Too Shy, Shy

[overherebc]

I'll type this slowly as I know a lot of you can't read quickly.

Ever thought about talking to women as people ?

[jacktrip]

if your just trying to pick up women shyness will actually get you further here. its an admired trait called self-control or mai pen rai.

the oppsosite of the obnoxious loud confident dudes that western chicks like.

if your competing with other dudes hovering around at say a club, it may not do you much good.

[overherebc]

if your just trying to pick up women shyness will actually get you further here. its an admired trait called self-control or mai pen rai.

the oppsosite of the obnoxious loud confident dudes that western chicks like.

if your competing with other dudes hovering around at say a club, it may not do you much good.

Yep,

sounds like the local Ford salesman got the one you and I fancied.

Have it on good authority that he got more than he thought he was going to get, but then again penicillin is cheap, or it was.

[Bagwan]

I had a pal who came from the UK to visit me to see if the reports that I had sent him had any substance. We spent a couple of evenings wandering from bar to bar, not going hard at it. He had some difficulty in believing that most of the girls working in a bar were available and all it took was a small donation to the owner of the bar and recompense for the lady's services the following morning. He was shy and asked what he should say to them. I said that his chances would be considerably improved if he spoke a little Thai and I coached him, getting him repeat over and over until he got it right, "Mee gluai yai ay song maprow." When he had built up enough confidence I called over one of the girls that he been slavering over and nudged him to centre stage. He uttered the magic words and she burst out laughing - and then told the other girls who joined in the hilarity. He cursed me for setting him up - but he got the girl - as if there was any chance that he wouldn't.

Translation :- I have a big banana and two coconuts.

After his two weeks holiday he went home, sold his house, car and said goodbye to everyone and came back to stay. He lasted only five years before a heart attack got him, aged 58. RIP Graham.

[pigeonjake]

five good happy years though mate

jake

[Schmackos]

Maybe some good advice for the shy man in Thailand is to have a cute canine companion with him.

You all know ladies swoon over a cute furry fellow

Woman go wacko for Schmackos

[submaniac]

After his two weeks holiday he went home, sold his house, car and said goodbye to everyone and came back to stay. He lasted only five years before a heart attack got him, aged 58. RIP Graham.

Everyone has to die eventually. At least he died happy.

[David006]

I had a pal who came from the UK to visit me to see if the reports that I had sent him had any substance. We spent a couple of evenings wandering from bar to bar, not going hard at it. He had some difficulty in believing that most of the girls working in a bar were available and all it took was a small donation to the owner of the bar and recompense for the lady's services the following morning. He was shy and asked what he should say to them. I said that his chances would be considerably improved if he spoke a little Thai and I coached him, getting him repeat over and over until he got it right, "Mee gluai yai ay song maprow." When he had built up enough confidence I called over one of the girls that he been slavering over and nudged him to centre stage. He uttered the magic words and she burst out laughing - and then told the other girls who joined in the hilarity. He cursed me for setting him up - but he got the girl - as if there was any chance that he wouldn't.

Translation :- I have a big banana and two coconuts.

After his two weeks holiday he went home, sold his house, car and said goodbye to everyone and came back to stay. He lasted only five years before a heart attack got him, aged 58. RIP Graham.

often wonder what the stats are on this sort of occurrence ...looking around at the tourist families ..you know the ones.. two pasty kids and a somewhat plain overweight middle aged wife and he feigning interest in wooden frogs or the menu while ....

[jacktrip]

I had a pal who came from the UK to visit me to see if the reports that I had sent him had any substance. We spent a couple of evenings wandering from bar to bar, not going hard at it. He had some difficulty in believing that most of the girls working in a bar were available and all it took was a small donation to the owner of the bar and recompense for the lady's services the following morning. He was shy and asked what he should say to them. I said that his chances would be considerably improved if he spoke a little Thai and I coached him, getting him repeat over and over until he got it right, "Mee gluai yai ay song maprow." When he had built up enough confidence I called over one of the girls that he been slavering over and nudged him to centre stage. He uttered the magic words and she burst out laughing - and then told the other girls who joined in the hilarity. He cursed me for setting him up - but he got the girl - as if there was any chance that he wouldn't.

Translation :- I have a big banana and two coconuts.

After his two weeks holiday he went home, sold his house, car and said goodbye to everyone and came back to stay. He lasted only five years before a heart attack got him, aged 58. RIP Graham.

often wonder what the stats are on this sort of occurrence ...looking around at the tourist families ..you know the ones.. two pasty kids and a somewhat plain overweight middle aged wife and he feigning interest in wooden frogs or the menu while ....

what occurrence, your post has nothing to do with the subject being discussed?

[David006]

I had a pal who came from the UK to visit me to see if the reports that I had sent him had any substance. We spent a couple of evenings wandering from bar to bar, not going hard at it. He had some difficulty in believing that most of the girls working in a bar were available and all it took was a small donation to the owner of the bar and recompense for the lady's services the following morning. He was shy and asked what he should say to them. I said that his chances would be considerably improved if he spoke a little Thai and I coached him, getting him repeat over and over until he got it right, "Mee gluai yai ay song maprow." When he had built up enough confidence I called over one of the girls that he been slavering over and nudged him to centre stage. He uttered the magic words and she burst out laughing - and then told the other girls who joined in the hilarity. He cursed me for setting him up - but he got the girl - as if there was any chance that he wouldn't.

Translation :- I have a big banana and two coconuts.

After his two weeks holiday he went home, sold his house, car and said goodbye to everyone and came back to stay. He lasted only five years before a heart attack got him, aged 58. RIP Graham.

often wonder what the stats are on this sort of occurrence ...looking around at the tourist families ..you know the ones.. two pasty kids and a somewhat plain overweight middle aged wife and he feigning interest in wooden frogs or the menu while ....

what occurrence, your post has nothing to do with the subject being discussed?

hmm another one of your constructive contributions.....??

[WinnieTheKhwai]

The less you try, the more interested women get. Go about your ways, do your own thing, then the challenge becomes to *avoid* getting into a relationship. But if you must, it'll be on your terms.

To which I can further add: and once you relent and get in that relationship, then the floodgates REALLY open, as Thai women seem to go in overdrive for a guy who already has a girlfriend. Strange effect, that. And the happier your relationship, the harder they try.

strange world you must live in,ive been married twice, to ladies from chiang mai and ive never once had a approach,from my ladies friends,and they both have a very large amount of thai girl friends.no disrepect,but i suppose it must boil down to were one keeps company.maybe im dipping out somewere,any tips.

Same for me; though only married once.

Thai women are the second most promiscuous/aduleterous in the world, look at the recent study to back it up. Of course we knew that already.

[WinnieTheKhwai]

I had a pal who came from the UK to visit me to see if the reports that I had sent him had any substance. We spent a couple of evenings wandering from bar to bar, not going hard at it. He had some difficulty in believing that most of the girls working in a bar were available and all it took was a small donation to the owner of the bar and recompense for the lady's services the following morning. He was shy and asked what he should say to them. I said that his chances would be considerably improved if he spoke a little Thai and I coached him, getting him repeat over and over until he got it right, "Mee gluai yai ay song maprow." When he had built up enough confidence I called over one of the girls that he been slavering over and nudged him to centre stage. He uttered the magic words and she burst out laughing - and then told the other girls who joined in the hilarity. He cursed me for setting him up - but he got the girl - as if there was any chance that he wouldn't.

Translation :- I have a big banana and two coconuts.

Ah. That's pretty iffy grammar. Then again if it helps getting the laugh then why not.