khunpa Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 I am just wondering? What are your experiences? Mine girlfriend is pretty jealous and sometimes does the "drama show". She does not throw knifes or anything else at me like that, but I do feel as a part of a Thai TV show, when it happens. (a lot of crying and impossible to talk sense with her) What I do not understand about her, is that she is a person that you normally can have a serious and reasonable conversation with. She is smart, hardworking and at her work, she can handle many complicated challenges very well. At work, she is the one with the mental overview and I am sometimes the one freaking out and overreacting. But when it comes to her personal feelings and me, she sometimes overreacts and turns into what I call a "drama queen". When this happens, I just leave the house and go somewhere to wait until she has calmed down and she sends an SMS to me to please come home. Or she ends up packing a bag and leaving in a very dramatic way, just to return again later when she has calmed down. I am starting to wonder, if this is a cultural thing and where does it come from? Are all Thai-women "Drama Queens"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banzai99 Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Are ALL Farangs whining moaning pedants ? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ukrules Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 This is the same the world over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissFarmGirl Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 (edited) no not all queens, drama or other type Edited September 22, 2013 by MissFarmGirl 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Sounds like you and your girlfriend have serious relationship problems, and not because your girlfriend is Thai and certainly not a cultural traight. I think you should sit down and have a long think about the situation, because you won`t find any solutions on an open forum, as everyone`s personal relationship experiences are different and these problems can arise for all sorts of reasons. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Average Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Or she ends up packing a bag and leaving in a very dramatic way, just to return again later when she has calmed down Time to bail out. She's an attention-seeking neurotic. Ditch her. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jasun Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Face, and holding stuff back, when it finally comes out, it comes out in a big way. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frankold Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Or she ends up packing a bag and leaving in a very dramatic way, just to return again later when she has calmed down Time to bail out. She's an attention-seeking neurotic. Ditch her. I can't remember seeing anything else on the menu around these parts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marcel1 Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 nope sorry, never had a thai gf who was a drama queen. and for sure im not waiting for someone like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottocus Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frankold Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 The toys out if the pram routine is usually when you don't do exactly what she says and is an attempt to get you wrapped around her little finger? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totster Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Don't know about all Thai women.. but Jingthing definitely is ! totster 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nana Cowboy Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 There are whackjobs out there and if it is on a very regular basis do bail. If it's just pms or the SS meno then you may have to deal with it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeverSure Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Life's too short. Who needs that chit? Dump her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 She is just worried about losing her loooooooong sought after farang perhaps. BUT, all ladies are different, us guys will never understand shit, and to be honest I don't want too now as an older guy. I have never been able to get to the bottom of stuff , well some bottoms , but not the Venus bottom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BookMan Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 OP, do you apologise to her in some way or comfort her or acquiesce to any demands she makes when she returns? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheryl Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 There is nothing that all Thai women are except (1) Thai and (2) women. Beyond that, this group of approximately 33 million individuals contains as much diversity as any other group of human beings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhingeingMoaners Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 I am not sure whether Thai women are drama queens, but I have seen a good number of bitching queens on Thai Visa. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trainman34014 Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 OP; watch out as the knife throwing is just around the corner ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexRRR Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 yes well my current TGF is far from submissive compared to previous once she gets a bee in her bonnet she is out spoken and absolutely unreasonable also extremely jealous and when that happens its like the third world war. These days her moods don't last so long as ive put it bluntly and remind her from time to time, "your going to act like that then I cant take you seriously" full stop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frankold Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 There is nothing that all Thai women are except (1) Thai and (2) women. Beyond that, this group of approximately 33 million individuals contains as much diversity as any other group of human beings. That would imply that they are all mentally mature 'women' right from birth, which clearly isn't the case. I'd say the average thai bird turns 18 in her early 30's. Some later than others, obviously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MB1 Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Don't know about all Thai women.. but Jingthing definitely is ! totster Got an agony aunt for Jingthing...Ying And yang... http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/yin-and-yang/ Or maybe BJ can help, aka beetlejuice... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kudel Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 I wonder if some of the girlfriends from some of the posters here are already in there menopause. Op youre girlfriend is giving you a taste of what your relationship will be like later grow a pair and do the right thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotrod4098 Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 3 good years then 2 of complete hell..drama queen mak mak...her way or no way...could not understand any thing other that what she had planned to do if did not do..things kicked off..i put this down to leaving school at 14...and pregnant at 15...no education skills..devious yes... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sbk Posted September 22, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted September 22, 2013 Oh for heavens sakes. There are 33 million Thai women and I am pretty damn sure they are not all the same. There are roughly 3 and a half billion women on the planet and I am pretty sure they are not ALL the same too! yet another post designed to denigrate Thai women, I see. Suggest OP, next time you need advice regarding your relationship you try not to tar 33 million women with the same brush. //CLOSED// 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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