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Why Is It So Difficult To Find A Good Friend In Thailand


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Hi guys,

I went to see my closest friend here in the village this evening. He is 70 years old and I am 40. We only have some beers until his wife says he cant have anymore and its time for bed. My closest neighbor is 5 doors up and he is 48 years old but only comes to say hello when he has an argument with his wife. I think in 3 years ,I have seen him 4 times. His wife has a thai boyfriend when he leaves but I dont feel obligated to tell him as he is not a real friend , just an aquaintance. Another farang who is closer to my age is a piss head and irresponsible, I tried to be friends with him but he was a complete knob. Another "friend" is an absolute addict. he is addicted to 'pussy'. He will drop you at the drop of a hat if there is a shag available. Another 2 'friends' feel the need to bullshit all the time about their financial situation and how their life exceeds mine.

These people are within 4 km of me. Even the laws of averages dictate that this many knobs can not live this close to me.

I just want to meet someone who just likes to have a beer and chat. Someone who doesnt run home like a wee bitch . everytime his wife calls.

Anyone else have this problem finding a reasonable friend. For all you dictators, I enjoy a beer but am not a pisshead. I work everyday and am never broke. I am easy going and flexible as regards most things.

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Posted

You'll have a wider choice in other places. Since you've got the SO under control, just go out and bring back a new younger "friend" to stay for a while, should make life interesting.

Seriously I know what you mean, but to be honest even back home I find few people I can stand hanging around long enough to actually get to know well, and even then once I get to know them. . .

Probably more a reflection of my own limited tolerance, maybe used to be easier when I was younger and less set in my ways.

Posted

dunno i asked you a very simple question out of curiousity by private message and it seemed to piss you off and you made a paranoid response wanting to know why i wanted to know that and then never responded. so maybe you are loony toons and people avoid you for it?

Posted

dunno i asked you a very simple question out of curiousity by private message and it seemed to piss you off and you made a paranoid response wanting to know why i wanted to know that and then never responded. so maybe you are loony toons and people avoid you for it?

no, not true. my plans are personal and for you be offended, that I wont tell my business to a stranger is a little bit weird also. i hope you agree.

compare it to a total stranger coming up to you in the street and asking you your future plans. would you impart information to him ? I think not.

however thanks for your concern. wai.gif

Posted

yeah as a "normal" person i can tell you that most people would have considered the exchange as you being weird and paranoid so you not having any friends is not a big surprise.

Posted

yeah as a "normal" person i can tell you that most people would have considered the exchange as you being weird and paranoid so you not having any friends is not a big surprise.

ok, fair enough. lets let the TV members decide.

I mentioned on here that I was thinking of going to Myanmar for a job.

You pm'ed me ( a total stranger) and asked me what exactly was I going to be doing there.

I asked you why you needed to know and you got upset. ????????

Please forgive me for being a little paranoid to a question from a total stranger.

anyway, thanks for your input. it is appreciated. you dont know me, please dont make assumptions.

take care. thumbsup.gif

Posted

hi, i never got upset. when you asked why i wanted to know what job you declined in burma i said out of curiousity. anyways, asking people simple questions is usually how conversations and friendships are started... which seems relevant to the title of your topic. best of luck.

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