Nautilus05 Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 (edited) Nevermind. Edited October 24, 2013 by Nautilus05 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post benalibina Posted October 24, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 24, 2013 Open up, dont be afraid. Its anonymus. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nautilus05 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Share Posted October 24, 2013 Open up, dont be afraid. Its anonymus. I'm just tired. Really tired. And it's sad, because I'm only 31, and am honestly a really great guy. I've lived in I think 7 different countries now, traveled to many others, been rich, been poor, been totally in love with it being returned, being totally heart broken, and the list goes on. I don't know. Doesn't matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marcel1 Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Life is what you make of it... and never turns out the way you expect or hope it to be. best is to forget the bad and enjoy the good although by times it seems difficult. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marcel1 Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 So whats the main problem I doubt it but maybe people here can help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post meom Posted October 24, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 24, 2013 Get a couple of beers and listen to some deep or tech house for a few hours and you'll be fine. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MJP Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Where's home? Go there and take it easy. Sounds like a great life so far, but it can knock the living hell out of you. Time to put the feet up a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post benalibina Posted October 24, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 24, 2013 Write it down. Might help you. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Bewildered, Bewildered...You have no complaintYou are what your are and you ain't what you ain'tSo listen up Buster, and listen up goodStop wishing for bad luck and knocking on wood 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToddWeston Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Whenever I'm "stressed" - I spell is backwards and over indulge. Tomorrow will get better. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kevvy Posted October 24, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 24, 2013 Open up, dont be afraid. Its anonymus. I'm just tired. Really tired. And it's sad, because I'm only 31, and am honestly a really great guy. I've lived in I think 7 different countries now, traveled to many others, been rich, been poor, been totally in love with it being returned, being totally heart broken, and the list goes on. I don't know. Doesn't matter. It does matter. Never think it doesnt matter there is always somone you can turn too. Post me if you need to talk . it costs nothing . So feel free to talk . Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bikkii Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Cheer up old sport. Your not the only one whose life has resembled a roller-coaster. Just take a read through TV and you will definately read about people whose lives have been on a bigger dipper than yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MJP Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Cheer up old sport. Your not the only one whose life has resembled a roller-coaster. Just take a read through TV and you will definately read about people whose lives have been on a bigger dipper than yours. Imagine how dull life would be if we weren't on a rollercoaster? We only remember the good times. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Dancealot Posted October 24, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 24, 2013 You dont have to speak but sometimes it helps if you know people who care are there to listen. Nice to know 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mad mary Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Cheer up old sport. Your not the only one whose life has resembled a roller-coaster. Just take a read through TV and you will definately read about people whose lives have been on a bigger dipper than yours. Imagine how dull life would be if we weren't on a rollercoaster? We only remember the good times. Unfortunately "We only remember the good times." is not true when depression sets in.The opposite is the thing that gets to you!!no matter how hard you try. Wishing the OP a speedy way out! not great advice or informative but as I don't know him,not much more I can say. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Cheer up old sport. Your not the only one whose life has resembled a roller-coaster. Just take a read through TV and you will definately read about people whose lives have been on a bigger dipper than yours. Imagine how dull life would be if we weren't on a rollercoaster? We only remember the good times. Unfortunately "We only remember the good times." is not true when depression sets in.The opposite is the thing that gets to you!!no matter how hard you try.Wishing the OP a speedy way out! not great advice or informative but as I don't know him,not much more I can say. True spoken. Its all a mindsgame though. Knowledge, true awareness of 1s ownself , between feeling. Tough battle. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post cpofc Posted October 24, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 24, 2013 Life's rich tapestry. I dunno if there is anything I could write here that would make you feel better. You are still young with the rest of your life to live yet. I know Bangkok/Thailand, can be a lonley place for a foreigner who feels he is losing his way and the land of smiles no longer has him smiling. It is perhaps passe these days, and has most likely been posted dozens of times here before. But I find that it is still a good read. It is my all time favourite piece of verse. If IF you can keep your head when all about youAre losing theirs and blaming it on you,If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,But make allowance for their doubting too;If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,Or being hated, don't give way to hating,And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;If you can meet with Triumph and DisasterAnd treat those two impostors just the same;If you can bear to hear the truth you've spokenTwisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:If you can make one heap of all your winningsAnd risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,And lose, and start again at your beginningsAnd never breathe a word about your loss;If you can force your heart and nerve and sinewTo serve your turn long after they are gone,And so hold on when there is nothing in youExcept the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,If all men count with you, but none too much;If you can fill the unforgiving minuteWith sixty seconds' worth of distance run,Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son! Rudyard Kipling - 1895 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bikkii Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Just think how lucky you are OP. You are only 31 ! Lived in many countries, travelled the world. F@@k the women (not in a literal sense), tii ya get your head right. Plenty of years left in ya yet. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Life's rich tapestry. I dunno if there is anything I could write here that would make you feel better. You are still young with the rest of your life to live yet. I know Bangkok/Thailand, can be a lonley place for a foreigner who feels he is losing his way and the land of smiles no longer has him smiling. It is perhaps passe these days, and has most likely been posted dozens of times here before. But I find that it is still a good read. It is my all time favourite piece of verse. If IF you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise: If you can dream - and not make dreams your master; If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools: If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!' If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son! Rudyard Kipling - 1895 Very very nice. Know am on the right track. Patience though..........costs most likely alot. Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MJP Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Cheer up old sport. Your not the only one whose life has resembled a roller-coaster. Just take a read through TV and you will definately read about people whose lives have been on a bigger dipper than yours. Imagine how dull life would be if we weren't on a rollercoaster? We only remember the good times. Unfortunately "We only remember the good times." is not true when depression sets in.The opposite is the thing that gets to you!!no matter how hard you try. Wishing the OP a speedy way out! not great advice or informative but as I don't know him,not much more I can say. Ws trying to keep this upbeat and avoid the D word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 On a light note of all the assumptions we make about his state of mind; he might just be wondering about asking advice on next week lotterynumbers ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MJP Posted October 24, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 24, 2013 On a light note of all the assumptions we make about his state of mind; he might just be wondering about asking advice on next week lotterynumbers ! Had a PM back, he's okay. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 On a light note of all the assumptions we make about his state of mind; he might just be wondering about asking advice on next week lotterynumbers ! Had a PM back, he's okay. love your camera!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mad mary Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Cheer up old sport. Your not the only one whose life has resembled a roller-coaster. Just take a read through TV and you will definately read about people whose lives have been on a bigger dipper than yours. Imagine how dull life would be if we weren't on a rollercoaster? We only remember the good times. Unfortunately "We only remember the good times." is not true when depression sets in.The opposite is the thing that gets to you!!no matter how hard you try.Wishing the OP a speedy way out! not great advice or informative but as I don't know him,not much more I can say. True spoken. Its all a mindsgame though. Knowledge, true awareness of 1s ownself , between feeling. Tough battle. The mind can be a <deleted> though & play with ones inner beliefs ,awareness ,knowledge counts for nothing when self doubt kicks in, self doubt leads to endless days of depression,stopping that self doubt can come from unexpected turns down unexpected roads. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Cheer up old sport. Your not the only one whose life has resembled a roller-coaster. Just take a read through TV and you will definately read about people whose lives have been on a bigger dipper than yours. Imagine how dull life would be if we weren't on a rollercoaster? We only remember the good times. Unfortunately "We only remember the good times." is not true when depression sets in.The opposite is the thing that gets to you!!no matter how hard you try.Wishing the OP a speedy way out! not great advice or informative but as I don't know him,not much more I can say. True spoken. Its all a mindsgame though. Knowledge, true awareness of 1s ownself , between feeling. Tough battle. The mind can be a cun_t though & play with ones inner beliefs ,awareness ,knowledge counts for nothing when self doubt kicks in, self doubt leads to endless days of depression,stopping that self doubt can come from unexpected turns down unexpected roads. You are mostly, maybe totally, correct. I am in the middle of it. I know however that things will go better. Fact of life. The other side though, have thought many times that i have reached the bottom and then something again happened. I see it now as a rising stockmarket with the, big, dips which go along with it. The result will be for the better though. I will become more complete ! Yes unexpected, pleasant/good, events can make a huge difference in getting out of it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrWorldwide Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 OP, *if* you are serious, this is probably the last place I would come to for counselling. Pretty much everyone on TV is rich, attractive from head to toe and has zero problems - if you are serious, you need to treat this seriously. You're not a child, and you know what a counsellor is - good luck. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 OP, *if* you are serious, this is probably the last place I would come to for counselling. Pretty much everyone on TV is rich, attractive from head to toe and has zero problems - if you are serious, you need to treat this seriously. You're not a child, and you know what a counsellor is - good luck. Apparantly you havent read the thread. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jasun Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Nevermind. Even if this wasn't a Nirvana reference, you could do worse than putting on some headphones and blasting out track 1, Smells Like Teen Spirit. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted October 25, 2013 Share Posted October 25, 2013 move away from the balcony... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ToddWeston Posted October 25, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted October 25, 2013 OP, *if* you are serious, this is probably the last place I would come to for counselling. Pretty much everyone on TV is rich, attractive from head to toe and has zero problems - if you are serious, you need to treat this seriously. You're not a child, and you know what a counsellor is - good luck. I read the OP before I went to bed and couldn't find the right words of encouragement, I'm a kind guy and wanted to do my part and help in whatever way. There's a poster over on the health forum who's my hero for the day. http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/676963-im-depressedacting-happy-is-a-lie/ After reading your post I'm convinced we should have a sub forum for people in need, just so those of us that care can respond in kind. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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