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Am i right? why would any male marry mid 30s while living in country like los? what is the point of living in Thailand and early marriage? I'm saying this because bachlor life seem to be more demanding than family life for young age in Los

Being on my second marriage at 31, first brit, second asian (non-thai) then i can say that the married life is more demanding in LOS, however i have a great son who always reminds me exactly where home is....

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Am i right? why would any male marry mid 30s while living in country like los? what is the point of living in Thailand and early marriage? I'm saying this because bachlor life seem to be more demanding than family life for young age in Los

Being on my second marriage at 31, first brit, second asian (non-thai) then i can say that the married life is more demanding in LOS, however i have a great son who always reminds me exactly where home is....

I understand if you marry you are to remain faitful, that mean no more enjoyable nightclubing, less friends, less traveling long-journeys ....

What is more demanding, can you give few examples...

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Am i right? why would any male marry mid 30s while living in country like los? what is the point of living in Thailand and early marriage? I'm saying this because bachlor life seem to be more demanding than family life for young age in Los

Being on my second marriage at 31, first brit, second asian (non-thai) then i can say that the married life is more demanding in LOS, however i have a great son who always reminds me exactly where home is....

I understand if you marry you are to remain faitful, that mean no more enjoyable nightclubing, less friends, less traveling long-journeys ....

What is more demanding, can you give few examples...

Since when? I know married people who have plenty of friends, go nightclubbing and travel long distances for work or with friends or whatever. Being married isn't exactly a jail sentence (unless that is your choice of circumstances of course).

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Stupid question from stupid dude

sorry guys, but i need to know what you think

I'm against early marriage, and when marriage comes it's production time

I thought 35-40 is ideal age and 45 is a deadline for me

I think age for a man is different than for a woman for having a child. The biological clock is ticking for the woman so she's more pressured and the man can always produce, whatever age he is.

I know guys who are so physically fit at age 45 that some 30 years old's could be envious...

And what if your relationship ends, you got older and have to re-start again?

I am not so much worried about a certain age, but I am more worried about the number of divorces these days. I know that a lot of people in Thailand and in my country are getting divorced, most of them between 30 and 40. At 20 the world is yours, at 30 you found the girl to marry with and society says that you have to have established yourself otherwise you're no good and at 40 a huge percentage of married couples are fuc**ing bored with eachother and in fact want something else (or you stay together because of the kiddies and act as a happy couple). Have you seen the number of single 40+ white guys walking the streets in Bangkok?

Me, this whole marriage package that society tries to put on us won't do for me. I have nothing against marriage but marrying too early is a risk but....there is no guarantee in life if it works or not....so what happens when you reach 44 without a relationsship or having a good relationship to have children in and your deadline is 45??? Wish you luck!

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BKKDUDE, why did you start your Poll at just 28??? any reason for that? 'Some' people DO get children younger than 28 you know. :D

I was 20: first :o

I was 21: second :D and they were both 8-months-old-children at birth.

We have a very good relationship and are also friends. Some of their friends are also my friends and I'm still in a very good relationship with my ex, the mother of my children. :D

I'm a lucky man :D

LaoPo

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When people think you're the grandfather it's too late.

That simple.

:o for what? :D

LaoPo

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Read the subject title :o

Right...I missed the subtitle :D sorry.

LaoPo

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When is it too late? Supposed it depends on who's view you are after.

For the kid I think you need to be old enough to be stable financially and mature enough to handle it (20's up?), but young enough to play with him/her na dstill be about for their graduation.

For the parent: I think when you feel you've "lived" enough (er, I don't mean in the mortal sense!) and can cope with settling down and can afford to provide for the family.

I started too young I think, but I love my family and am a happy man.

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Im 28 and we are expecting our first baby in june...cant wait..!....

i reckon 45 is too late for a guy and for the lady i would about 40.....that is if her eggs havent dried up by then......

its not fair on the kid to not have their parents around to see them grow into adults.....

and for those who say u cant have kids and have a career...i say <deleted>...!

life is what u make of it and i would choose my childs upbringing over a career anyday....

work to live...not live to work..... :o

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i reckon 45 is too late for a guy..........etc.

I knew a Gentleman...he was 59 (!!!) when he married for the first time, with a much younger Lady of course. They had 3 children; 2 boys, 1 girl. Very fine kids.

The man died at a high age, around 95 or so....he spent the last 10-15 years on an estate in Bali :o near Ubud.

Lucky guy I suppose.

Laopo

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I would say alot of it depends on the people having the children. Some people are very old at 30 and others are very young at 50. If you have alot of energy and you like kids you can make it work when you're older then why not. Also, older parents usually have more patients than younger parents and are more financially secure which is a big plus in my book. Many young parents both have to work. They put their kids in day care and just see them for a few hours at night. An older parent would have more free time to spend with the child.

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I think 30 it's the best time, I still have 5 more to have fun and don't get too serious about everything :o

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