My girlfriend just left me!

[Lockheed]

Not when emotions are involved,

this is where the men lose their power

This is where most guys come unstuck and the girls know that, they know our weaknesses.

I read an article and it said they start the emotional control process at about four years of age, on there dad.

[Razzler1973]

Whenever a working girl doesn't go to work for a month or two and goes to stay with someone it's a play for the GF position

In the grand scheme of her working life it's a drop in the ocean. She won't be losing out on that big promotion at the office, she's taking a punt and/or doing what she wants to do in the hope it pays off and/or she fancies some paid time off

I would never take those things as any kind of serious intension of anything

[Scarpolo]

Whenever a working girl doesn't go to work for a month or two and goes to stay with someone it's a play for the GF position

In the grand scheme of her working life it's a drop in the ocean. She won't be losing out on that big promotion at the office, she's taking a punt and/or doing what she wants to do in the hope it pays off and/or she fancies some paid time off

I would never take those things as any kind of serious intension of anything

You have hit the nail squarely on the proverbial head here:

The moment anyone takes anything seriously,

therein lies their greatest danger,

you may was well pull the pin on the grenade and pretend, that it's not going to explode.

these girls have feelings too, and they want a better life,

the farange have done a pretty good job of showing them what bastards we can be,

and their thai fathers, if they even know who they are,

started their issues with men,

and then their thai boyfriends, finsihed them off,

what we are left with,

is the survivors.

go to thaifriendly.com and you will see, there are thousands all telling the same story,

if you can find one without a child, you are in luck,

I have met a few girls from there, and they were all normal

[Scarpolo]

Whenever a working girl doesn't go to work for a month or two and goes to stay with someone it's a play for the GF position

In the grand scheme of her working life it's a drop in the ocean. She won't be losing out on that big promotion at the office, she's taking a punt and/or doing what she wants to do in the hope it pays off and/or she fancies some paid time off

I would never take those things as any kind of serious intension of anything

Agreed.

In the USA, there is a website and a service a friend uses regularly, where they advertise either by the hour, overnight, and as a GFE,

GFE = girl friend equivalent

I never heard that term until I left my 2nd wife and started hanging with single friends again,

I believe I have a full time GFE,

She wants me to marry her,

I probably would, but not here in Thailand,

she would have to go back to the States with me,

where I would surely lose her.....

they don't know they are the candy here,

besides, what I am saving on bi weekly hairdressers and nails and other feminine requirements of the plus 40 female crowd in the US, I would rather spend here, on a girl who deserves a break

[davejones]

What a load of crap you lot talk.

[Scarpolo]

What a load of crap you lot talk.

crap perhaps,

but descriptive of the reality of this country

[Tacho De Lao]

Yeah, stop being a wuss and carry on looking for the love of your life. Life's too short.

Thank you. I'm alone here in los except for some Thai friends . May be time to change to plan b. Thanks guys.

It's just a fact. Your story is as old as the dawn in Thailand. Wooloomooloo said it best. I would suggest a trip to the Phils. You run into the same issues there but not as strong and you can find a girl who really wants to take care of you and will be happy with your attention and fewer paid bills and you won't have to buy gold or a buffalo. If you really want "love" or a "relatioship" based on feelings, not your wallet, this might be the wrong place for you. You can find them but you gotta look high and low and probably have another or two experiences like this one. Try online sites first so you can vet the person you are talking to more. The answers to certain questions will tell you: digger or real. More passion in Pinoy women I have found, Good luck. Move on now.

[Tacho De Lao]

Yeah, stop being a wuss and carry on looking for the love of your life. Life's too short.

Thank you. I'm alone here in los except for some Thai friends . May be time to change to plan b. Thanks guys.

It's just a fact. Your story is as old as the dawn in Thailand. Wooloomooloo said it best. I would suggest a trip to the Phils. You run into the same issues there but not as strong and you can find a girl who really wants to take care of you and will be happy with your attention and fewer paid bills and you won't have to buy gold or a buffalo. If you really want "love" or a "relatioship" based on feelings, not your wallet, this might be the wrong place for you. You can find them but you gotta look high and low and probably have another or two experiences like this one. Try online sites first so you can vet the person you are talking to more. The answers to certain questions will tell you: digger or real. More passion in Pinoy women I have found, Good luck. Move on now.

[HardenedSoul]

Yeah, stop being a wuss and carry on looking for the love of your life. Life's too short.

Thank you. I'm alone here in los except for some Thai friends . May be time to change to plan b. Thanks guys.

It's just a fact. Your story is as old as the dawn in Thailand. Wooloomooloo said it best. I would suggest a trip to the Phils. You run into the same issues there but not as strong and you can find a girl who really wants to take care of you and will be happy with your attention and fewer paid bills and you won't have to buy gold or a buffalo. If you really want "love" or a "relatioship" based on feelings, not your wallet, this might be the wrong place for you. You can find them but you gotta look high and low and probably have another or two experiences like this one. Try online sites first so you can vet the person you are talking to more. The answers to certain questions will tell you: digger or real. More passion in Pinoy women I have found, Good luck. Move on now.

Alternatively, have a look in the mirror, develop a personality and go back to the US to meet a good woman there.

OK so she may not have the good looks or tight body of your ex-hooker but at least you'll be able to speak her language and share a common culture.

[thailiketoo]

Alternatively, have a look in the mirror, develop a personality and go back to the US to meet a good woman there.

OK so she may not have the good looks or tight body of your ex-hooker but at least you'll be able to speak her language and share a common culture.

You are speaking from the experience of your own success story? Right?

[HardenedSoul]

Alternatively, have a look in the mirror, develop a personality and go back to the US to meet a good woman there.

OK so she may not have the good looks or tight body of your ex-hooker but at least you'll be able to speak her language and share a common culture.

You are speaking from the experience of your own success story? Right?

No but I'm not one lamenting on the loss of a prostitute as a girlfriend.

[Scarpolo]

Alternatively, have a look in the mirror, develop a personality and go back to the US to meet a good woman there.

OK so she may not have the good looks or tight body of your ex-hooker but at least you'll be able to speak her language and share a common culture.

You are speaking from the experience of your own success story? Right?

No but I'm not one lamenting on the loss of a prostitute as a girlfriend.

Oh, that dude is long gone, we may never hear from him again, as, he may already be dead.

this is the same guy who didn't react to his discovery that the girl made a key to his apartment, without permission.....

think about that, she had to actually have possession of his key, have a copy made, and get his original key back to him, without his knowledge,

how long do you think this guy has left to live in a country like this?

Edited February 11, 2014 by Scarpolo

[SailingHome]

Do you guys think all of this is different in Western countries where women shop for the man that can buy nice houses and cars, run him dry, then move on to the next guy? No, they aren't all that way here or there... just enough to mess with the 'system'

[Scarpolo]

Do you guys think all of this is different in Western countries where women shop for the man that can buy nice houses and cars, run him dry, then move on to the next guy? No, they aren't all that way here or there... just enough to mess with the 'system'

I believe this is a Thailand specific issue, but I don't have the experience others have here, only to say, that many thai women are able to take advantage of westerners because, we are on short term visa's and they know, as do we, that unless we put down roots here, (roots in thailand, without the right to own property or a business withoutt a thai partner being the majority owner?)

they have advantages here that they wouldnt have in the west, the US specifically

the tactics of women in general, is the law of the jungle, the survival of the fittest, this we probably all agree,

but the reality that, Thai law, is applied arbitrarily, and will always favor the thai,

yes, I think it is different here,

it harms them as much as it could potentially harm, us,

I live here short term, as much as I would like to make this a permament stay, the reality is, this is not hospitable to a westerner who wants to earn a living here, legtimately....key word there, legitimately

I am open to being wrong, on everything I just stated as, I live with a thai girl 21 years younger, and I like it,

but the facts are still, I have to leave here, every 90 days, unless I decide to open a bank account here, which I may if gold continues its rally, and tests $1,700 soon, for me it will all be moot, and I won't even need a business anymore, but, it can get boring, mostly because I am not likely to venture out far on my own, and enjoy the comforts of the home I am in

[FiftyTwo]

they have advantages here that they wouldnt have in the west, the US specifically

Completely the opposite is true.

In the west

A judge will give any woman you live with lots of your assets.

Especially if they have kids, doesn't even have to be your kids.

In Thailand

They can't get their hands on anything you don't give them. Even if you have children with them.

And if you are married, all gifts are also considered part of the marriage contract, and on divorce you can claim them back.

[y2k]

I should have got married in Thailand.

Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand

[Scarpolo]

they have advantages here that they wouldnt have in the west, the US specifically

Completely the opposite is true.

In the west

A judge will give any woman you live with lots of your assets.

Especially if they have kids, doesn't even have to be your kids.

In Thailand

They can't get their hands on anything you don't give them. Even if you have children with them.

And if you are married, all gifts are also considered part of the marriage contract, and on divorce you can claim them back.

I wasn't on the topic of marriage, as, this was all about girlfriends......

Good to know you can "claim" gifts back,

that's a little strange, but, ok

[FiftyTwo]

they have advantages here that they wouldnt have in the west, the US specifically

Completely the opposite is true.

In the west

A judge will give any woman you live with lots of your assets.

Especially if they have kids, doesn't even have to be your kids.

In Thailand

They can't get their hands on anything you don't give them. Even if you have children with them.

And if you are married, all gifts are also considered part of the marriage contract, and on divorce you can claim them back.

I wasn't on the topic of marriage, as, this was all about girlfriends......

Good to know you can "claim" gifts back,

that's a little strange, but, ok

gfs in the west can claim almost everything you own (plus part of your wages for the next 20 years) with little effort.

"Oops, sorry, accident, pregnant, but I'm keeping the baby", judge will give her your money and your home.

"boo hoo, my boyfriend hits me", you are escorted in cuffs from your home, by police, and told not to return.

Your Thai gf (or wife) can't, even if she lives with you and has your baby.

"Oops, pregnant, keeping baby", judge gives her nothing if gf.

"boo hoo, he hits me", police ask you if she deserved it, or advises her to move out.

Get the idea?

Edited February 12, 2014 by FiftyTwo

[Scarpolo]

they have advantages here that they wouldnt have in the west, the US specifically

Completely the opposite is true.

In the west

A judge will give any woman you live with lots of your assets.

Especially if they have kids, doesn't even have to be your kids.

In Thailand

They can't get their hands on anything you don't give them. Even if you have children with them.

And if you are married, all gifts are also considered part of the marriage contract, and on divorce you can claim them back.

I wasn't on the topic of marriage, as, this was all about girlfriends......

Good to know you can "claim" gifts back,

that's a little strange, but, ok

gfs in the west can claim almost everything you own (plus part of your wages for the next 20 years) with little effort.

"OOps sorry, accident, pregnant but I'm keeping the baby"

Get the idea?

Your Thai gf (or wife) can't, even if she lives with you and has your baby.

Makes me want to run out and get a vasectomy,

not that I can see myself with a western girl again within the range we have here, age ratio that's to read

right now I am 53 she is 32.no pressure to marry, and a body like a teenager,

If that was available to me in the USA, I would have stayed,

it was the opposite,

the girls in their mid 30's were all good friends, but preferred guys closer to their age....and for all the right reasons.

all I did was find girls in their late 40's and, god forbid around my age, 52-54, who wanted to "sell" me, on why I should be with girls my own age,

as it is, the 32 year old already complains I want too much sex. what would those 50 year olds in the US say?

[FiftyTwo]

as it is, the 32 year old already complains I want too much sex. what would those 50 year olds in the US say?

Next time she tries that, get your keys and walk to the door, "where you go?", "off to get some sex darling, you always get first refusal". That's the Thai male way.

[Scarpolo]

as it is, the 32 year old already complains I want too much sex. what would those 50 year olds in the US say?

Next time she tries that, get your keys and walk to the door, "where you go?", "off to get some sex darling, you always get first refusal". That's the Thai male way.

She is currently being "retrained"

I have made it pretty clear,

I am not Thai,

I am American,

You can say no, if you don't feel good,

but, I have already left her twice, over refusals, so,

I let her slide on her periods, though....not that I wouldn't, but, I give ground there

side note: I asked her how much blood she had left as we were driving in last night,

she offered to bring me to a massage parlor for sex......gotta love a girl like that, but I kindly said, no worries.......it's only another day or so, I can deal

Edited February 12, 2014 by Scarpolo

[slipperylobster]

ooooooops double posting accident

Edited February 12, 2014 by slipperylobster

[slipperylobster]

I hope I can find someone soon. I'm a man who doesn't want to be alone. Many of you here at TV are ok with that but I'm not. I'll have to adapt or..

...you can have mine...and her sister too!!

[thailiketoo]

as it is, the 32 year old already complains I want too much sex. what would those 50 year olds in the US say?

Next time she tries that, get your keys and walk to the door, "where you go?", "off to get some sex darling, you always get first refusal". That's the Thai male way.

That's just before the wife buys a pet duck right? Where do you guys find these women? I always get the kind that feel they are equal to men, get paid as much as men and have a staff of men working for them who are all afraid of them.

[HardenedSoul]

She is currently being "retrained"

You can say no, if you don't feel good,

but, I have already left her twice, over refusals, so,

I let her slide on her periods, though....not that I wouldn't, but, I give ground there

side note: I asked her how much blood she had left as we were driving in last night,

she offered to bring me to a massage parlor for sex......gotta love a girl like that, but I kindly said, no worries.......it's only another day or so, I can deal

I really can't begin to imagine why your ex-wives kicked your fat arse to the kerb and cleaned your financial clock, mate.

I mean, you're such a catch, I can't fathom how you could come to be such a loser with women.

Still, I guess if they hadn't left you, they probably would have put a bullet in your brain for being such a monumental plank so it seems you did ok.

Edited February 12, 2014 by HardenedSoul

[HardenedSoul]

I'm going to assume that as you don't appear to know where to draw the line in terms of the details you provide in these posts of yours, there's very little chance that you know where to draw the line in terms of how you deal with women in real life.

Do you really think we want to know that you're up for sex with your slave when she's menstruating?

Do you think that kind of thing is impressive?

Do you imagine that we aspire to be like you in the way you think and talk about women?

Frankly, you just come over like a total douche with what seems like complete and utter contempt for someone who, despite her profession, is still a human being.

Living life talking through your cock must be so enlightening

[Scarpolo]

I'm going to assume that as you don't appear to know where to draw the line in terms of the details you provide in these posts of yours, there's very little chance that you know where to draw the line in terms of how you deal with women in real life.

Do you really think we want to know that you're up for sex with your slave when she's menstruating?

Do you think that kind of thing is impressive?

Do you imagine that we aspire to be like you in the way you think and talk about women?

Frankly, you just come over like a total douche with what seems like complete and utter contempt for someone who, despite her profession, is still a human being.

Living life talking through your cock must be so enlightening

Plenty of women want to have sex when they are menstruating.....enlightern yourself

And she is far from a slave, she has free will, and I live, in her spotless home,

close your legs and open your mind,

if you have that capability,

Edited February 12, 2014 by Scarpolo

[thailiketoo]

Do you guys think all of this is different in Western countries where women shop for the man that can buy nice houses and cars, run him dry, then move on to the next guy? No, they aren't all that way here or there... just enough to mess with the 'system'

I believe this is a Thailand specific issue, but I don't have the experience others have here, only to say, that many thai women are able to take advantage of westerners because, we are on short term visa's and they know, as do we, that unless we put down roots here, (roots in thailand, without the right to own property or a business withoutt a thai partner being the majority owner?)

they have advantages here that they wouldnt have in the west, the US specifically

the tactics of women in general, is the law of the jungle, the survival of the fittest, this we probably all agree,

but the reality that, Thai law, is applied arbitrarily, and will always favor the thai,

yes, I think it is different here,

it harms them as much as it could potentially harm, us,

I live here short term, as much as I would like to make this a permament stay, the reality is, this is not hospitable to a westerner who wants to earn a living here, legtimately....key word there, legitimately

I am open to being wrong, on everything I just stated as, I live with a thai girl 21 years younger, and I like it,

but the facts are still, I have to leave here, every 90 days, unless I decide to open a bank account here, which I may if gold continues its rally, and tests $1,700 soon, for me it will all be moot, and I won't even need a business anymore, but, it can get boring, mostly because I am not likely to venture out far on my own, and enjoy the comforts of the home I am in

You can own a business and property in Thailand because you are an American. You sound like a teen age noob writing from a one room flat in NYC and dreaming about making it big someday and traveling to Thailand. The sex and menstruating talk is reminiscent of an adolescent with his first girlfriend.

However one thing does make sense. You wrote, "I am not likely to venture out far on my own,"

[Scarpolo]

Do you guys think all of this is different in Western countries where women shop for the man that can buy nice houses and cars, run him dry, then move on to the next guy? No, they aren't all that way here or there... just enough to mess with the 'system'

I believe this is a Thailand specific issue, but I don't have the experience others have here, only to say, that many thai women are able to take advantage of westerners because, we are on short term visa's and they know, as do we, that unless we put down roots here, (roots in thailand, without the right to own property or a business withoutt a thai partner being the majority owner?)

they have advantages here that they wouldnt have in the west, the US specifically

the tactics of women in general, is the law of the jungle, the survival of the fittest, this we probably all agree,

but the reality that, Thai law, is applied arbitrarily, and will always favor the thai,

yes, I think it is different here,

it harms them as much as it could potentially harm, us,

I live here short term, as much as I would like to make this a permament stay, the reality is, this is not hospitable to a westerner who wants to earn a living here, legtimately....key word there, legitimately

I am open to being wrong, on everything I just stated as, I live with a thai girl 21 years younger, and I like it,

but the facts are still, I have to leave here, every 90 days, unless I decide to open a bank account here, which I may if gold continues its rally, and tests $1,700 soon, for me it will all be moot, and I won't even need a business anymore, but, it can get boring, mostly because I am not likely to venture out far on my own, and enjoy the comforts of the home I am in

You can own a business and property in Thailand because you are an American. You sound like a teen age noob writing from a one room flat in NYC and dreaming about making it big someday and traveling to Thailand. The sex and menstruating talk is reminiscent of an adolescent with his first girlfriend.

However one thing does make sense. You wrote, "I am not likely to venture out far on my own,"

Without a thai partner, you can own a home and business? Really? Why is it that I am told only condo's can be purchased, which suck, if I wanted to live in an obelisk without grass and trees, I would go back to Manhattan, and, what business can you own in thailand without being the minority partner?

[Scarpolo]

She is currently being "retrained"

You can say no, if you don't feel good,

but, I have already left her twice, over refusals, so,

I let her slide on her periods, though....not that I wouldn't, but, I give ground there

side note: I asked her how much blood she had left as we were driving in last night,

she offered to bring me to a massage parlor for sex......gotta love a girl like that, but I kindly said, no worries.......it's only another day or so, I can deal

I really can't begin to imagine why your ex-wives kicked your fat arse to the kerb and cleaned your financial clock, mate.

I mean, you're such a catch, I can't fathom how you could come to be such a loser with women.

Still, I guess if they hadn't left you, they probably would have put a bullet in your brain for being such a monumental plank so it seems you did ok.

The first one left, because I moved in with my girlfriend in Los Angeles,

The second one left because some duecebag lawyer told her that she could get a california divorce, even though we were residents of Florida, and she thought I was screwing every girl in the building, all the female bartenders we knew, the bldg manager, thought I wanted to screw every teenager that walked by, and had a narcotics and cigarette addiction that I refused to continue to enable....

That and at 50, she was convinced she was old and I was trade her, and was just waiting for her to die so I could fulfil all my dreams,

I decided to dream on.......and left her in the hell she created, without her CA divorce and her slut of a daughter, who came from some criminal she screwed

other than that, I am with a 32 year old that looks 20, and I am living my dreams, so, she was half right, and half crazy,

want her number? She will just lay there......too beautiful to participate apparently, as she had too many men telling her pretty she was, I guess she believed them