FreddyHeineken Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 Hi All, Having trouble finding out if there is anyway I can get a restraining order against former thaigirlfriend. Its becoming kind of emberassing, sicko walking in wile in a business lunch etc All input much appreciated. Freddy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 Freddy, Just pay her OK? You'll thank me for it. Regards, NL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kerryk Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 Do you know her name? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 Freddy, Just pay her OK? You'll thank me for it. Regards, NL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richard4849 Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 I have never heard of such thing as restraint order in Thailand. Move house and change your phone number. And try to find a lady with no mental health issues next time 'round. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DLock Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 I just want to hear more stories about what happens when she walks into your lunch meetings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yermanee Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 All very helpful answers to OP's problem. Have you guys never heard of a woman scorned. To OP offer some money to your local police for having a quiet talk with her. Yermanee :jap: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 It's amazing how many "businessmen" (usually TEFLers trying to dabble in something else) have similar problems once they think it's time to "move on up the ladder". I wonder if it has anything to do with which particular pool they pluck their Thai "girlfriends" from early in their time here? I'm with #1 here. You were probably her meal ticket and girls of a certain nature don't like to lose said meal ticket. Give her a pay off and that will be an end to it. Trust me, her behaviour is highly unlikely to be down to your good looks and charm, no matter how good looking or charming you may be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rgs2001uk Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 All very helpful answers to OP's problem. Have you guys never heard of a woman scorned. To OP offer some money to your local police for having a quiet talk with her. Yermanee :jap: Yes I have heard of a woman scorned. I have also witnessed how Thai guys react, and it wasnt by offering money to the local police. Not much use in the OPs position, but Thai guys dont stand for this nonsense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nocturn Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 (edited) the cop route worked for me, a bottle of sangsom and 500 baht. mine was not an ex, it was a woman in the neighborhood who started following me out of the blue. I had never spoken to her let alone slept with her. She was pretty fit though. It all came to a head when i woke up one morning and she was standing in my bedroom at the foot of my bed. she came into the house through a second story window. scared the crap out of me. i ejected her by her hair. Cop went by her home, picked her up, drove her to the station and showed her a cell. she never bothered me again. I did see her having dinner with a white guy a couple of months later. I wonder how that worked out, Edited September 23, 2011 by nocturn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 (edited) Could the OP give us more details as to the circumstances leading up to this alleged harassment? Then perhaps we would be better able to advise. For example: how long was the OP and his girlfriend together, what caused the break up and is there any property or children involved? Always two sides to a story. Edited September 23, 2011 by Beetlejuice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kananga Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 All very helpful answers to OP's problem. Have you guys never heard of a woman scorned. To OP offer some money to your local police for having a quiet talk with her. Yermanee :jap: Yes I have heard of a woman scorned. I have also witnessed how Thai guys react, and it wasnt by offering money to the local police. Not much use in the OPs position, but Thai guys dont stand for this nonsense. And Thai police take less notice if she gets punched in the mouth by a thai guy than a foreigner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 I did see her having dinner with a white guy a couple of months later. I wonder how that worked out, That was Freddy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elgato Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 You didn't say why she is your "former" gf - might answer why she is coming around. Pay a cop to have a chat with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FreddyHeineken Posted October 1, 2011 Author Share Posted October 1, 2011 hmm ill do that . You didn't say why she is your "former" gf - might answer why she is coming around. Pay a cop to have a chat with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Petesear Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 A similar thing happened to a friend of mine over a few years. She would turn up, on or around pay day, at the school he taught in and shout, scream and swear outside the teachers' room. She was eventually banned from school grounds but not before stabbing him a couple of times. She is dead now(not sure how) and he lives in Cambodia. Find a friendly Plod is the best advice... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welsh1 Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 All very helpful answers to OP's problem. Have you guys never heard of a woman scorned. To OP offer some money to your local police for having a quiet talk with her. Yermanee :jap: Yes I have heard of a woman scorned. I have also witnessed how Thai guys react, and it wasnt by offering money to the local police. Not much use in the OPs position, but Thai guys dont stand for this nonsense. Spot On...many falangs worrying about how to deal with there X GF in Thailand.... Thai men don't worry about that shit...they will warn them once maybe twice and if they will still not listen. .well they wount be needing any warning a third time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swiss1960 Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 All very helpful answers to OP's problem. Have you guys never heard of a woman scorned. To OP offer some money to your local police for having a quiet talk with her. Yermanee :jap: Yes I have heard of a woman scorned. I have also witnessed how Thai guys react, and it wasnt by offering money to the local police. Not much use in the OPs position, but Thai guys dont stand for this nonsense. Spot On...many falangs worrying about how to deal with there X GF in Thailand.... Thai men don't worry about that shit...they will warn them once maybe twice and if they will still not listen. .well they wount be needing any warning a third time So you wanna suggest to the OP to act the same as Thai??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outofoz Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 Do you know her name? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welsh1 Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 (edited) All very helpful answers to OP's problem. Have you guys never heard of a woman scorned. To OP offer some money to your local police for having a quiet talk with her. Yermanee :jap: Yes I have heard of a woman scorned. I have also witnessed how Thai guys react, and it wasnt by offering money to the local police. Not much use in the OPs position, but Thai guys dont stand for this nonsense. Spot On...many falangs worrying about how to deal with there X GF in Thailand.... Thai men don't worry about that shit...they will warn them once maybe twice and if they will still not listen. .well they wount be needing any warning a third time So you wanna suggest to the OP to act the same as Thai??? Not saying to act the same as a Thai...what i am saying there are to many falangs in thailand worrying about upsetting,how to deal with un wanted X GF And then go around tippy tip toeing around as not upset them..when some times you have to speak the universal language .. and tell them to F@#K..OFF Edited October 2, 2011 by welsh1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 All very helpful answers to OP's problem. Have you guys never heard of a woman scorned. To OP offer some money to your local police for having a quiet talk with her. Yermanee :jap: Yes I have heard of a woman scorned. I have also witnessed how Thai guys react, and it wasnt by offering money to the local police. Not much use in the OPs position, but Thai guys dont stand for this nonsense. Spot On...many falangs worrying about how to deal with there X GF in Thailand.... Thai men don't worry about that shit...they will warn them once maybe twice and if they will still not listen. .well they wount be needing any warning a third time So you wanna suggest to the OP to act the same as Thai??? When in Rome Bangkok... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 I did see her having dinner with a white guy a couple of months later. I wonder how that worked out, That was Freddy :cheesy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dag Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 This thread is useless without photos.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkfoxi Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 Bangkok Psycho !!! hahhaha , reading this thread b4 head to bed , just can't stop laughing - u guys here just watching too much of Psycho movie? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkatl Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 On 9/23/2011 at 3:59 PM, HeavyDrinker said: It's amazing how many "businessmen" (usually TEFLers trying to dabble in something else) have similar problems once they think it's time to "move on up the ladder". I wonder if it has anything to do with which particular pool they pluck their Thai "girlfriends" from early in their time here? I'm with #1 here. You were probably her meal ticket and girls of a certain nature don't like to lose said meal ticket. Give her a pay off and that will be an end to it. Trust me, her behaviour is highly unlikely to be down to your good looks and charm, no matter how good looking or charming you may be. It has nothing to do with the pool we get them from. I had a respectable Thai teacher at an international school from a pretty wealthu family (not high so but no where close to por) and when I ended it she left without a fight. But three months later when she saw me and a new girl the trouble started. She did and still is threatening me for money etc. The new girl suggest it's time to go to the police. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thongkorn Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 Her name is MIss Want Moremoney, 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunBENQ Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 (edited) The thread is more than 8 years old. The short lived topic starter left us in 2011. Time to put this to the bin. Edited March 4, 2020 by KhunBENQ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 As noted above, this topic was originated in 2011 and is out of date and now closed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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