Female prospective?

[mrtoad]

Think you'll find Harry Monk all over her Facebook.

Is he some religious guy?

[tonytigerbkk]

OK, my partners of the order of the TGAU, please stop this now.

I have run out of 'likes' and my sides are hurting from laughing so much.

You boys are legends.

 

To the OP, what is her phone number, me and some of the guys can check her out if you want (all in the name of research).

[ATF]

 

Think you'll find Harry Monk all over her Facebook.

Is he some religious guy?

 

 

He's a mate of Captain Pugwash

[mrtoad]

 

Think you'll find Harry Monk all over her Facebook.

Is he some religious guy?
 

 
He's a mate of Captain Pugwash

Ah yes, now what was the other bloke seaman...

[ATF]

 

 

 

Think you'll find Harry Monk all over her Facebook.

Is he some religious guy?
 

 
He's a mate of Captain Pugwash

Ah yes, now what was the other bloke seaman...

 

 

There was Seaman Willy and Seaman Stains.

[transam]

 

 

 

Think you'll find Harry Monk all over her Facebook.

Is he some religious guy?
 

 
He's a mate of Captain Pugwash

Ah yes, now what was the other bloke seaman...

 

 

It was Seaman Staines, controlled by Master Bates as I recall............
 

[M12MKD]

At least this has made me chuckle.

Cheers

[GentlemanJim]

 

 

 

He's a mate of Captain Pugwash

Ah yes, now what was the other bloke seaman...

 

 

It was Seaman Staines, controlled by Master Bates as I recall............
 

 

And don't forget there was Able Seaman Sample!

[mrtoad]

At least this has made me chuckle.

Cheers

Just be careful mate. Check it out, sounds like she's up to no good.

Now you'll just have to listen to the pish taking in here

[mrtoad]

 

 

 He's a mate of Captain Pugwash

Ah yes, now what was the other bloke seaman...
 

 
It was Seaman Staines, controlled by Master Bates as I recall............
 
 

And don't forget there was Able Seaman Sample!

Roger The Cabin Boy.....

[M12MKD]

At least this has made me chuckle.

Cheers

Just be careful mate. Check it out, sounds like she's up to no good.

Now you'll just have to listen to the pish taking in here

I expected as much on both counts. The phish taking and the no good.

I'll take the advice on board and we'll join the club haha

[Jdiddy]

I find when im faced with things like this i find getting rid of them then moving on is the best way, it removes all the problems automatically

 

 

 

But then im one of those guys who formats his computer and reloads the OS and programs whenever he gets a virus

[mikebell]

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

Here I am.  The title is misleading.  It should read 'Female Perspective.'

A prospective female is a Katoy before the op.

[BrooklynNY]

I am a Thai woman and I find that many Thai women and men are not reliable. I do not live in Thailand but I know well of many Thai character traits. I have a straight forward attitude that I would not be bothered with any Thai women or men if they speak and act non sense, I would just to hell with it. I regularly read Thai forums to catch up with current Thai news, trends and lifestyles. I come to a conclusion that Thai women in general are immature, pretentious, drama queens and like to gossip. I am the opposite. 

 

I do not like using FB. Although I have an account but for family. I set it up to the highest security level. I blocked some people whom I added and they asked to add me. I do not use FB to promote my personal life. I keep my personal life private. 

 

 

Your G/F behaves normal like many Thai women do is vague and does not make sense. If I were you, I would not pay attention about it. Do not add her to your FB and do not create a share FB account with her because many Thai women like to take control after they have become g/f. They like to keep an eye on their b/f.

Edited July 30, 2014 by BrooklynNY

[Pii Kate]

From my perspective...since her father doesn't know about you, how long do you think it would take before he did know if she listed you as a friend? Gossip is a national sport here.  If he doesn't see the posting, someone else will. 

Let this go...so petty.  Believe her and respect her.  Take a hint.  She doesn't want her dad to know about you. Seems fairly simple to me.  RESPECT her wishes and don't put her in a position of choosing between you and her family.  By now you must know how hard it is for Thais to say no and how hard it is to disappoint.

 

[kingstonkid]

First

 

I believe in if it walks like a duck talks like a duck it is probbly a duck.

 

That being said forget about FB.

 

If I got a hold of her computer I would check her emails and see who she is talking to also check to see who she has on FB.

 

Sometimes your friends are your biggest weapon use them.

 

Give all of them her facebook ink and ask them to send her requests.

 

Like previous posters have said a Thai girl form o a village wants to show off her Farang.  It is very unlikely in this country that dad even uses a computer

 

Once you have done your homework then take a look at your schedules and tell her you were thinking of doing a last minute holiday for a week or 2 to meet her family.

 

 

In other words push here to sh!t or get off the pot.

 

 

[mrtoad]

To be honest, FB is a pain in the ass. Mrs T is on my FB, and it is the bain of my life - well it will be, until she is unfreinded again. I travel a lot, and she becomes a right pain in the ass on FB when I am away. Personally, I don't think it is just Thai women that are like this, but there is a high proportion -  I control my life, and I will do what I want with it, and will not have any partner telling me what I should or should not do. There is nothing worse than controlling people IMO

[SlideRiceFC]

Ah, Facebook. Personally I think there is cause for concern. My Thai gf of almost three years keeps our relationship hidden on facebook. We've been "friends" on there since we first met and remain that way on Facebook without posting photos together or airing our relationship out in public comments and messages. Likewise, she hasn't told her family but she doesn't have to. I've been to family weddings and weddings of her friends attending as her "friend" but nobody is that clueless. The reason for the facebook downplay is simply because both of us value our privacy and she likes to avoid the office gossip at her workplace. She's been honest about that from the start. Plenty of girls in her office with nothing better to do than talk about others and celebrity gossip. Your girl, on the other hand, is offering you BS excuses. Sure, maybe she has some big secret like a husband or sponsors or maybe it's something small like one single person on her facebook she doesn't want in her business for whatever reason. The problem is you don't know because she is offering lies instead of an honest explanation. Rather than concerning yourself with the "what could it be?" scenarios stick with the facts. She is okay with lying to your face. Are you okay with that?

 

I've seen this with Thai girls (and it could be so with ANY girls) but facebook is a place they can dig up the dirt (real or imagined) on their boyfriend. Make sure your page is locked down where non-friends can't see any of your activity. Chances are she'll find a way to add you quickly.

[usasia8888]

read all the posts, some common sense, some pretty funny. while FBs not the real issue. apply.some common sense with your intuition and upper brain and while don't be paranoid, watch for more signs. i think the making of excuses for FB is a sign of either hiding something on purpose which will have a bad ending for you or its a real issue of honest transparency between you and her. that is not a good foundation for your longer term relationship. good luck. my personal hunch is your being played. Edited July 30, 2014 by usasia8888

[JenniferSG]

Follow your gut feeling.  As a female, I'd say she's hiding something.  FB isn't that important that you'd need to keep it that private unless you have a double life.  I can see keeping your financial assets to yourself until you actually are talking marriage, but Facebook? Nah.

[smotherb]

 

Maybe some pics, then we can see who on TV has been banging her in your absence.

 

 I must he is brave man to be posting this in pub

 

Then came other excuses such as I don't want my family to see you

 

Usually as soon as a Thai lady gets a farang monkey for a serious BF, she wants to show them off to the village and for all intents and purposes they are planning the wedding

 

so based on this remark alone, your being played... .... Ex or current hubby, BF in the picture a few kids hidden away in the village etc, or she is only intent on clearing your wallet only ..

 

 

gee, she could also have a very domineering father who watches everything she does, including her facebook--and not all Thai women want to flaunt their relationships with farangs, because some Thais are as bigoted as farangs and would be ashamed to admit such a relationship

 

[smotherb]

 

Maybe some pics, then we can see who on TV has been banging her in your absence.

 

 I must he is brave man to be posting this in pub

 

Then came other excuses such as I don't want my family to see you

 

Usually as soon as a Thai lady gets a farang monkey for a serious BF, she wants to show them off to the village and for all intents and purposes they are planning the wedding

 

so based on this remark alone, your being played... .... Ex or current hubby, BF in the picture a few kids hidden away in the village etc, or she is only intent on clearing your wallet only ..

 

 

gee, she could also have a very domineering father who watches everything she does, including her facebook--and not all Thai women want to flaunt their relationships with farangs, because some Thais are as bigoted as farangs and would be ashamed to admit such a relationship

 

[smotherb]

 

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

Here I am.  The title is misleading.  It should read 'Female Perspective.'

A prospective female is a Katoy before the op.

 

 

Sorry, may I see your grammar credentials? The word 'prospective,' which, for your benefit, means relating to or effective in the future, could easily apply to this situation. The OP, after all, is concerned about his future with this lady.
 

[Tatsujin]

Is she a member of the 3rd sex, hence why she's unwilling to let you see all her FB pics of before and after?

[tonytigerbkk]

Is she a member of the 3rd sex, hence why she's unwilling to let you see all her FB pics of before and after?

 

Check to see if she has a tattoo behind her ear.

[Tchooptip]

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

I am not a native English speaker  so I hope there a tourist grammar police on TV?   

[heybuz]

If you have a gut feeling then you do not trust her. To be honest, I don't either............

I have had the same gut feeling as you with mine.I have had no worries about rifling her handbag,looking through bankbooks',checking facebook and everything I could think of,so far all ok,so don't worry about being a bit sneaky it maybe in your own interests. Post script,I have been ripped off once before.

[slipperylobster]

 

Mr. Costas have you got this bird's Facebook address?

Oh god, he's probably been milking her.

 

 

Is she not a goat?

[ATF]

True Love is when your girl comes home smelling of condoms!

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wGBl2eoz_4

[arjunadawn]

The oddest thing about being in a relationship where there are lies and deceit is we are the last to note it. Oh, sure we may get gut feelings or bad intuition, but our rationalization is usually our lover's best defense attorney. We make excuses why everything has a simple explanation "I'm just not seeing it yet," we delude ourselves. For example: we post on a forum a situation asking for other male advice about whet our lover is doing. Yet before we press send, during re read, we realize pretty clearly tat something is wrong. But still, we refuse to see.

Nearly all relationship deceit follows this arrangement. We are the last to see- but on reflection we have known. You know well this woman is hiding something. I was in a similar situation as you but after a time, alone with her PC, I installed a keylogger, made it blind from antivirus, and then got FB access- and found out a whole lot more than I wanted to. In my case there was a guy back in Thailand. Of course, later I realized it was even worse. Enough of me. This is an example. The issue being hidden is not likely family. You should read M Gladwell book "Blink." Learn to trust your gut brother.