Sticky Icky Mess

[The Dude]

Why don't you talk to your dad and see what he thinks, perhaps a little word from him to your cousin would resolve your dilemma.

I have seen this before. I once new a guy who came here regularly on holiday and built a beautiful 3 bed house up north for his girlfriend. The minute his taxi was pulling away from the hotel she was back in the bar, 30 mins later she was on her back for a short time.

I didn't know what to do so I discussed the matter with a friend and he told him.

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I've heard that story at least 20 times and most of the time it does not involve a prostitute, just a unknowing, sadly gullible farang + Thai woman. It's unfortunate big time and all too common. I'm sure a decent percentage of this forum have gone thru, are going thru or will go thru exactly this. The Dude just torched up a bonfire; attention all, toss shovels in accordingly. This situation cannot be dug. Dig?

[The Dude]

I think the Thai girl knows that Ice maiden's cousin will be gone soon so before this happens she is trying to see if Ice maiden is interested in being her friend and helping her with her business....maybe become a partner in some way...doe Ice maiden have more cousins?...brothers?....farang friends?....or maybe Ice maiden would like to make some quick cash?...lots of rich Thais might be interested in Ice Maiden.......do you think?

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The Dude feels that if this were true then the low level of intelligence of this Thai girl is far lower that The Dude previously thought. I mean like how ludicrous to have such a thing enter the pea brain of someone to think that the upstanding, decent, intelligent Ice Maidens of the world would even think of having anything at all to do with this indecency. Scrap shovels on this one, no digging allowed

[srisatch]

Dear Broad Beans

How much mileage can one get out of this nonsense?

By the way... Is there some subtle difference, other than linguistic, between bargirls and freelancers here that I am missing that lets this sorry tale limp on?

The girl is working..working the cousin and working you, Icey dear, and a few more..sure help her..if that is your bag...sounds like you all fancy her....but surely you have to wise your coz up..though he is probably in so deep he cannot listen..oh yes give her up...but when it comes to it don't want to throw in such a nice sack...!

I suggest Cold Baths and lots of Bromide in the Beer

[The Dude]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

[chownah]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

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The Dude is confused by all the opinions and ITDO it is not helpful. The Dude can dig you having opinions but can not dig your expression of said opinion.....The Dude will appreciate your help in this. Can you dig it?

[Ice Maiden]

Thankyou for posting Dude

[mrbojangles]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

The Dude is confused by all the opinions and ITDO it is not helpful. The Dude can dig you having opinions but can not dig your expression of said opinion.....The Dude will appreciate your help in this. Can you dig it?

Digged it and Dugged it, Chownah

Now, where's my shovel. I've got some more digging to dig....you dig

[sonthaya]

I cant belive you have to come on here and even ask the question!

Tell you cousin, you are aiding and abetting a cheat.

Theres a billion girls in Patters, he only has to click his fingers for another

you have gone down a peg in my estimation, I thought you were better that this!

forget about the friendship thing, it's all in your mind. She only uses you a mechanism to further herself.

cheats should never prosper, and farangs should not help them either.

Sorry for being harsh on this but you should know better

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That's a very primitive way of looking at it, I think Ice has done very well so far, we must assume the cousin has a brain of his own.

[meemiathai]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

The Dude is confused by all the opinions and ITDO it is not helpful. The Dude can dig you having opinions but can not dig your expression of said opinion.....The Dude will appreciate your help in this. Can you dig it?

[RDN]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

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The Dude is confused by all the opinions and ITDO it is not helpful. The Dude can dig you having opinions but can not dig your expression of said opinion.....The Dude will appreciate your help in this. Can you dig it?

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I hope to be digging a grave for the Dude soon. Dig it?

[britmaveric]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

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The Dude is confused by all the opinions and ITDO it is not helpful. The Dude can dig you having opinions but can not dig your expression of said opinion.....The Dude will appreciate your help in this. Can you dig it?

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I hope to be digging a grave for the Dude soon. Dig it?

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Rdn - not handing out any shovels for the dude?

[dr_Pat_Pong]

I cant belive you have to come on here and even ask the question!

Tell you cousin, you are aiding and abetting a cheat.

Theres a billion girls in Patters, he only has to click his fingers for another

you have gone down a peg in my estimation, I thought you were better that this!

forget about the friendship thing, it's all in your mind. She only uses you a mechanism to further herself.

cheats should never prosper, and farangs should not help them either.

Sorry for being harsh on this but you should know better

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That's a very primitive way of looking at it, I think Ice has done very well so far, we must assume the cousin has a brain of his own.

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Sadly the cousin's brain doesn't seem to be working well.

[The Dude]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

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The Dude is confused by all the opinions and ITDO it is not helpful. The Dude can dig you having opinions but can not dig your expression of said opinion.....The Dude will appreciate your help in this. Can you dig it?

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I hope to be digging a grave for the Dude soon. Dig it?

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I've been meaning to tell you something for a long long time, rdn dude, I can really dig marmite with a massively huge shovel. dig?

[kayo]

I *correction should read> The Dude thinks what we need to realize here is that people who do this sort of thing are more often than not, not very intelligent. The Dude is always saddened when he hears this sort of story, and believe you me*correction should read> The Dude , The Dude has heard this almost identical story over and over like a broken record. Names and places changed but always a very very similar story. I *correction should read> The Dude wants to thank The Ice Maiden for sharing this story because it is critically important for all to know. I *correction should read> The Dude think what is important to know here is that the girl feels deep down that she is doing no wrong. I *correction should read> The Dude want to warn everyone here, especially those in long term relationships with Thai women, that this is a likely scenario in your own situation. The Dude doesn't like to be the bearer of bad news but open your eyes. The Dude has gone thru this and continues to do so. The is a nightmare for The Dude. The Dude will never marry a Thai for this reason. The Dude digs his Thai g/f but can never ever be sure. He has discovered very undiggable things during his time here and there's no need to acquire any shovels to dig them with. So enjoy your relationships, my friends, but always look over your shoulders. Throw away those rose colored glasses. The Dude has spoken.

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The rose coloured glasses have been thrown away, Dude..

Errors are in BOLD and corrections with the red pen.... Only did this post coz there's like ten million of them... Dig?

Dear Broad Beans

How much mileage can one get out of this nonsense?

By the way... Is there some subtle difference, other than linguistic,  between bargirls and freelancers here that I am missing that lets this sorry tale limp on?

The girl is working..working the cousin and working you, Icey dear, and a few more..sure help her..if that is your bag...sounds like you all fancy her....but surely you have to wise your coz up..though he is probably in so deep he cannot listen..oh yes give her up...but when it comes to it don't want to throw in such a nice sack...!

I suggest Cold Baths and lots of Bromide in the Beer

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The subtle diff is that a freelancer is not a girl working FOR a bar/club. The girl is someone who can go anywhere she pleases, and basically play guys wherever they happen to appear. No bar fines, no employers.... FreeLancers... Dig? *sorry*

Digged it and Dugged it, Chownah   

Now, where's my shovel. I've got some more digging to dig....you dig   

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Don't break the pipes on your way Mr BoJ. Whats another word for dig/digging folks... Racking my brains here, but I can't dig another word for Digging out out this moshpit of dirty mud called my brain. Dug? Dig? Dog? Dag? Deg? Dyg? Oh jeeeeeessssseeeuusss.s... Get this man off of here fast pllleeeeaasse!

Somebody smack the dude with a shovel or something!

[Mighty Mouse]

Hot diggity dog Doug you daggy doggone digger....or should that be "Dear Dorothy Dix?"

I will challenge you to a dawn date for duelling shovels at ten paces, Dude.

[kayo]

alright!!!! Can I watch???

[chonabot]

I have the answer to this dilemma.

Ice Maiden and freelancer should partake in nud_e wrestling in front of an audience consisting of me ( who is also naked ).

Part 2 to follow (depending on interest )..........

[dr_Pat_Pong]

3 in the ring eh ?

[Ice Maiden]

Oh my what an imagination you boys have

You know what they say, two is a couple three is a crowd

[dr_Pat_Pong]

It keeps us going

[chownah]

We used to say that 3 is 3 couples and one troika!!!

aaaaah, the good old days!

[phibunmike]

...and I know my cousin is staying with her for a few more months and he's splitting with her...

Icy, I agree it is a difficult situation to be in.

Although I am in the "tell him" camp, whatever you decide is not particularly important in this case as they are both using each other. Therefore whatever you decide, don't lose any sleep over it - it is not worth your stress.

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[Ice Maiden]

Today my cousin came back from his drinking bender, finally.

I spoke to his girlfriend this morning and told her I felt uncomfortable letting her email her customers and I think she ought to tell him.

She said I've been a good friend for her and she said she is sorry but she carn't be in this situation anymore. She told me she is leaving today and she wants to keep in contact with me, we exchanged phone numbers, she cried then left

Thanks for all your help guys and girls

[zaz]

Noooo it's a female, carn't be Apple! 

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yes ok funny!!

[daleyboy]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

The Dude is confused by all the opinions and ITDO it is not helpful. The Dude can dig you having opinions but can not dig your expression of said opinion.....The Dude will appreciate your help in this. Can you dig it?

I hope to be digging a grave for the Dude soon. Dig it?

You want a hand? Forget the shovels i can get my hands on a jcb if you want. It will be much quicker and we wont have to get our hands dirty.

[mrbojangles]

It's obviously, as in most of these situations, monetary. I think the Ice Maiden has good instincts and will make the right decision on what to do here, if anything. This massive bombardment of advice is confusing and not helpful, ITDO (in The Dude's Opinion). Can you dig that?

The Dude is confused by all the opinions and ITDO it is not helpful. The Dude can dig you having opinions but can not dig your expression of said opinion.....The Dude will appreciate your help in this. Can you dig it?

I hope to be digging a grave for the Dude soon. Dig it?

You want a hand? Forget the shovels i can get my hands on a jcb if you want. It will be much quicker and we wont have to get our hands dirty.

The BoJ digs those shovels on a JCB, you dig

OMG, it's spreading worse than Bird Flu. Get that JCB, fast Daleyboy

[Braccobaldo]

she is not dishonest by the fact that she is a prostitute  , she is dishonest by the fact that she is having a relationship with ice maidens cousin who does not know of her sideline as a prostitute.

he thinks of her as his monogamous girlfriend.

she is deceiving him.

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...I bet he also know she's a prostitute...and maybe he's not monogamous too..who's know??....it seems to me they are just joking each other...mind that we are talking about a relationship lasting two month...don't take it too seriously...maybe the only one that think too much here is...Ice maiden!!!

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/quote Ice Maiden "...just found out that my cousin is spending the night with another woman.."

...well, looks like I win my bet

[Wolfie]

Today my cousin came back from his drinking bender, finally.

I spoke to his girlfriend this morning and told her I felt uncomfortable letting her email her customers and I think she ought to tell him.

She said I've been a good friend for her and she said she is sorry but she carn't be in this situation anymore. She told me she is leaving today and she wants to keep in contact with me, we exchanged phone numbers, she cried then left

Thanks for all your help guys and girls

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Well i guess that concludes this thread, and in a vein attempt to stop the dude digging his own grave, i'll just close this.

PM me (or any mod) if you think this thread should remain open