She want's me to send her money!<deleted>!

[HooHaa]

If it was just to procreate, why the stigma attached to having children out of wedlock?

It's got everything to do with conformity. You really think it's random that people are encouraged to work, generate income, pay taxes, meet a boy/girl, trap themselves in a legal contract like marriage, trap themselves in another legal contract to buy a house, have children and be held captive by their instinctive love for those children?

By the time they realise they're in the trap , it's too expensive financially and emotionally to break free.

You think the "powers that be" had no hand in this?

You really think it's "just what people do"?

You really ought to know better especially at your age

You just keep your eye on your bank balance... I was going to say young fella...........BUT, sadly you at 47 are looked at preeeeeeeeety much the same as me, yeeeeeh, an old guy............... ..............

Ah always with the barb when you can't mount a rebuttal (which is always the case with you)

So, I'm 47.

What of it?

I doubt many people would realise my age considering I've got every follicle of hair on my head I had as a 20 year old, i'm 6.0', 82kgs at 15% body fat and I still have to pinch myself from time to time to make sure that I really am in Bangkok living this kick-arse lifestyle

You are really living the dream man! Spending half your life on here.

that is a rather amusing rejoinder from someone publicly seeking advice on an internet forum on how to deal with his own wife's spending and gambling issues.

[agavrilescu]

Guys, I have refrain from posting on this forum many times, maybe it's not wise for me to write on this post either but I really don't see the big problem here, anyways not such a big problem that requires a divorce.

I mean, the lady in question is working in UK from what I have understood, so she brings money in the house too, an yes 5000 baht per day is a lot of money but think when you go in holiday you usually spend that amount as well, I surely spend more than 100 euro per day while in holiday. If she didn't go home to Thai in a long time I don't see what the problem is if she decide this year to spend a months salary.

What I am saying is that's not like she took all the money in the family saving account...

Correct me if I am wrong but she already stay in Thai 2 weeks, that's 14 days an spend 5000 baht per day so about 100 pounds per day that makes 1400 pounds total, she want to stay one more week so another 700 pounds, that is a total of 2100 pounds for a 3 week holiday, I don't find it unacceptable at all and believe me I am not rich.

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It is understood why you refrain from posting....many times.

I see you don't agree with me and that's fine, I am not saying I am right, but would you be so kind to tell me what is that you don't agree about my post?

Forgot to say English is not my native language so excuse the mistakes

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Edited May 1, 2014 by agavrilescu

[JohnDodd]

Troll post or not its good knockabout stuff on a dull rainy night in Mahasarakarm, lets have some more lads its only half 8.

[HooHaa]

Easy to say marriage and having children take "guts" when, much of the time, its really just two people who who don't want to end up alone.
I think it takes much more "guts" to be alone and self-reliant.
Marriage/procreation isn't some sort of rite of passage. A lot of the time, it's a cop out; it's conforming to what society expects.

having raised a child as an un-married parent for the last 8 years with an amicable but non romantic relationship with the mother. i would say that you are talking through your ass.

try bringing up a child and tell me its a cop out. living with a woman you dont love certainly is though.

[HardenedSoul]

If it was just to procreate, why the stigma attached to having children out of wedlock?

It's got everything to do with conformity. You really think it's random that people are encouraged to work, generate income, pay taxes, meet a boy/girl, trap themselves in a legal contract like marriage, trap themselves in another legal contract to buy a house, have children and be held captive by their instinctive love for those children?

By the time they realise they're in the trap , it's too expensive financially and emotionally to break free.

You think the "powers that be" had no hand in this?

You really think it's "just what people do"?

You really ought to know better especially at your age

You just keep your eye on your bank balance... I was going to say young fella...........BUT, sadly you at 47 are looked at preeeeeeeeety much the same as me, yeeeeeh, an old guy............... ..............

Ah always with the barb when you can't mount a rebuttal (which is always the case with you)

So, I'm 47.

What of it?

I doubt many people would realise my age considering I've got every follicle of hair on my head I had as a 20 year old, i'm 6.0', 82kgs at 15% body fat and I still have to pinch myself from time to time to make sure that I really am in Bangkok living this kick-arse lifestyle

You are really living the dream man! Spending half your life on here.

Half my life??!! Been a member over 6 years with less than 3000 posts.

I work from home here IN THAILAND. Both my monitors are on - one for work, the other for movies, music, FB or what have you so sure, I post.

You, on the other hand, are in THE UK, asking mostly divorced-at-least-once pensioners on a Thai expat forum for advice on how to rein in your older wife's relatively modest spending after starting a thread telling everyone how wealthy she is.

I mean, you just couldn't make that up

As for Transam AKA Mr. Lonely with a jaw-dropping 24,000 posts in 7 years . . . . bah . . . I can't be bothered - he's been buried more times than a dog's bone

[rayongchelsea]

A great marriage is probably the best thing someone can do.

I have seen it in my family.

Unfortunately I have not been able to achieve this, but that's ok, such is life, but I have no fear of being a lone.

The op wife is a gambler, disregards his concerns, you read these threads all over this forum..

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[transam]

@ Hardon.

Do you not see that your continual abusive posts regarding senior citizen members here makes you look a right plonker.

Your whole grasp on stuff is, old age of posters, post counts, your untouched cash cos you can't get a bird, and to top it all, at 47 you think your a young eeeeeeeer something......

Lonely, yeh I have been lonely a few times in my life, thankfully not at the mo, unlike yourself. Get a grip man and find a bird.............

[balo]

ÖP must be a troll or just very very stupid. 5000 baht in a village will keep the family alive for at least one week .

[harryfrompattaya]

is a game , you been taken to the cleaners , she try suck as mutch money as she can, if i was you i would not pay anything.. is possible she not even return to you .

Call her at once and tell her you are taken to kids to MIL in Thailand and leave them their

[BKK Blues Brother]

Hardened Soul by name and hardened soul by nature.

That explains why at 47 you are still single!

Try viagra!!

See where all here to help!

So there's no need to ridicule people.

Tell us why you are so hardened, was it a past love gone wrong, a broken heart that carn't be mended....we are here for you.

BTW the gambling is not an issue, a quid here and there.

A little flutter like most the world over.

[brewsterbudgen]

ÖP must be a troll or just very very stupid. 5000 baht in a village will keep the family alive for at least one week .

Why would you want to just keep your wife alive? She's been living in the UK why the hell wouldn't she want to live in the manner to which she has now doubt become accustomed?

[Loles]

You do send her a big slap and don't any money.

Better if you take your 50 pounds and give to some-one who has not anything, or buy toys and carry to the nearest orphanage.

Why do you want to give your money to TH gambling mafia ???

[Penefattore]

if there is a reasonable chance that by not sending any money she gets stuck in the village without being ever able to return home, then I would send no money at all

[HardenedSoul]

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@ Hardon.

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Your whole grasp on stuff is, old age of posters, post counts, your untouched cash cos you can't get a bird, and to top it all, at 47 you think your a young eeeeeeeer something...... alt=laugh.png width=20 height=20>

Lonely, yeh I have been lonely a few times in my life, thankfully not at the mo, unlike yourself. Get a grip man and find a bird............. alt=thumbsup.gif width=25 height=19>

Again, just for your benefit

Hardened Soul by name and hardened soul by nature.

That explains why at 47 you are still single!

Try viagra!!

See where all here to help!

So there's no need to ridicule people.

Tell us why you are so hardened, was it a past love gone wrong, a broken heart that carn't be mended....we are here for you.

BTW the gambling is not an issue, a quid here and there.
A little flutter like most the world over.

Is that the extent of your "wit"?

"That" explains it, does it?

Sorry but how old are you?

[BKK Blues Brother]

Younger than you old man!

Now we all know where your 15% body fat is. LOL

[HardenedSoul]

Yes but not where your wife is, eh??

[BKK Blues Brother]

Very brave of you to admit it.

I've no doubt's where my wife is.

[seajae]

Guys, I have refrain from posting on this forum many times, maybe it's not wise for me to write on this post either but I really don't see the big problem here, anyways not such a big problem that requires a divorce.

I mean, the lady in question is working in UK from what I have understood, so she brings money in the house too, an yes 5000 baht per day is a lot of money but think when you go in holiday you usually spend that amount as well, I surely spend more than 100 euro per day while in holiday. If she didn't go home to Thai in a long time I don't see what the problem is if she decide this year to spend a months salary.

What I am saying is that's not like she took all the money in the family saving account...

Correct me if I am wrong but she already stay in Thai 2 weeks, that's 14 days an spend 5000 baht per day so about 100 pounds per day that makes 1400 pounds total, she want to stay one more week so another 700 pounds, that is a total of 2100 pounds for a 3 week holiday, I don't find it unacceptable at all and believe me I am not rich.

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I take it you are single with no kids because if you did have any you would realize that they have to come first BEFORE your gambling and giving it away to others. This isnt about her being on holidays, she went there to take care of her sick mother, not party, gamble and do god knows what else, she is married with kids so she has responsibilities to her own family before her freeloading family in Thailand. A parent has to put their children first and she allowed 1400 pounds to last 3 weeks but blew it so she has to learn to do without for the last 7 days, maybe next time she will think first before deciding to gamble/piss it away. As for medical bills she has already stated her immediate family now all work so they can pay for them instead of freeloading off her and they can start giving her back some of what she gave them to start with. I know what I would be telling her and it would not be the money is on its way, she needs to take responsibility for herself and what she has done.

[Puyai]

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Guys, I have refrain from posting on this forum many times, maybe it's not wise for me to write on this post either but I really don't see the big problem here, anyways not such a big problem that requires a divorce.

I mean, the lady in question is working in UK from what I have understood, so she brings money in the house too, an yes 5000 baht per day is a lot of money but think when you go in holiday you usually spend that amount as well, I surely spend more than 100 euro per day while in holiday. If she didn't go home to Thai in a long time I don't see what the problem is if she decide this year to spend a months salary.

What I am saying is that's not like she took all the money in the family saving account...

Correct me if I am wrong but she already stay in Thai 2 weeks, that's 14 days an spend 5000 baht per day so about 100 pounds per day that makes 1400 pounds total, she want to stay one more week so another 700 pounds, that is a total of 2100 pounds for a 3 week holiday, I don't find it unacceptable at all and believe me I am not rich.



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I take it you are single with no kids because if you did have any you would realize that they have to come first BEFORE your gambling and giving it away to others. This isnt about her being on holidays, she went there to take care of her sick mother, not party, gamble and do god knows what else, she is married with kids so she has responsibilities to her own family before her freeloading family in Thailand. A parent has to put their children first and she allowed 1400 pounds to last 3 weeks but blew it so she has to learn to do without for the last 7 days, maybe next time she will think first before deciding to gamble/piss it away. As for medical bills she has already stated her immediate family now all work so they can pay for them instead of freeloading off her and they can start giving her back some of what she gave them to start with. I know what I would be telling her and it would not be the money is on its way, she needs to take responsibility for herself and what she has done.

Seajae, couldn't of said it better myself. Probably the best post on this thread and exactly what the OP should do.

[Gutterboy]

Hello

I have a girlfriend who I met while hiring her as a prostitute.

I'm am now back in London, and she has asked me send her money every week. She says she needs what amounts to about 75 percent of my net income. She says that it's for her sick cat who has been passed down through many generations in her family.

Now, she is living with a Thai man she says is her father but who appears to be the same age. She has told

me she loves me very much and wants me to send her a bit more money so she can take care of her father who lives with her.

Question: how much extra should I send for the father. I've got a good 200 pounds or so per month left.

This is a wind up please tell me that you got mixed up with all fools day a prostitute is a prostitute you will never change her she has no doubt got another couple of idiots sending her money each week . The cat has been passed from family for generations how old is the darn cat average life span for a moggies is 7/8 years I have had 10!in the last 8 years with only two remaining she is ripping you off big big time get rid ASAP !

Hahahahaha!!! Well done crazykopite, what great investigative powers you have! What do you think about the father who is the same age? That one just baffled all of us..

[JLCrab]

To BkkBB from the screenplay 'Good Morning, Vietnam' (filmed in Bangkok) regarding some of the helpful comments you have received:

"Dick, I've covered for you a lot of times 'cause I thought you was a little crazy.
But you're not crazy. You're mean. And this is just radio."

Edited May 2, 2014 by JLCrab

[lomatopo]

I'm confused... in this thread the OP says his wife is wealthier...

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/707723-my-thai-wife-is-ten-years-older-and-wealthier-am-i-the-odd-one-out-on-here/

[Om85]

I live in Phuket and I expend less than 1000/day, and that's even when I go partying with my Thai friends or lover.

[transam]

Yes but not where your wife is, eh??

I would really love to know your nationality, just so I might understand your constant negativity..........

What is it....?

[Neeeko]

Did you ask her what she's spending it on?

[agavrilescu]

Guys, I have refrain from posting on this forum many times, maybe it's not wise for me to write on this post either but I really don't see the big problem here, anyways not such a big problem that requires a divorce.

I mean, the lady in question is working in UK from what I have understood, so she brings money in the house too, an yes 5000 baht per day is a lot of money but think when you go in holiday you usually spend that amount as well, I surely spend more than 100 euro per day while in holiday. If she didn't go home to Thai in a long time I don't see what the problem is if she decide this year to spend a months salary.

What I am saying is that's not like she took all the money in the family saving account...

Correct me if I am wrong but she already stay in Thai 2 weeks, that's 14 days an spend 5000 baht per day so about 100 pounds per day that makes 1400 pounds total, she want to stay one more week so another 700 pounds, that is a total of 2100 pounds for a 3 week holiday, I don't find it unacceptable at all and believe me I am not rich.

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I take it you are single with no kids because if you did have any you would realize that they have to come first BEFORE your gambling and giving it away to others. This isnt about her being on holidays, she went there to take care of her sick mother, not party, gamble and do god knows what else, she is married with kids so she has responsibilities to her own family before her freeloading family in Thailand. A parent has to put their children first and she allowed 1400 pounds to last 3 weeks but blew it so she has to learn to do without for the last 7 days, maybe next time she will think first before deciding to gamble/piss it away. As for medical bills she has already stated her immediate family now all work so they can pay for them instead of freeloading off her and they can start giving her back some of what she gave them to start with. I know what I would be telling her and it would not be the money is on its way, she needs to take responsibility for herself and what she has done.

Seajae, i think you are right, I didn't read the whole story about gambling, just reading between the lines and I was thinking she was just on holiday after a long time. I am married for almost 3 years and have a newborn little girl thou so I do understand the kids come first concept

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[khunpa]

Well, it is really up to you if you want to send her money or not. I guess you have been in this situation before, so know what to do.

Personally, I would not send her anything, but I would also not have got in this situation in the first place. A Thai-woman gambling and with no respect for our money, is not someone I would be interested in living with. Simply too many worries.

[elzach]

Hey OP, let's not forget, she's older, wiser (than you obviously) and wealthier.

[maanoi]

So is this wife number 2, or what happend to your older richer wife that you made another thread for

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[BKK Blues Brother]

I sent the money and she spent it on a tatoo.

Me and the kids are on a budget and she does this! I've not called her today because im sick to the back teeth with it all.