bridge2bridge Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Contact the owner of the room you are renting, and THEY will see the manager and tell him not to let her in, i am sure they will listen to the OWNER. Good Luck with it all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snamos Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Get her around to your house, wine and dine her, have the most nasty sordid make up sex you can possibly think of, film it. When she calls you the next day, get her to come around and when she rocks up...give her the CD. Then explain to her that you will send it to all her family and friends plus the new boyfriend and then you will post it on every internet site you can think of. It worked for me the ex hasnt been seen for over 2 years now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nocturn Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Contact the owner of the room you are renting, and THEY will see the manager and tell him not to let her in, i am sure they will listen to the OWNER. Good Luck with it all. yep, this is an excellent way to get the respect of your landlord. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mataus101 Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 tell her your new girl is from surin, thai girls are scared of surin girls because they fear they will use magic on them. i'm not joking they really do avoid friendships with them, many will not go to surin, just tell her you surin girl does magic and is starting to get real pissed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arthurwait Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Get a friend who has a thai GF to give you a pair of her shoes, and place them outside the door everytime you get home, if the ex comes into the condo building and sees the shoes everyday she might get the hint and stay away. But then again this is Thailand and she might make more noise and fuss. Buy a large size pair second hand from the market so they look used. She will hopefully think it's a ladyboy and be too scared to start anything or just not want to touch you with a barge pole again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Screws Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 MP3 or MP4. Otherwise the f'lung will not be believed. Perhaps even not then. Change locks, don't let her in. After you get the evidence (MP3 or MP4), put a large picture of her in the lift and entry with appropriate caption. Written in f'lung & thai. Take evidence to the police, ask them to call building manager & advise manager will be responsible for anything that happens if ex is let in against your express wishes. There was an earlier poster whose ex was able to clean out his bank account just by showing her face at bank - not book or ATM card - did she know your accounts or amounts? Move them if so. if they are still there. ;-) Got any friendly neighbors with phone cams? Chok dee. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skorchio Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Go and see the local police chief. Pay him 20,000 and tell him to speak to security at you building. He wont want to get involved with the woman in question, but you might be able to guarantee that she wont be able to get into your building. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ludditeman Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Get her around to your house, wine and dine her, have the most nasty sordid make up sex you can possibly think of, film it. When she calls you the next day, get her to come around and when she rocks up...give her the CD. Then explain to her that you will send it to all her family and friends plus the new boyfriend and then you will post it on every internet site you can think of. It worked for me the ex hasnt been seen for over 2 years now BIg mistake, this is a jail-able offense, and the police would take action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tailspin Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 (edited) just need to keep replacing departing ladyfriends with one a bit more jealous than the previous one....let them work it out between themselves in the hall while you drink beer and watch football on the couch....keep repeating this cycle every 2 years, then rent out a convention hall in your l8r years for a reunion of all the exes, before introducing the crowd to your new number 1... tell her your new girl is from surin, thai girls are scared of surin girls because they fear they will use magic on them. i'm not joking they really do avoid friendships with them, many will not go to surin, just tell her you surin girl does magic and is starting to get real pissed. Edited December 11, 2011 by tailspin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snamos Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Get her around to your house, wine and dine her, have the most nasty sordid make up sex you can possibly think of, film it. When she calls you the next day, get her to come around and when she rocks up...give her the CD. Then explain to her that you will send it to all her family and friends plus the new boyfriend and then you will post it on every internet site you can think of. It worked for me the ex hasnt been seen for over 2 years now BIg mistake, this is a jail-able offense, and the police would take action. The filming was consented......the threat was just that...and it worked, The new BF was in Australia...not illegal to send him a CD. And its only illegal if you post it on the internet from Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ludditeman Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 (edited) Get her around to your house, wine and dine her, have the most nasty sordid make up sex you can possibly think of, film it. When she calls you the next day, get her to come around and when she rocks up...give her the CD. Then explain to her that you will send it to all her family and friends plus the new boyfriend and then you will post it on every internet site you can think of. It worked for me the ex hasnt been seen for over 2 years now BIg mistake, this is a jail-able offense, and the police would take action. The filming was consented......the threat was just that...and it worked, The new BF was in Australia...not illegal to send him a CD. And its only illegal if you post it on the internet from Thailand Not true, making pornographic movies is totally against the law in Thailand, consent of the participants is irrelevant (and I doubt she gave you written consent). If she had got hold of a copy and taken it to the police or made a complaint, you would be in jail or facing serious 'tea money' payments.Even 'tasteful' personal photos on your mobile can get you into serious trouble. Edited December 11, 2011 by ludditeman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snamos Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Get her around to your house, wine and dine her, have the most nasty sordid make up sex you can possibly think of, film it. When she calls you the next day, get her to come around and when she rocks up...give her the CD. Then explain to her that you will send it to all her family and friends plus the new boyfriend and then you will post it on every internet site you can think of. It worked for me the ex hasnt been seen for over 2 years now BIg mistake, this is a jail-able offense, and the police would take action. The filming was consented......the threat was just that...and it worked, The new BF was in Australia...not illegal to send him a CD. And its only illegal if you post it on the internet from Thailand Not true, making pornographic movies is totally against the law in Thailand, consent of the participants is irrelevant (and I doubt she gave you written consent). If she had got hold of a copy and taken it to the police or made a complaint, you would be in jail or facing serious 'tea money' payments. oh well it worked for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asdecas Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 "Fear of Death"..... "Fear of God"....... What exactly are these Thai fellows saying? Radio silence and low low profile are the way to go. Oh, and I like the ladies shoes at the door. All have worked for me in the past.... Depends how many pairs of ladies' shoes you are prepared to lose, have savaged, mutilated or disappeared. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arthurwait Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 just need to keep replacing departing ladyfriends with one a bit more jealous than the previous one....let them work it out between themselves in the hall while you drink beer and watch football on the couch....keep repeating this cycle every 2 years, then rent out a convention hall in your l8r years for a reunion of all the exes, before introducing the crowd to your new number 1... This man is a genius. :clap2: :clap2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robroy Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 I like the idea of keeping the door locked & not answering the phone when she or any unrecognised number calls. Keep that up for a while & she'll give up. I also like the idea of paying the security to keep her out, if a strong request doesn't work. You can also promise them a bonus if they succeed. Losing 500-1000 baht to this tactic would be worth every penny. I don't like the idea of the shoes outside the door so much as this risks upping the ante - for example a jealous rage and/or violence on her part. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Screws Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 I know the password for the accounts and her dad doesnt speak much english. Not sure whats weird about that. The weird thing is that you ask questions here on a internet forum about your personal gf problems. Better you ask your parents what to do. I doubt the parents have delt with any kind of madness which is a Thai girl. I had exactly the same problem, but more extreme with the girl cheating and smoking meth in my bathroom! I even had a new girlfriend move in to live with me 8 months after I broke up with my ex-gf but she still persist on coming around so was forced to change condo. One night I went to the security because she forced herself into the room and I couldnt get her out, the security wouldn't do anything. Even after my landlord told the security not to let her or her car, the useless security still kept letting her in. Honestly they're useless. Best bet is to go away on holiday, buy a lock thing to put over your door handle with pad lock and hopefully she doesn't come around and call a lock smith, talk with your landlord, they will try to help as much as possible because they want you to keep being a tenant. If you have a good thai friend, make a complaint to the police too. I've had to start all over four times here. The same girl took all my stuff twice with the help of the landlord and neighbors. How did she know I bought everything just after one week of robbing me? The neighbors called her. AND you didn't think to change the locks - don't worry, been there, done that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Screws Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 (edited) MP3 or MP4. Otherwise the f'lung will not be believed. Perhaps even not then. Change locks, don't let her in. After you get the evidence (MP3 or MP4), put a large picture of her in the lift and entry with appropriate caption. Written in f'lung & thai. Take evidence to the police, get them to call building manager & advise manager will be responsible for anything that happens if ex is let in against your express wishes. There was an earlier poster whose ex was able to clean out his bank account just by showing her face at bank - no book or ATM card - did she know your accounts or amounts? Move them if so. if they are still there. ;-) Got any friendly neighbors with phone cams? Chok dee. Also keep a diary & get it signed by a witness every day or so. Also, if she is ranting & raving at your door, call her folks & hold the phone to the door - they may get the message - Edited December 11, 2011 by Screws Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rotary Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 (edited) I am really thinking moving now will be cheaper in the long run before real trouble happens Edited December 11, 2011 by rotary Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sydneyjed Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Get her around to your house, wine and dine her, have the most nasty sordid make up sex you can possibly think of, film it. When she calls you the next day, get her to come around and when she rocks up...give her the CD. Then explain to her that you will send it to all her family and friends plus the new boyfriend and then you will post it on every internet site you can think of. It worked for me the ex hasnt been seen for over 2 years now BIg mistake, this is a jail-able offense, and the police would take action. The filming was consented......the threat was just that...and it worked, The new BF was in Australia...not illegal to send him a CD. And its only illegal if you post it on the internet from Thailand Would not advise you do what you did and endorse it as the right thing to do..Once you start getting into smart ar..e stuff like this anything can happen...Don't mess with the locals is what I've found works best!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saroq Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 I know the password for the accounts and her dad doesnt speak much english. Not sure whats weird about that. The weird thing is that you ask questions here on a internet forum about your personal gf problems. Better you ask your parents what to do. Can't you figure out that there's a better chance of many of the forum members understanding Thai women and Thai culture than the guy's parents, who likely live far away and have never even been here? Perhaps some day you'll need some advise from a member here who has an intimate knowledge of Thai situations, and I bet you won't appreciate snide comments like yours. It's more relevant to make your type of comment to the many people that ask for technical (computer, internet, etc.) support rather than using Google, where there are many experts willing to help. These type of snide and immature remarks are the biggest reason I rarely post anything here. But on to why this poor guy has asked for help. I agree with the advise to make yourself invisible to her -- keep your shoes inside and don't answer the door unless you know it's someone you welcome or expect. Perhaps a gift or some cash to the security staff (or the manager) would sway them to cooperate and tell the b-atch to take a hike. If she strikes out enough times trying to see you, it's likely that she'll fade away. (Speaking to the manager would probably be enough in our cultures to do the trick, but TIT, so a bit of bribe may be necessary.) I agree. As someone who has had to endure this same type of situation with out of control women the snide, immature and unhelpful comments from some posters are annoying to say the least. Can I make a suggestion. No matter how much money you worry this may cost you now I strongly suggest you move. These situations can easily escalate and having peace and security in your life is worth spending a bit of cash on now before you find yourself in the middle of a shit storm that you can't find any exit out of. Given that her cheating on you doesn't seem to mean in her head that there are grounds to terminate the relationship it's unlikely that reasoning with her or her family will be possibility. Disappear before she starts making up more weird stories and causes you real trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ludditeman Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 .... it's unlikely that reasoning with her or her family will be possibility. Disappear before she starts making up more weird stories and causes you real trouble. I've always found reasoning with a Thai female drives them instantly into an insane rage. Not something I ever try to do anymore. When it's time to leave, I wait until they are not around, move all my stuff somewhere else, dump them by SMS, then block their phone number and never have any contact with them again. I also avoid all my old haunts for the next month, although I rarely share the places that I like to hang out with them in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mataus101 Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 (edited) calling there mothers a washed up old bar girl who probably does ping pong shows now got my ex nice and angry. she actually punched me in the jaw which was funny, however just like the threadstarters ex, she ran head first into the wall and told people i threw her into the wall. the story got better every time she told until it ended with me picking her up off the floor by the throat with one hand, really i am far from being that strong. I was very good to this girl but she was borderline psychotic after she came to my home in Oz, the result i cancelled her visa, that also made her nuts, took a few more swings at me. I hate this crap of always pulling out a knife and threatening to stab themselves, better i die better i die. thank god my current wife who i have been with for several years does none of that, we very rarely fight, and the fights are minor, could not go through that again. never hit her but sometimes wish i did just once. Edited December 11, 2011 by mataus101 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackthorn2005 Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 I know you are reluctant but I would involve the police, especially if she is claiming you assaulted her. If she goes to the police before you, you do not stand a cat in hells chance of coming out on top. Try and get a restraining order on her and do not let her get anywhere near you unless there are reliable witnesses present.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poanoi Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 This is exactly the behavior you can expect from a prostitute, and exactly what you don't have to put up with if you go for a normal girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thongkorn Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 you don't know a lot about Thailand and its People really do you. Nor, apparently, do you. Thais, in general, prefer not to "get involved" unless 1) they have no choice or 2) their actions or inactions simply cannot remain hush-hush - the JP's failure to follow their f***ing job description is one instance where this applies. ecially in the current economic climate. Totaly Agree with you , they dont want to Know ,Unless money is involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mca Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 tell her your new girl is from surin, thai girls are scared of surin girls because they fear they will use magic on them. i'm not joking they really do avoid friendships with them, many will not go to surin, just tell her you surin girl does magic and is starting to get real pissed. I always considered this a semi-"urban myth" until the lady who does our laundry was all of a fluster one day because her son had hooked up with a Buririam lass and her and the rest of her family were concerned that the girl's family were going to put a spell on the boy's food when he visited. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geekfreaklover Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Had a similar problem with an ex. She Broke in and smashed up a load of stuff. I took photos and went to the police station and filed a report. The next time she was abusive in the street I filed a report. The police took her in and explained the three strike rule. She stopped bothering me after that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HerbalEd Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 Whoa ... you say you can read her e-mails/facebook etc BUT can't communicate with her father! Something amiss. Whatever, talk to the apartments' security and don't get her allowed in! Not rocket science .... or get better in bed! Maybe his bed skills are why she's having such a difficult time letting him go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HerbalEd Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 (edited) I know the password for the accounts and her dad doesnt speak much english. Not sure whats weird about that. The weird thing is that you ask questions here on a internet forum about your personal gf problems. Better you ask your parents what to do. Do you actually believe that his parents are better sources of advice about a Thai girlfriend than the many Thai-savy men on this site?? Or was your comment a failed attempt at humor? Edited December 12, 2011 by HerbalEd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HerbalEd Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 Get a friend who has a thai GF to give you a pair of her shoes, and place them outside the door everytime you get home, if the ex comes into the condo building and sees the shoes everyday she might get the hint and stay away. But then again this is Thailand and she might make more noise and fuss. Good idea about the shoes. However, he can buy super cheap women's shoes on the street or MBK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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