golden gate Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 I just met a nice girl in Udon thani for 10 days ,and I am in love with her even though she is 30 Yrs younger than me. I would love to marry her but a bit scare pls tell me about your exp. I am staying at Silver Reef B&B (udon ) until end of JULY....................... new kid on the block. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaiPauly Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Take it S L O W.. dont rush Listen to what will follow from my post And good luck..however it turns out TP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Burr Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 A thirty year age difference is too much. She will never love you genuinely, no matter what she says. Move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slackula Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Would you consider marrying a girl 30 years younger than you from your home country if you had known her for just 10 days? /'nuff said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkmadness Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Would you consider marrying a girl 30 years younger than you from your home country if you had known her for just 10 days?/'nuff said. I'm pretty sure he would if he had the chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Would you consider marrying a girl 30 years younger than you from your home country if you had known her for just 10 days? /'nuff said. I'm pretty sure he would if he had the chance. No problem handsum man can have a lady 30yrs younger wherever in the world he is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OlRedEyes Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 How's the fishing around Silver Reef these days. i wonder..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donz Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Mate, BIG BIG mistake. Marry NO-ONE when you only know them 10 days, are you crazy?? You need to know them for a few years ATLEAST first. Although some relationships do work out in a short time of meeting eachother, but MOST of them end up in heart break. Your got to be atleast 50 years old and you sound like you havent learnt anything after all these years. Mate take it very slow and see how it all pans out first before even thinking of getting married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warriors Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 (edited) Hold on to your wallet very tightly. Pull a condom on every time and ask if shes got a younger sister. Infact better to also ask how many are in her family. Then you will know how many you will be supporting if. A You Marry her. B She is allready pregnant ( that is if it's yours ) C Enjoy the honymoon while it lasts. D Take it real slow. E GOOD LUCK You may need it Edited May 29, 2006 by warriors Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agsnowdon Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 "Papa" comes to mind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunMarco Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 (edited) Hold on to your wallet very tightly. Pull a condom on every time and ask if shes got a younger sister. Infact better to also ask how many are in her family. Then you will know how many you will be supporting if.A You Marry her. B She is allready pregnant ( that is if it's yours ) C Enjoy the honymoon while it lasts. D Take it real slow. E GOOD LUCK You may need it Oh and no, probably he's not her brother... Edited May 29, 2006 by KhunMarco Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khun Yak Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Take a cold cold shower and think twice. Cheers, KY Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TRIPxCORE Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Haven't we seen this same thread in here before? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rio666uk Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 what is it with these sorts of threads? i read the forum and sub forums for weeks before joining so that i wouldnt make my first post some complete <deleted> that everyone laughs at... some TV members lurked on the forum for months before actually signing up - reading, learning and generally getting a feel for thailand and the forum jeeeeezus gimme a break what would yer mates or anyone else say if you said you met a girl 30 years your junior 10 days ago and now you wanna marry her... you think the opinions from strangers on the net are gonna be any different? what dyou wanna hear?? TROLL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khall64au Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 I am totally perplexed... why do older men (supposedly wiser men) completely lose their balls when they come to this country? I JUST DON"T GET IT! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaoPo Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 I am totally perplexed... why do older men (supposedly wiser men) completely lose their balls when they come to this country? I JUST DON"T GET IT! Well, Khall....have a look here.... http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/index.php?sh...ic=66257&st=270 But, I agree: the OP said it right: "I'm in love" and that's something completely different than loving someone or even marrying someone (after knowing her for 10 days) LaoPo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayo Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 la-da-di-la-dah-da.............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdnvic Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 I just met a nice girl in Udon thani for 10 days ,and I am in love with her even though she is 30 Yrs younger than me. I would love to marry her but a bit scare pls tell me about your exp. I am staying at Silver Reef B&B (udon ) until end of JULY....................... new kid on the block. Finally, a prequel to the "...and now she took my house!" threads. cv Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daleyboy Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaoPo Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Oh come on Daley.........don't be such a big boy, pretending you're not in love with someone....30 years younger your age .... YOUR SON!!! LaoPo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daleyboy Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Nice one mate, i knew you werent talking about my wife as she is 3 years older than me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaoPo Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 Nice one mate, i knew you werent talking about my wife as she is 3 years older than me So....now you know the difference between -30 and +3 LaoPo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totster Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 I am totally perplexed... why do older men (supposedly wiser men) completely lose their balls when they come to this country? I JUST DON"T GET IT! No.. they don't lose their balls.. they start thinking with them.. totster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackr Posted May 29, 2006 Share Posted May 29, 2006 If you're not a troll, go home for 6 months and cool down... actually that'll make it worse. Get out of there and spend time in another part of Thailand... these girls are everywhere Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monochaser Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 The guy is rather obviously a troll and a lousy one at that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Skipper Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 . Meet a cute Thai hillbilly and fall in love in a few days. Goes to show how difficult it is to find a girl back home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gary A Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 Enjoy her and DON'T worry about it. Just follow the simple rules; DON'T marry her and don't spend more than you can afford to walk away from. When that love of your life turns to shit you can find another maybe even better. Such is life here in the Kingdom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lordofdelusion Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 In my best cynical voice let me say that while in Thailand, it is better to rent than to own. That goes for just about everything. I have a charming thai girlfriend but I won't marry her until I'm sure I won't get one of these unpleasant surprises so often written about here. No sign of that yet but just in case, I'm waiting her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tourleadersi Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 Ah what the hel_l man, marry her! Life is about taking risks, you're not really living unless you take the bull by the horns. Listen to the words of advice on this thread from people who are far wiser and more experienced than I. The general theme is don't pay a huge dowry, make it clear as best you can that you are not a gravy train, and limit any payments you make out to a level that won't hurt when you loose it. If you can do that, then marry her. If she leaves you after a year, then so what? Surely it is better to have loved and lost? Ask yourself this. If you don't get married will you spend the rest of your days regretting it? Sometimes you just have to go for it and ignore everyone else. I guarantee that you will make major mistakes in life (I do it all the time) but at least you can say that you chose to make those mistakes. It means you are in control of your life. If you let others persuade you out of what you really want in life then you will end up bitter in later years and seek to blame them. So, forget asking others for advice, follow the path you choose for yourself. Yes its crazy wanting to marry a girl 30 years your junior. Yes everyone will laugh (and some men will probably secretly go green with envy). Yes it is most likely doomed from the outset. Yes you will almost certainly get burned and end up a crushed shadow of your former self. But hey, isn't that better than living a 'safe' unadventurous life? I've been shot down in flames more times than the Iraqi Airforce, but boy do I have some stories to tell. I suggest you carry an extinguisher with you at all times! Good luck, you're gonna need it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Head Snake Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 30 years seems too much a gap unless you are 100 years old. Even if you are 90, I think you are trying to rob the cradle. Marriage - NO. N.O. NO dating: sure if you are ok with it and can keep your wallet hidden. Make sure she knows you have very little money in the bank, no home, and a wife. Then see how the relationship goes from there. I also enjoy a Udon woman who is 14 years my junior. She is a very nice village girl. I still enjoy her as much as when I met her 3 years ago. Unlike some around here, I do get it and I know alot of you other people do too. I've met some good village girls or at least I feel good with those village girls. I've met some dodgy ones too; but that was fun too. I've still kept unmarried as part of the goal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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