jonesy2648 Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Hi, my name is Barry Jones A young 63 year old West Aussie and married to my Thai Wife of 8 years Thanyalak We currently live in Perth Western Australia but will be relocating Permanently to Korat City Thailand We recently had our dream house built in Sirarom Village at Khok Kruat which is in the Sirarom area 10 minutes South of the City of Korat I have visited Thailand on numerous occasions and fell in love with the People, The Culture and Lifestyle and also the climate We will be back in Thailand in the first week of December this year and hopefully will be able to stay this time I am interested in meeting and making new friends in person and also on this Forum. So hello everybody! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanForbes Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Keep your head down for a while as there are those that like to knock it off... even if you say something sensible. And, above everything else... read the rules and understand them... and never, never, never break them. Otherwise you will get along fine. Just don't take anything anyone says too seriously... including myself. Other than that... welcome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Best advice I can give you on TV....Get a thick skin quickly, and dont take too much of what is said too seriously.... ps the rosey coloured spectacles you will wear when first living in Thailand will come off pretty quickly.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toffo9 Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Goodluck to you and your lady.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dean999 Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 (edited) Best advice I can give you on TV....Get a thick skin quickly, and dont take too much of what is said too seriously.... ps the rosey coloured spectacles you will wear when first living in Thailand will come off pretty quickly.... I take affence to what your saying. When i was in the SAS............................... Edit - Forgot to say Goodluck to you and your wife. Edited October 7, 2011 by dean999 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Best advice I can give you on TV....Get a thick skin quickly, and dont take too much of what is said too seriously.... ps the rosey coloured spectacles you will wear when first living in Thailand will come off pretty quickly.... I take affence to what your saying. When i was in the SAS............................... Are you an English teacher now ?....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanForbes Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 ps the rosey coloured spectacles you will wear when first living in Thailand will come off pretty quickly.... I don't think so. I think mine were surgically implanted. After 15 years I STILL see that rosey tint. But then I don't spend what I can't afford to lose. A police bribe for a motor vehicle offense in Thailand is cheaper by far than a parking ticket in Canada. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaifkrlim Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 why farang men who are married to thai wives and brought them back home always end up relocating back to Thailand after some time, and then permanently , semi permanent...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanForbes Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 why farang men who are married to thai wives and brought them back home always end up relocating back to Thailand after some time, and then permanently , semi permanent...... Answer is simple... wife not happy = husband not happy. I'm not saying that is the case here, though. It often takes some sorting out where to make a home that suits everyone. Living with someone is always a compromise. That is why I stay single... I'm selfish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Considering that I am the most intelligent Thai visa member (I have references from the Mods), my advice is, don`t jump the gun. Believe me there is a world of difference between visiting or holidaying in Thailand then living here permanently. You may also find that as for making friends, the pockets of ex-pats spread over the country are not that friendly or welcoming. Before you pack up completely in the land where they breed sheep with kangaroos for the production of woolly jumpers, try Thailand out first, for perhaps a year to see how you get on and to decide if Thailand is for you. Thailand. It can take a considerable time to decide whether you love it or hate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanForbes Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Considering that I am the most intelligent Thai visa member (I have references from the Mods), my advice is, don`t jump the gun. Believe me there is a world of difference between visiting or holidaying in Thailand then living here permanently. You may also find that as for making friends, the pockets of ex-pats spread over the country are not that friendly or welcoming. Before you pack up completely in the land where they breed sheep with kangaroos for the production of woolly jumpers, try Thailand out first, for perhaps a year to see how you get on and to decide if Thailand is for you. Thailand. It can take a considerable time to decide whether you love it or hate it. X2 I couldn't agree more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astral Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Considering that I am the most intelligent Thai visa member (I have references from the Mods), my advice is, don`t jump the gun. Believe me there is a world of difference between visiting or holidaying in Thailand then living here permanently. You may also find that as for making friends, the pockets of ex-pats spread over the country are not that friendly or welcoming. Before you pack up completely in the land where they breed sheep with kangaroos for the production of woolly jumpers, try Thailand out first, for perhaps a year to see how you get on and to decide if Thailand is for you. Thailand. It can take a considerable time to decide whether you love it or hate it. X2 I couldn't agree more. X3 Real life in LOS is not for everyone. Don't burn your bridges until you have tried it for at least 5 years. Even then, think again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 why farang men who are married to thai wives and brought them back home always end up relocating back to Thailand after some time, and then permanently , semi permanent...... Its because the police ask less questions here when the farang husband commits "sucide".... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mca Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 (edited) I am interested in meeting and making new friends in person and also on this Forum. Jonesy simply go into the News Forum and post something like " Thaksin's conviction was politically motivated and he's innocent", " Aphisit should be charged with murder after the Bangkok protests last year" or " Yingluck is not a proxy for her brother and is doing a pretty good job so far" There'll be posters lining up to welcome you with their thoughts on your comments. Edited October 8, 2011 by mca Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nong38 Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 (edited) Look and learn and enjoy the bits inbetween, remember these words "you dont understand!" one day you will. Take one step at a time and make sure they little ones. Edited October 8, 2011 by nong38 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monty1412 Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 why farang men who are married to thai wives and brought them back home always end up relocating back to Thailand after some time, and then permanently , semi permanent...... no somtam carts in West aussie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tonto21 Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 Considering that I am the most intelligent Thai visa member (I have references from the Mods), my advice is, don`t jump the gun. Believe me there is a world of difference between visiting or holidaying in Thailand then living here permanently. You may also find that as for making friends, the pockets of ex-pats spread over the country are not that friendly or welcoming. Before you pack up completely in the land where they breed sheep with kangaroos for the production of woolly jumpers, try Thailand out first, for perhaps a year to see how you get on and to decide if Thailand is for you. Thailand. It can take a considerable time to decide whether you love it or hate it. OP this is good advice mate, take time to digest it. As for 'Beetlejuice' being the brains of TV….Maybe he is, just maybe....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 Welcome jonesy. This is a great time to visit LOS and see if you need to catch a ferry to get home! Here's hoping your dream home is high-and-dry right now... and forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robblok Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 Considering that I am the most intelligent Thai visa member (I have references from the Mods), my advice is, don`t jump the gun. Believe me there is a world of difference between visiting or holidaying in Thailand then living here permanently. You may also find that as for making friends, the pockets of ex-pats spread over the country are not that friendly or welcoming. Before you pack up completely in the land where they breed sheep with kangaroos for the production of woolly jumpers, try Thailand out first, for perhaps a year to see how you get on and to decide if Thailand is for you. Thailand. It can take a considerable time to decide whether you love it or hate it. X2 I couldn't agree more. X3 Real life in LOS is not for everyone. Don't burn your bridges until you have tried it for at least 5 years. Even then, think again. x4 And i think its extra hard if your ending up in some village where you don't have access to western things and your the only foreigners. You will be isolated. I find it not fair on the husband that many of those wifes who are not happy in the west expect the guy to be happy in a small village and much more isolated then they ever were. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simon43 Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 (edited) ... and married to my Thai Wife of 8 years ... Rather young, don't you think?? Welcome to the forum!! Simon Edited October 8, 2011 by simon43 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaimate Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 why farang men who are married to thai wives and brought them back home always end up relocating back to Thailand after some time, and then permanently , semi permanent...... Answer is simple... wife not happy = husband not happy. I'm not saying that is the case here, though. It often takes some sorting out where to make a home that suits everyone. Living with someone is always a compromise. That is why I stay single... I'm selfish. Not always the case ,my wife loved England as did my son , but i did'nt want to work till i dropped and got fed up with the appaling schools ,so we came here and we all love it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 ... and married to my Thai Wife of 8 years ... Rather young, don't you think?? Welcome to the forum!! Simon Puts a whole meaning on the term child bride doesnt it ?..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 ... and married to my Thai Wife of 8 years ... Rather young, don't you think?? Welcome to the forum!! Simon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaifkrlim Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 it is easier for the aging farang to liquidate his assets back home, pack up and reinvest his money on properties and all things in thailand so that the automated will will be eventually available conveniently benefiting the thai population Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeyserSoze01 Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 why farang men who are married to thai wives and brought them back home always end up relocating back to Thailand after some time, and then permanently , semi permanent...... Answer is simple... wife not happy = husband not happy. I'm not saying that is the case here, though. It often takes some sorting out where to make a home that suits everyone. Living with someone is always a compromise. That is why I stay single... I'm selfish. +1 and agree completely. At this stage of my life, my happiness is more important to me that attempting to make someone else happy. After many relationships, I have learned that you cannot make someone happy as happiness comes from within, not from external sources. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonesy2648 Posted October 9, 2011 Author Share Posted October 9, 2011 (edited) Yeah Right!! That would be a really good start for sure!! ( Start a political Fight with the politicians before i even reside there! ) thanks for the advice BUT No Thanks! I have my reasons for wanting to live in Thailand, The main one being is that this country (Australia) is being run by an Idiot!, the cost of living is getting out of hand and unaffordable and I want to ENJOY the rest of my life. As far as rosey glasses go, I do not need them! my vision is perfect and i have a brain! I have visited Thailand and stayed on numerous occasions and I like being there, I like the People and the culture and I married into a really good family. I do not intend to become just another English Teacher No! i have ways of making an income while in Thailand for the next two years until i am get my pension. Not having a shot personally, but it seems that there are a lot of Farangs on this and other forums that are not happy with what goes on politically in Thailand? All those people need to remember that they are in another country, not necessarily theirs and need to adapt just like I will have to. You have to take a step back and think about it? If all of these so called Wingeing Farangs dont like being there, or dont like the way things are? Then Why are You All There? I am a Positive thinking person and would love to make friends with positive thinking people. There You Go, I have had my say! Nothing Personal......................But that is my Opinion that I am entitled to................................So I hope I have not offended anyone! especially the ex SAS guy As i am Ex army myself, a two tour conscript. Jonesy simply go into the News Forum and post something like " Thaksin's conviction was politically motivated and he's innocent", " Aphisit should be charged with murder after the Bangkok protests last year" or " Yingluck is not a proxy for her brother and is doing a pretty good job so far" There'll be posters lining up to welcome you with their thoughts on your comments. Edited October 9, 2011 by Tywais Repaired quote tags Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welsh1 Posted October 9, 2011 Share Posted October 9, 2011 Barry Jones ??? ..from Australia ? with a welsh name ?....welcome to thaivisa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thongkorn Posted October 9, 2011 Share Posted October 9, 2011 why farang men who are married to thai wives and brought them back home always end up relocating back to Thailand after some time, and then permanently , semi permanent...... Its because the police ask less questions here when the farang husband commits "sucide".... Probly because the dole office back in Blyte has found them out, And has offerd them a Job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Checker Posted October 10, 2011 Share Posted October 10, 2011 JONSEY - If Oz is being run by an idiot the alternative (Abbott) is a complete idiot . . . and a very dangerous man . . . I left W.A. with my Thai wife of 12 years in 2008 and moved to Thailand with the intention of me riding out my days there playing golf and socialising ... We visited Thailand for holidays every year leading up to our departure. . . After 12 months my wife had enough and wanted to move back to Oz (Port Macquarie) where we now live. My wife found it very difficult to adjust back into Thai life after living in Australia for so long. . . So it may not be you who finds it hard to adjust but the wife . . . . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payboy Posted October 10, 2011 Share Posted October 10, 2011 I have my reasons for wanting to live in Thailand, The main one being is that this country (Australia) is being run by an Idiot! Welcome to Thailand. Same same but different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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