Hi!

I'm new to the thaiculture and don't know mush about the culture, so I',m asking you experienced people to help me!

I've found a girl who I really like, (from chiang rai). We both are currently residing in China for studies and study at the same institute.

Her friends have told me she is really into me. We se each other outside school about three days a week(often her asking me to hang out with her and her friends. We're texting/ chating pretty mush every day The problem is when I try ask her out there is always something that makes her unable to se me, headache, she have to help somebody. I feels like she just finds excuses for not se me.

Two days ago she texted me she knew another girl who liked me. She got jealous, and I got grumpy since I didn't even know that girl. So I texted back ''I like you''. But I didn't got any respond. Since that day she has acted wierd. Like unmature ( for instace, she took a photo of me and her and I wanted to se it, but she refused, just putted her to tongue out and wouldn't let me have a look. I was building cardhouse and she would keep try brake it) I take that as she is is uncertian how to act to me since I told her I'm into her.

Previous realtionships I've been in often kiss and hugs, cute text messages ( you name it) started the relation (wester girls). I know you shouldn't do kissing and so on with thaigirls. but it feels so childish if I just ask her out and then tell her I want her to be my girlfriend. If that's how thai people do it I guess I have to try.

Otherwise can somebody give me some advice how can I start a relation with her? I want to try this week

Cheers

This forum is for women, not about women, so unless you are looking specifically for women's suggestions, this topic belongs elsewhere

Boom!!!!

Two days later and no OP, guess that answers that, eh?

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