Why Do Some Ass,,,,S Find They Have To Come On Here To Pull Girls Down

[pigeonjake]

ive just read a post, were the OP says why should we wai hookers,,

if that his opinion that he feels he shouldntdo this then fine,

just dont come on here with the likes of this, there is a lot of men happy on here,

weather they are with a lady that used to sell her body or whatever, ide just like to see the ones who dont like or repect these girls keep there opinions to themselfs

jake

[MAJIC]

Well Pigeonjake, much as I agree with you,we must always preserve "Freedom of speach" such narrow mindedness,is uncalled for,and I anticipate the OP has opened a whole hornets nest of indignation heading his way!

[theblether]

I agree with MAJIC, they are entitled to their opinion

.............just as long as they don't mind me saying that I object to women being maltreated and objectified just because they have found themselves disadvantaged in life, in many cases not of their own making.

It doesn't take much effort to be civil, at least for those of us who were brought up properly

[pigeonjake]

ok boys i except your point,

but it still pisses me off,,

we cant all be happy,

jake

[MJP]

I so want to insert the word 'knickers' in your title.

[pigeonjake]

[theblether]

ok boys i except your point,

but it still pisses me off,,

we cant all be happy,

jake

I would rather be a man like you that objected to women being casually abused and disrespected than be them

I frequent a bar in Chiang Mai where a few of the staff are refugees from Loi Kroh road, they've been there, done it, got the T-shirt and got out before they were consumed by the monster.

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Guys that treat women like second class citizens are saying more about themselves than they will ever know.

[Jessi]

They are still human beings, no matter what work they do.

I have found through life the ones that put people down are just trying to put themself up, a lack of self respect.

[sirineou]

Dont get too bend, it' just the way it is

I have being coming to this forum since the beginning of 2008 and in one way or an other this type of behavior has being prevalent; and this is one of the better Thai forums.

But this forum does a lot of good also, and there are many good guys here, So me take the good with the bad, and make the best of it.

I don't think it is ever going to change, so either accept it or move on.

[notmyself]

I never wai anyone but I will treat everyone as an equal until such time, if ever, I am given a reason not to.

[besth]

I never wai anyone but I will treat everyone as an equal until such time, if ever, I am given a reason not to.

Why not? It is a social custom in this country, just as in others is shaking hands or kissing on the cheeks in friendly meetings. Don't you do either of those things?

If you refuse to wai because it is a "foreign" custom, you are already not treating people as equal, you obviously treat them as their social habits are inferior to yours.

If you don't wai because it ends up spilling the beer in your hand on your shirt, that is a wise decision

[MrMuddle]

ok boys i except your point,

but it still pisses me off,,

we cant all be happy,

jake

I would rather be a man like you that objected to women being casually abused and disrespected than be them

I frequent a bar in Chiang Mai where a few of the staff are refugees from Loi Kroh road, they've been there, done it, got the T-shirt and got out before they were consumed by the monster.

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Guys that treat women like second class citizens are saying more about themselves than they will ever know.

From the above

"Guys that treat women like second class citizens are saying more about themselves than they will ever know."

It's only July, but that would be my nomination for TV quote of the year. Well said Sir.

[eek]

Just wondering, those guys who say bar girls dont deserve respect, are guys who are going to visit them too?

..wouldnt that be the pot calling the kettle black?

[TommoPhysicist]

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Women become hookers because they are lazy. Being lazy doesn't deserve respect.

We weren't talking about treating ALL WOMEN like second class citizens, just hookers.

I think I know a little about this subject as I'm about to marry a hooker, and I can assure you, she's lazy, and hasn't done anything in her life that she didn't want to do.

[arthurwait]

I never wai anyone but I will treat everyone as an equal until such time, if ever, I am given a reason not to.

Why not? It is a social custom in this country, just as in others is shaking hands or kissing on the cheeks in friendly meetings. Don't you do either of those things?

If you refuse to wai because it is a "foreign" custom, you are already not treating people as equal, you obviously treat them as their social habits are inferior to yours.

If you don't wai because it ends up spilling the beer in your hand on your shirt, that is a wise decision

How many times do you see people actually except when it's part of their job or to people richer than them or to older family friends they don't see all the time ?

[irlguy1]

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Women become hookers because they are lazy. Being lazy doesn't deserve respect.

We weren't talking about treating ALL WOMEN like second class citizens, just hookers.

I think I know a little about this subject as I'm about to marry a hooker, and I can assure you, she's lazy, and hasn't done anything in her life that she didn't want to do.

Condolences to your wife to be.

[Semper]

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Women become hookers because they are lazy. Being lazy doesn't deserve respect.

We weren't talking about treating ALL WOMEN like second class citizens, just hookers.

I think I know a little about this subject as I'm about to marry a hooker, and I can assure you, she's lazy, and hasn't done anything in her life that she didn't want to do.

Could you postpone the marriage? I guess you understand who's having to do all the household chores.

[edwinclapham]

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Women become hookers because they are lazy. Being lazy doesn't deserve respect.

We weren't talking about treating ALL WOMEN like second class citizens, just hookers.

I think I know a little about this subject as I'm about to marry a hooker, and I can assure you, she's lazy, and hasn't done anything in her life that she didn't want to do.

She has chosen well Tommo

[TommoPhysicist]

Could you postpone the marriage? I guess you understand who's having to do all the houshold chores.

My wife does all the household chores, she isn't lazy at all, a really hardworking girl.

[nietzche]

I agree with MAJIC, they are entitled to their opinion

.............just as long as they don't mind me saying that I object to women being maltreated and objectified just because they have found themselves disadvantaged in life, in many cases not of their own making.

It doesn't take much effort to be civil, at least for those of us who were brought up properly

Agree 100%!

A lot of men do not know how to act over here! Seems like as soon as their feet hit the tarmac, they loose all sense of right and wrong.

I would not take a hooker home here in Thailand, just as I would not take a hooker home back in the U.S. Still the same person here as back home.

Got nothing against women that work. We all know that in most cases it's out of necessity/desperation.

Many men I have met here like to convince themselves that (a) the women only do what they do because they are greedy, or they actually like the lifestyle. This type of rationalization is delusional at the least.

But for every farang bar rat I've met here, I've met someone else who was upstanding, happily married (or in a good relationship) and who didn't leave their dignity in the departure lounge.

It all depends on the company you keep I believe.

[eek]

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Women become hookers because they are lazy. Being lazy doesn't deserve respect.

We weren't talking about treating ALL WOMEN like second class citizens, just hookers.

I think I know a little about this subject as I'm about to marry a hooker, and I can assure you, she's lazy, and hasn't done anything in her life that she didn't want to do.

You know ONE woman well who has worked in this sector, but doesnt mean her situation is the same as all.

I completely disagree with your thoughts that women become hookers because they are lazy.

(In any case, as an aside, if someone wants to be lazy, that is THERE choice. If it isnt harming you or others, why do they still not deserve respect? AND, im sure many people aim to make a living the easiest way possible, rather than gut-wrenchingly hard. Thats not laziness, thats weighing up output/imput, which is actually pretty smart.)

SOME of these women may be lazy, and some may work their asses off..LITERALLY!

I really dont think having to listen to the boring stories most of these guys spew out, or pandering to their weird sexual fantasies, and their sweaty bodies, and their tightfisted bargaining to pay shit money for a lay, could really be termed as easy.

If working in a "regular" job would earn them the same or similar to what they earn in the bar-scene, you really think most women would still choose "bar" work. Some of you will surely think "yes" because you like to think the girl enjoys herself. Maybe some times they do, (probably when a bit tipsy or high or whatever, as yeh, most people seem to enjoy when in an altered state). Some women have high sex drives, but if any guys honestly think that means she enjoys having sex with anything that has a dick, thats deluding yourself.

This is about cold hard cash.

There is no other viable option for earning the same amount of cash.

Most of these girls have kids, and parents/families they need to take care of.

They probably start out with the intention of only doing it for a short time, but end up getting caught up in a cycle.

I dont class it as laziness. I class it as having no real viable option.

For even if they were to break their back in a rice field from dust till dawn, they wouldnt make nearly the same kind of money.

Being a rice farmer would make them hard-working, but it would also make them very poor.

[pattayadingo]

But we are allowed our own opinion and if we always kept our opinions to ourselves where would this forum be?

[payak]

most come to vent there anger because they met a very dodgy low class woman, gave them everything, then complain after they finish that the woman took everything.

It's called TV therapy.

[phl]

So OP could not hold up an intelligent debate in original thread,and just ran off opening a new thread.

little like a 3 year old baby, who did not get his way and now running around crying..

You did not like that thread?! MOVE ON

[nocturn]

I never wai anyone but I will treat everyone as an equal until such time, if ever, I am given a reason not to.

Why not? It is a social custom in this country, just as in others is shaking hands or kissing on the cheeks in friendly meetings. Don't you do either of those things?

If you refuse to wai because it is a "foreign" custom, you are already not treating people as equal, you obviously treat them as their social habits are inferior to yours.

If you don't wai because it ends up spilling the beer in your hand on your shirt, that is a wise decision

or you are accepyting that the complex ettiqutte behind the gesture is beyond your comprehension and erring on the side of prudence

[Headgame]

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Women become hookers because they are lazy. Being lazy doesn't deserve respect.

We weren't talking about treating ALL WOMEN like second class citizens, just hookers.

I think I know a little about this subject as I'm about to marry a hooker, and I can assure you, she's lazy, and hasn't done anything in her life that she didn't want to do.

She's a very lucky lady.

And sorry, you're marrying her because?

[pigeonjake]

phl,, im still here,, i would never run from someone like you,, take that as very very true,

i just like to give others a chance to have there say,

do you live here by the way??

[StreetCowboy]

I never wai anyone but I will treat everyone as an equal until such time, if ever, I am given a reason not to.

Why not? It is a social custom in this country, just as in others is shaking hands or kissing on the cheeks in friendly meetings. Don't you do either of those things?

If you refuse to wai because it is a "foreign" custom, you are already not treating people as equal, you obviously treat them as their social habits are inferior to yours.

If you don't wai because it ends up spilling the beer in your hand on your shirt, that is a wise decision

I disagree. I would expect a Thai person to maintain his standards wherever he went, and I should do the same. In response to a wai, rather than returning a clumsy abomination of an imitation, I nod politely, smile and raise a hand in greeting, same as I would do elsewhere. I am lucky that I am a farang, and not Korean or Chinese, so it is obvious that I am not Thai, and therefore unlikely to be intimately drilled in Thai custom, and I hope that the Thais that I deal with appreciate that. If no, well, I don't think a wai would make any difference.

Other people have their customs and standards, I have mine, and I hope I will be able to maintain mine to my deathbed

SC

[pigeonjake]

i like that cowboy,

i just think its how we was brought up,

i called all my freinds mums Mrs housham, Mrs duncan, ect even when i was in my 20s its just respect, they used to say jake your old enough now for joan or ideth, i said ill stick to mrs,

jake

[JurgenG]

Women take a massive, massive step in their psyche when they go down that road, I believe the women that have the nous and strength to turn around and walk back up the road deserve respect

Women become hookers because they are lazy. Being lazy doesn't deserve respect.

We weren't talking about treating ALL WOMEN like second class citizens, just hookers.

I think I know a little about this subject as I'm about to marry a hooker, and I can assure you, she's lazy, and hasn't done anything in her life that she didn't want to do.

You know ONE woman well who has worked in this sector, but doesnt mean her situation is the same as all.

I completely disagree with your thoughts that women become hookers because they are lazy.

(In any case, as an aside, if someone wants to be lazy, that is THERE choice. If it isnt harming you or others, why do they still not deserve respect? AND, im sure many people aim to make a living the easiest way possible, rather than gut-wrenchingly hard. Thats not laziness, thats weighing up output/imput, which is actually pretty smart.)

SOME of these women may be lazy, and some may work their asses off..LITERALLY!

I really dont think having to listen to the boring stories most of these guys spew out, or pandering to their weird sexual fantasies, and their sweaty bodies, and their tightfisted bargaining to pay shit money for a lay, could really be termed as easy.

If working in a "regular" job would earn them the same or similar to what they earn in the bar-scene, you really think most women would still choose "bar" work. Some of you will surely think "yes" because you like to think the girl enjoys herself. Maybe some times they do, (probably when a bit tipsy or high or whatever, as yeh, most people seem to enjoy when in an altered state). Some women have high sex drives, but if any guys honestly think that means she enjoys having sex with anything that has a dick, thats deluding yourself.

This is about cold hard cash.

There is no other viable option for earning the same amount of cash.

Most of these girls have kids, and parents/families they need to take care of.

They probably start out with the intention of only doing it for a short time, but end up getting caught up in a cycle.

I dont class it as laziness. I class it as having no real viable option.

For even if they were to break their back in a rice field from dust till dawn, they wouldnt make nearly the same kind of money.

Being a rice farmer would make them hard-working, but it would also make them very poor.

You're just living in a fantasy world.

Ok there is a few girls who don't have much choice, for one reason or an other. But if you remove all those who do it because they are lazy, drug addicts and without moral sense, you will have to close 95% of all the gogo, night clubs and othe whorehouse in Thailand.

Actually I think 99% will be closer to reality.