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Which Online Datingsite Is Farang Woman Friendly?

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Ludditeman, my thai friends & family are not from the south nor are ANY of them muslim.

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Yes, we live in the 21st century, and yes women and men (are supposed to) have equal rights, but the nature of a woman is totally different from the nature of the man.

Men are hunters, women...etc..etc

Even though we have birth control methods and women are free to enjoy sex without being afraid of getting pregnant, it is still in her nature to be selective, to be careful.

So personally I wonder why women have sex on a first date, options are:

- for fun

- to win the guy emotionally for whatever the reason (for men sex is the glue)

- therapeutical (to get her confidence back, to feel desired/loved etc)

- a man is as a fitness equipment to her.

etc.

Each option is fine with me, as long as both parties are happy.

But if a woman is in there for a serious relationship, she'll wait. She knows how she'll be seen in general and by the man when she gives herself on a first date. Plus, like one poster mentioned, a woman needs to feel safe and needs more than 1 date to give herself totally and not only her body.

We all want someone special and if I were a man and I'd have a partner with whom I had sex on a first date, I would wonder why she couldn't wait.

Call me narrow minded, but this is how I think about it.

You know, the innocent pre-sex phase is so delicate and beautiful, it will never come back.

To meet that someone you can do 2 things:

- meet as many people as you can, but then you have to kiss 1000 frogs before you find that one.

or

- be selective and kiss a handful of frogs and meet the prince biggrin.gif Haha...

To be honest I have looked at both Thaikiss and ThaiFriendly. I do this after work as there is nothing to do offshore or in the desert and from what the women I speak with say I don't know if it would be worth your time. From what I gather most guys try to turn the convo into a sex talk with in 5 minutes. So though I don't know you I will make an assumption that this is not what you are looking for. Is there no place or functions that Expats living and working in Thailand hold? Save the odd golf tourney I have never heard of anything. Maybe its an idea to look and see if there is anything of that sort. Always more fun to meet a group of people to me anyway.

There is only one site to look on. Not fully focussing on dating between Thai and farang, but its a global site with users all over the world and most functions are free to use.

I am talking about badoo.com ;)

There is only one site to look on. Not fully focussing on dating between Thai and farang, but its a global site with users all over the world and most functions are free to use.

I am talking about badoo.com ;)

Uh,yah. And it's a scam/phishing site. 'BartPattaya' - '11 posts' LOL!

ps: If you wouldn't resort to online 'dating' in your home countries, why on earth here?!

Get out more.

Edited by silsburyhill

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Thanks to all for posting!!!

I tried some of the sites mentioned, to find my luck just like Eek did rolleyes.gif

But the online thing in Thailand is really not for me.

Tagged: what a non-sense... superficial and 99% of emails started with : "Hello baby, why don't you email me at XXXX" or " Your lips are so xxxx. and your eyes are xxx, I think you are my soulmate.." I needed a bucket too often.

Also tried datingsites, but men responding were a lot older than I am and they wanted to meet women(girls) a lot younger than I am biggrin.gif Why did they contact me anyway!? Others emailed me too: swingers... lesbians... ladyboys... very young Thai boys...

I received more interests/emails than I thought I would, but none of them triggered me enough to actually meet them. I knew a few men who contacted me online also IRL, but what I read in their profile just turned me off.

In general I think Western men change when they arrive in Thailand, and often in a way I don't find very appealing. They get stuck in 'fun'. I guess it is the availability of too much candy here...

I also signed in on a dating site in my passport country, and... what a relief! Guys my age responded, only a few were 10 years older, but with the same interests and who took time to write me a proper email, sometimes funny, sometimes serious, but always making an effort to connect. Even if none of them end up being my bf, at least I connected with a few who have become my friends.

So I basically quit trying to find someone in Thailand to fall in love with smile.gif

Being a western woman in Thailand

http://www.bangkokdi...an-in-thailand/

And

I wonder...why do western

men andwomen throw mud to each other...

The guy is basically right.

The dating market is just a market as everywhere. You have to offer something - you will be successful.

Women in the West are supposed to be tough, narcissistic, self-centered and unfeminine - the results of decades of feminist reeducation.

The total opposite here. Women here know that they have to make efforts to get a good boyfriend or husband.

That's why your Western education leads to nowhere here in Asia.

But you can learn something from it. If you want to compete with the local women, you have to move up and show similar standards. Not only about looks, but even more important about attitude.

So instead of becoming bitter and lonely, Asia can lead you to a process of self-improvement.

Up to you. But remember: men do have a choice. And they will not lower their requirements.

Yes, you women, learn to obsess publicly over your pimples, smile or giggle insipidly no matter what, be a personal body servant, provide all meals and do all the housework and you too can have a western man!!

Oh, and it help to resemble a child with a too big a head for a tiny body, apparently.

NO thanks.

Besides, as the average western male visiting or even residing within Thailand is likely to have made the ease of sexual procurement a factor in his choice to move here, and they aren't usually using condoms, I say let the Thai women have their nasty DDD.

We western lasses certainly aren't missing much with those dregs.

Every now and then I get a glimpse of an really attractive western man, just a tourist of course,and realize I do miss good looking men. Gawd, I had some stunning boyfriends in my heyday.

I often have thought a Chippendale's style bar replete with gorgeous strippers would do quite well in the tourist centres.

Honestly, It is good to have gone through menopause, really changes the view on men and whether a relationship is important, or not. Or what you'll put up for one, at least.

Edited by TigerWan

I think it is just a double standard. Women are supposed to be less sexual. more " wholesome" And are judged by wholly different criteria regarding promiscuity. Screw that.

Yes, we live in the 21st century, and yes women and men (are supposed to) have equal rights, but the nature of a woman is totally different from the nature of the man.

Men are hunters, women...etc..etc

Even though we have birth control methods and women are free to enjoy sex without being afraid of getting pregnant, it is still in her nature to be selective, to be careful.

So personally I wonder why women have sex on a first date, options are:

- for fun

- to win the guy emotionally for whatever the reason (for men sex is the glue)

- therapeutical (to get her confidence back, to feel desired/loved etc)

- a man is as a fitness equipment to her.

etc.

Each option is fine with me, as long as both parties are happy.

But if a woman is in there for a serious relationship, she'll wait. She knows how she'll be seen in general and by the man when she gives herself on a first date. Plus, like one poster mentioned, a woman needs to feel safe and needs more than 1 date to give herself totally and not only her body.

We all want someone special and if I were a man and I'd have a partner with whom I had sex on a first date, I would wonder why she couldn't wait.

Call me narrow minded, but this is how I think about it.

You know, the innocent pre-sex phase is so delicate and beautiful, it will never come back.

To meet that someone you can do 2 things:

- meet as many people as you can, but then you have to kiss 1000 frogs before you find that one.

or

- be selective and kiss a handful of frogs and meet the prince biggrin.gif Haha...

Jaysus Look at the pic in the dating site ad " Push Me, Date" at the bottom of this page. If that image doesn't look like a child...

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