needforspeed Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Soi Convent, 18:42 Sitting at the a table and getting out off the blue head bumped by a client at the bar because he had a issues with a guy sitting next to me. This is my nice afternoon Sunday, did some golf in the morning,had a shower and go for a few drinks at MM at soi convent, i been joined by 2 people. At one moment a guy standing next to my tab le and walked to me nad head bumped me in my face. I realy did no what was going on walked back, grabbed my bag and whent to pay my bill. I walked away. I called the management and went back to the bar to talked with the manager, he was drunk and informed me that it was my risk as i was sitting next to a bad guy causes problems. We asked for the video, he not allowed us to do. How to deal with this low class bar managers ??? I give up and not going back their even as my staff at the office. Thank you, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soi41 Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Judging by your post, the manager is not the only one with a problem! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
needforspeed Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 Thanks mate, I just out for a beer and have this problems. not good, Thanks, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post payak Posted September 23, 2012 Popular Post Share Posted September 23, 2012 (edited) he said you were responsible because you sat next to a troublemaker. you should headbutt the manager, and tell him its his fault for standing in front of a trouble maker. its ok he said so right Edited September 23, 2012 by payak 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 (edited) You did the right thing, leave ! there are plenty more places, find another, life is too short. stay safe, best way to avoid an issue is dont be there, there loss of custom, doesnt sound like a "good" place to be anyway. Find somewhere else mate. Edited September 24, 2012 by CharlieH 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovelomsak Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 (edited) You did the right thing by walking away. Was one of your 2 friends who joined you there the guy that was the "bad guy"? If he was maybe ask him what the problem could be if no one else is telling you,I would. Edited September 24, 2012 by lovelomsak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I don't get it....? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meatballs Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Bars = trouble. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trainman34014 Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 No point in getting too upset about this sort of thing as it's common here. It takes a bigger man to walk away than be one looking for confrontation. Just choose nicer places to drink in future. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattayadingo Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Bars = trouble. It is the odd idiot that often = trouble, not the bar(s). Many of us use bars to socialise and are very happy doing so with no trouble at all. OP, yes, walking out of the bar was the right thing to do. find a better one with friendlier people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaipod Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Was the bar manager a thai or farang? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
needforspeed Posted September 24, 2012 Author Share Posted September 24, 2012 Was the bar manager a thai or farang? Farang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoslim Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Start drinking at a place where the manager is not a d1ck I think you did the right thing by walking away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbrain Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Bars = trouble. I never seen a bar creating trouble, after all chairs and tables are dead objects and don't move by themselves,not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rsquared Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I agree that you simply don't go there again. Much easier to stay away from trouble, than try and stand your ground and justify your principles. Just like driving......look further ahead, spot the bad ones and give them a wide berth. I was having a quiet beer by myself the other day while my wife was having her hair done, and these two guys sat down at my table. One was obviously more drunk than the other......who insisted on telling me anything and everything that popped into his alcohol infused mind. I was tempted to just get up and leave, but I could see he wasn't a violent drunk (they are easy to spot), just an annoying drunk.....so I just sat there and agreed with everything he said until my wife came and "rescued" me. All in all he wasn't too bad. But to have something happen like with the OP.......yeah, I definitely would've got up and left. Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangkockney Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Why would you let someone headbutt you and do nothing about it? You didn't even find out why? You really got attacked for simply sitting in a particular place? Did you know the guy next to you? Seems like a crazy story to me. If someone walloped me for no reason, there'd be drama. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
needforspeed Posted September 24, 2012 Author Share Posted September 24, 2012 (edited) Why would you let someone headbutt you and do nothing about it? You didn't even find out why? You really got attacked for simply sitting in a particular place?Did you know the guy next to you? Seems like a crazy story to me.If someone walloped me for no reason, there'd be drama.Yes a agree, WHY.This guy was drunk and they sitting there with 6 guy's on a table next to me.The guy i know next to me, i see him ones a month.The guy i know who didn't do anything wrong been banned for 1 year, drunk manger told me to protect costumers as me. The guy who headbutt me was still at the bar and nothing been done.Staff told my wife later that evening that manager is many times drunk during work at his bar and no good time to talk with him, the 6 guys are drinking at the place few times a week as my wife been told by the staff so he isn't going to send them away, sadly.Ive been in that place few times a month from the day they opened 15-16 years ago never had any issues in the bar.I am just disapointed that nothing been done and they allowed drunk agressive people to stay.Thanks Edited September 24, 2012 by needforspeed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semper Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 How to deal with this low class bar managers ??? Ask him to show his WP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoslim Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 How to deal with this low class bar managers ??? Ask him to show his WP. or maybe change venues instead of going into an useless argument with a drunk bar stool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I understand your not an English speaker but l don't understand your OP. Hope the head butter wasn't Italian. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DLock Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Why did he headbutt you? Did he split you open? If you were so concerned why didn't you visit the nearby police...assuming you were cut. Otherwise, why didn't you smash a stool over his head? I don't understand the relationship with your staff or your wife and the bar. ...in fact, I don't really understand why you posted this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
travelmann Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I don't get it....? Just ask again!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farang000999 Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 go to higher end bars than those for farang in a third world red light district? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 go to higher end bars than those for farang in a third world red light district? Ix nay on the x ay gotcha Don't ya just miss the good old fashioned preachers? And molly and momma in the long skirts and petticoats. And Sunday dinners on the farm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldsailor35 Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 How to deal with this low class bar managers ??? Ask him to show his WP. Better still tell us the name of the bar and its location ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 Was the bar manager a thai or farang? Farang Report him for working without a proper work permit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CNF55 Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 How to deal with this low class bar managers ??? Ask him to show his WP. Better still tell us the name of the bar and its location ! It's in the OP - 'MM at Soi Convent'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damo Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 Is this post about the bar manager or the guy who issued the head butt ? I personally would'nt have bothered with the bar manager. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
needforspeed Posted September 26, 2012 Author Share Posted September 26, 2012 Is this post about the bar manager or the guy who issued the head butt ? I personally would'nt have bothered with the bar manager. Bar manager, he should send the guy headbutt me out of the bar and banned him for a while. Instead he told me that it was my mistake as i was sitting next top a trouble maker who didnt do anything. Management of a place like this should take action on bar manager and guy head butted me. Anyway i not going back their and even avoid bars as much as possible. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinfoilhat Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 I think if i ran into a drunk bar manager, i would promptly gripe about it on the interweb. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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