't a huge Thai community here, more Vietnamese and to a lesser degree Cambodian. The Temple is an old house in Thebarton just behind the brewery. There are usually about 3 Monks living there and they are Uni students. There used to be an older Monk who I used to go and try to meditate with on Wednesday nights but he went back to Thailand last year (or at the beginning of this year) he was 90 and hasn't returned, he was called Master. He took a Farang guy (called Sam) with him who lived and worked at the temple, he hasn't returned either which is why I assumed you got a special deal if you went into servitude. I am seriously considering doing the time it seems to be very important to her, she only mentions it casually but me in a Wat well? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the gentleman Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 Ok Bronco, I know of that Wat near the west end brewery (good place for a Wat), are you actually living in Adelaide with your Thai wife?, if so how is it for her, friends/clubs etc? I havent lived in Adelaide for about 15 years so I have no idea re anything really to do with the local Thai groups - but I do know the crows didnt win the flag -sob Apologies mate, if you have stated where you are living, before - I didnt pick that up. P.S My brother runs a pub there, speaks a bit of Thai (he lived in Thailand for about a year), If you are there I will PM you the name of the pub and Ill shout you a VB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 yes gentleman, we live here in Glenelg. If you know that Wat you might know the Master cause he was here at the set up stage 20 years ago. There used to be a Thai/Oz society but that has been put in limbo because of public liability insurance costs (thanks jonny and costello) You probably remember Jaye Walton from channel 10 she is the Consul person here for Thai I will take that VB from Brother interested to see where pub is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the gentleman Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 yes gentleman, we live here in Glenelg. If you know that Wat you might know the Master cause he was here at the set up stage 20 years ago. There used to be a Thai/Oz society but that has been put in limbo because of public liability insurance costs (thanks jonny and costello)You probably remember Jaye Walton from channel 10 she is the Consul person here for Thai I will take that VB from Brother interested to see where pub is I sent you a PM, had a few hot days of late, Ive heard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 VB in Adelaide.....jeez. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nat Posted December 26, 2003 Share Posted December 26, 2003 VB in Adelaide.....jeez. still peed off bout the grand prix Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 petrol head Nat ? I thought you to be a sophisticate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 Nat . the vics can have it we have the Clipsal 500 rather watch V8 any day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 Allthewhile drinkin' gins p*ss. Not a true son of the State. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 cmon doc you drink southwark most people cant pronounce let alone drink it and west end is best left alone. our wine I am led to believe is the best in the world Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 cmon doc you drink southwark most people cant pronounce let alone drink it and west end is best left alone. our wine I am led to believe is the best in the world I have tried both....the complex named one is pronounced Suthic. The best wine in the world is Hensche's Hill of Grace, Dr Penfold knocks up a great drop, and the new one now 2000 Jacobs Creek Reserve Shiraz ( from the Barossa ) is superb to my taste. About 16 bucks a throw in Oz. Try one Bronco. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roger13 Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 SHE TOLD ME SHE WANTED ME TO BE A MONK BEFORE WE MARRIED,AT HER LOCAL TEMPLE NEAR PIMMAI(KORAT). Meanwhile Back at the Topic ... 32x - It is my Understanding that becoming a Monk was not a Prelude to your Marraige per se As I understand it - it is Thai Custom for a man to be a Monk for 3 or 6 months as a Stepping stone in life around the age of 20 (and therefore before Marriage) So many Thai Men have had a spell in the Temple Also I understood that regards to food - a Monk takes his last meal BEFORE Midday. But I have witnessed beverages being drunk at "Tea time" - Horlicks etc. Has your G/F checked that that Wat is prepared to take a Farang novice for a mere 7 days? Roger Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nat Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 petrol head Nat ? I thought you to be a sophisticate. corporate marquees darling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sabaijai Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 This is no longer about becoming a monk in Thailand, it's 'Advance Australia' wine propaganda. Topic hereby closed Oops I don't have that power, never mind! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 7 days is the minimum. I know this from first hand experience in Khonkaen, a nephew did it. Isn't the "Grange Hemitage" the one doc? I like a good 2003 vitage VB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted December 27, 2003 Share Posted December 27, 2003 We are getting up the nose of recovering alcoholics Bronco. It is off topic I agree. Go start a wine thread. My dad says that there's no such thing as a bad beer, but he says, a couple of the Sydney beers come close to being bad. IMHO Grange is a lesser ' light '. Hensche Hill of Grace is #1. Just there in the Barossa, but like hens teeth to acquire. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p1p Posted December 28, 2003 Share Posted December 28, 2003 Back to Monkhood. Perhaps you should all do it. I ordained for a spell several years ago, in honour of HM the King's 60th. I still think of it as about the best time of my life. Beware one thing though, loose robes and no underwear make for potential embarrasing moments, particularly when you sit down. Do it, you'll enjoy the experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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