For the last 6 years I am starting to realize that the problem with my life thus far has been the fact that I got caught up in the wrong crowds.

When I was 19 years old I moved to the city from the country and met a some Japanese backpackers.

In my experience, these people are kind of misfits in japan. Looking for an easy way out. Looking for a prince to give them the easy way out. Plus in the back of their minds they know that Australian welfare is their golden goose.

I broke free with a lot of scars and am so close to hooking up with a flowering business lady here in Thailand. We are drawing up a kind of contract with each other now.

we are going to try to all of our business ideas together...

One of the contract items was to not be a butterfly until we are both rich and both agree to modify the contract lol.

It really makes sense now, the large majority of people want something for free from the government. So why not screw over your so called 'Loved ones' . They do it all the time it appears! You just have to read about all the western women leaving men penniless.

Although i feel that a lot of the expats want the next wife to slave after them. Around the house hold and over the stove. I think that too is a recipe for disaster...

Marriage was originally a contract to ensure all offspring where your legitimate children. Children are very costly and 1 in 5 children are statistically illegitimate. That is theft by fraud. Marriage today has been warped into something very twisted.

Wherever I go, there I am.

The worst crowd I hang out with is that one battling it out between my ears.

Edited December 31, 201312 yr by impulse

... the fact that I got caught up in the wrong crowds...

Is this your subtle way of saying goodbye to all of us here at TV, the hub of wrong crowds?

That story was incoherent and made practically no sense. Forget the wrong crowds, who's going to save you from yourself?

My problem was never wrong crowds. I made my own decisions.

That story was incoherent and made practically no sense. Forget the wrong crowds, who's going to save you from yourself?

Clearly, Op needs help. He will receive it by way of his GF. (Planning business ventures together is a perfect way to start).

If that fails, he would surely make a good new member of the Pattaya Farang Freak-Show. He would feel at home in no time at all.

Cheers.

Wrong crowd is the kind of thing that should stop at school. Although have you looked at Pattaya Addicts, bad influence that I reckon

No offense intended, but you seem naive about romantic relationships. What does getting rich have to do with being able to be a butterfly?

That story was incoherent and made practically no sense. Forget the wrong crowds, who's going to save you from yourself?

I was going to say something similar so rather than repeat what's been said I'll just say

Another OP under the influence?

No not a criticism and I'm not talking about being under the influence of drink or drugs either.

You see when you feel the need to make such thoughts public it is normally IMHO because you are uncertain and unsure!

Maybe you are feeling pressured and need some one to tell you to slow down a bit..........Maybe?

I don't know what I'm doing but crowds avoid me.

What are you talking about?

Before blowing all your money on a business, go back to Australia and enroll your self in a constructive writing course.

I dont think one person understands this story

Before blowing all your money on a business, go back to Australia and enroll your self in a constructive writing course.

I dont think one person understands this story

I saw this OP as an anti-christian in another person's post. The OP speaks "<removed>" and that is where he is excellent for.

OP said:

In my experience, these people are kind of misfits in japan. Looking for an easy way out. Looking for a prince to give them the easy way out. Plus in the back of their minds they know that Australian welfare is their golden goose.

Are they the ones misfit in Japan or you in your country? How do you know what is in the back of their mind? And what welfare can they enjoy in Australia if they are Japanese?

What are you talking about?

5 5 5!

Before blowing all your money on a business, go back to Australia and enroll your self in a constructive writing course.

I dont think one person understands this story

Don't send him back to oz <deleted>.

Another OP under the influence?

No not a criticism and I'm not talking about being under the influence of drink or drugs either.

You see when you feel the need to make such thoughts public it is normally IMHO because you are uncertain and unsure!

Maybe you are feeling pressured and need some one to tell you to slow down a bit..........Maybe?

Agree with you!

Maybe this is what I've heard, "he is high"

Cocaine is a hell of a drug.

Either over medicated or under medicated not sure but I couldn't understand the point of the post.

I think you guys are being a bit harsh. His post is really a comment. I understand most of it, you can work it out if you try. Quite spot on about expats looking for slaves. If you read some of the threads on Thai wives that's what it sounds like

So.

Whats your question?

Don't just do something, stand there!......................

Best advice I can think off for you at the minute buddy...............

Before blowing all your money on a business, go back to Australia and enroll your self in a constructive writing course.

I dont think one person understands this story

I saw this OP as an anti-christian in another person's post. The OP speaks "<removed>" and that is where he is excellent for.

I can't believe this, two post's in one thread....are you both using the same b*ng?

I think you guys are being a bit harsh. His post is really a comment. I understand most of it, you can work it out if you try. Quite spot on about expats looking for slaves. If you read some of the threads on Thai wives that's what it sounds like

" Quite spot on about expats looking for slaves."

The point about "generalities " in posts or threads are that they are neither informative or helpful in saying anything useful!

In your experience your comments may be correct, in other peoples experience your comments are far from correct but then again anything that the majority agree on must be then considered the truth, even though of course it is only a "generality"

For the last 6 years I am starting to realize that the problem with my life thus far has been the fact that I got caught up in the wrong crowds.

I wonder what the 'crowds' think...

Before blowing all your money on a business, go back to Australia and enroll your self in a constructive writing course.

I dont think one person understands this story

Don't send him back to oz <deleted>.

PNG IT IS!

I'm struggling to understand the OP as well. I get the stuff about Japanese misfits in Australia but the whole 'flowering business lady' marriage stuff seems to be pretty much unconnected. And then it's all about how marriage is twisted and illegitimate children mean marriage by fraud.

I guess I'm just not getting what the point is. That it's better to hang out with a crowd defined by some sort of contract..?

Either over medicated or under medicated not sure but I couldn't understand the point of the post.

All I thought only me didn't understand the point!