throwaway42 Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Hi there, little embarrassing and sorry if this is wrong forum. I've been traveling around Asia for a while and met a girl in Bangkok. We ended up going out a few times, but I was only there for a few days and most that happened was kissing. We have since been keeping in contact through text and a lot of skype and plan to meet her when I am back in Bangkok in a few weeks. A couple of days ago she asked me what I would think if she was a man, I replied very stupidly by first asking 'really?' and then secondly when she said yes I asked if she was joking so which she did say she was joking. However I feel my responses may have sounded like I would have been angry. Since then I have had the suspicion that she wasn't actually joking but just testing my reaction. A few other possible signs? 1) Very quiet voice, almost seems put on 2) When I met her and on her facebook she never wears low cut tops, she is very petite so I thought she may just be a little flat chested. Her shoulders are slightly broader than her hips, however her hips seem quite feminine/curved 3) The first 2 years of her facebook seem deleted and it looks like she used to go by a name which seems on the majority male (although some females also seem to have it), I'd be happy to PM a local here but I don't want to post her first name in public. I would like to make it clear that I have absolutely nothing against transgender/transsexuals. She's a very lovely and beautiful girl but I am not interested in being romantically involved if suspicions are true as I am a heterosexual man. I feel it might be rude if I am to bring it up again but I also don't want to turn up to Bangkok again on false pretenses. Maybe I'm being very paranoid but any advice is welcome, I feel a little dumb asking this question but I was told by a friend that it is sometimes very hard to tell Asian transgender/transsexuals, as some Asian men tend to be naturally quite petite. If this question is offensive or ill-placed I apologise. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sustento Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 Is it troll time already? 17 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throwaway42 Posted May 25, 2014 Author Share Posted May 25, 2014 Is it troll time already? No, I would genuinely like advice. I have 0 experience with transgender persons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Tmymaimee Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) Can you not just ask her? Are you male or female? So simple. Edited May 25, 2014 by Whereustay 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 I agree with Whereustay. Why not just ask her. I'm sure she wouldn't be offended. If you take Big Fat Dave's angle and ask from the angle that she is supernaturally beautiful and can't be a woman....I've only seen BFD walloped 2 or three times.... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Spoonman Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) Next time you are sticking your tongue down it's throat go for a grab, you'll soon know if she's got guy bits down there. Edited May 25, 2014 by Spoonman 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) It is a ladyboy. If you don't care, go for it. If you do, run the other way. There are plenty of real women looking for a date. Edited May 25, 2014 by Ulysses G. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Jay1 Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) Lots of heterosexual males have relationships with ladyboys. Looks like a women, talks like a women, acts like a women and has had the chop, then unless you want kids, go for it! Edited May 25, 2014 by Jay1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) Can you not just ask her? Are you male or female? So simple. and what happens if she lies and has her meat and 2 veg removed ?...I think the problem with your question, she could genuinely believe she is a female and not male, even though she has or has had gentleman's bits So the OP's only solution to his conundrum, is have a look at her ID or do the sniff test, assuming meat and 2 veg removal... Edited May 25, 2014 by Soutpeel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 Next time you are sticking your tongue down it's throat go for a grab, and if you wake up in ICU with a broken nose and caved in skull...assume it was bloke.. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bandos2000 Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 i dont think its a normal question for a thai girl to ask ,( what if i was a man ), sounds like HE is testing your reaction, run ! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Payboy Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 Ask her if her real name is Kevin. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Showbags Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Next time you are sticking your tongue down it's throat go for a grab, and if you wake up in ICU with a broken nose and caved in skull...assume it was bloke.. or not...he could be a panzy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lomatopo Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 A couple of days ago she asked me what I would think if she was a man As this is seems to be an odd conversation topic, this would seem to answer your question, but if unsure ask. Where did you meet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NancyL Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 Doesn't sound like she's going to trap you into marriage by getting pregnant. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ihunnieibee Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Lots of trans start young taking hormones and wearing corsets to adjust their body shapes. Thailand is known for the most beautiful ladyboys so don't be fooled. She's probably a guy or was a guy before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saakura Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Troll. I cannot beleive that you are unable to distinguish between a ladyboy and girl at such close quarters after several meetings and even kissing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tmymaimee Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Could you not have checked her ID while she went into the bathroom? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Troll. I cannot beleive that you are unable to distinguish between a ladyboy and girl at such close quarters after several meetings and even kissing. You should try the spot the Thai lady boy game I came across on the web one time, if they have had the chop, had the boobies done, took the hormones, I would challenge you to spot the "fake" sometimes it isn't easy to do.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thanet Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Check his/her ID card - the new issue ones are in English and Thai. If it says "Mr." then you can be reasonably sure that have just kissed another man. If is says "Miss" or "Mrs", then you are in the clear. Well, perhaps not in the clear with "Mrs" if her husband is still around. Better to know now, than later though. If in doubt, bail out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 You will find out for sure when you get to 3rd base ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) Troll. I cannot beleive that you are unable to distinguish between a ladyboy and girl at such close quarters after several meetings and even kissing. You should try the spot the Thai lady boy game I came across on the web one time, if they have had the chop, had the boobies done, took the hormones, I would challenge you to spot the "fake" sometimes it isn't easy to do.... It is almost always very easy to tell in person, but photos of the most beautiful katoeys in the country are a different story. Edited May 25, 2014 by Ulysses G. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Bernard Flint Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 Lots of heterosexual males have relationships with ladyboys. Looks like a women, talks like a women, acts like a women and has had the chop, then unless you want kids, go for it! A guy who has sex with a ladyboy is bi-sexual not hetro 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernard Flint Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Troll. I cannot beleive that you are unable to distinguish between a ladyboy and girl at such close quarters after several meetings and even kissing. You should try the spot the Thai lady boy game I came across on the web one time, if they have had the chop, had the boobies done, took the hormones, I would challenge you to spot the "fake" sometimes it isn't easy to do.... It is almost always very easy to tell in person, but photos of the most beautiful katoeys in the country are a different story. Wrong, the adams apple gives it away, aND I KNOW that a few have had that shaved too, but very few 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Spoonman Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 You seem well versed in the Ladyboys Bernard Flint, good for you. are you the train or the tunnel ? 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mad mary Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 If it can suck the chrome off a towbar through a hosepipe ,who cares? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jubes Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Tell her you've got a thing for katoeys, maybe you'll get the answer you're looking for Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesquite Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) OP, assuming you are not a troll, there is only one way to determine the person's gender, and that is for you to visually inspect "its" privates. I suggest you find a quiet place, perhaps your apartment or guest house, look the person in the eye and follow the guidance offered in this video... Edited May 25, 2014 by mesquite Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurnell Posted May 25, 2014 Share Posted May 25, 2014 Why has nobody asked to see a photo, a link the his/her FB page. There are some experts on TV (myself included) that can advise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Seastallion Posted May 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 25, 2014 I agree with Whereustay. Why not just ask her. I'm sure she wouldn't be offended. If you take Big Fat Dave's angle and ask from the angle that she is supernaturally beautiful and can't be a woman....I've only seen BFD walloped 2 or three times.... Silly HD, silly silly man: The OP IS whereyoustay. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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