MikeRR Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 As soon as I arrived to meet my Issan "Lady" money "was" on the table She had land and asked me to build a house. When I told her not a problem but she have to sign an agreement just in case we split. All I asked to be pay back full amount plus bank loan interest. Things changed fast... No more happy nights no more breakfasts . She wanted everything but I am not stupid. Yes, I paid for food drinks and few other things. I am not a cheap Oh, Yes we went to Lao and at Friendship bridge immigration toured us back because her car was not in her name. We hired a driver and a car and I have learned few thing So please tell, Just Issan or all Thai girls 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totster Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sayonarax Posted August 3, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted August 3, 2014 You met her on the Internet. Now you just met me on the Internet, how about you give me some money? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sayonarax Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Go outside? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post VocalNeal Posted August 3, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted August 3, 2014 MikeRR, Mostly i think they are looking for grammar lessons! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krisb Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 As they say, you get what you pay for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernard Flint Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 The answer to OP is HUGE BIG no My question is How long did you know her, no signs of greed??? leave brain at airport???/ You have a problem with a THAI lady, who happens to live in ISSAN,and your question is are all Issan girls like that??? troll???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on?Farm land rents for about 2000bht/per rai/per year or less. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonytigerbkk Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 HI MikeRR, what a great title to your thread. I wish that I had thought of this, I could have used it if I wanted to go trolling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on? Farm land rents for about 2000bht/per rai/per year or less. he's not living on farm land Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeRR Posted August 3, 2014 Author Share Posted August 3, 2014 just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on? Not my land but i would have to pay for all upkeep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on? Not my land but i would have to pay for all upkeep only while you lived there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeRR Posted August 3, 2014 Author Share Posted August 3, 2014 MikeRR, Mostly i think they are looking for grammar lessons! Thank you for off topic comet english is not my first language Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeRR Posted August 3, 2014 Author Share Posted August 3, 2014 just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on? Not my land but i would have to pay for all upkeep only while you lived there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Where's that video that shows the last guy that bought/built the farm/house/ranch....he was not a sympathetic type but the the message is great....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeRR Posted August 3, 2014 Author Share Posted August 3, 2014 just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on? Not my land but i would have to pay for all upkeep only while you lived there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post KarenBravo Posted August 3, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted August 3, 2014 (edited) The problem here is the difference between the ideas and obligations of Romantic Love by Thais and Westerners. In the west, each partner is perceived to be equal. Decisions and costs are shared. This is becoming more prevalent in Thailand, but, really only in the larger cities. The traditional Thai concept is that the man is the bread-winner and chief decision maker. He has to "take-care" of the wife and in return the domestic decisions and tasks are taken care of for him. Thais do not say "I love you" to each other nearly so much as Western couples do. When I asked a Thai about this, they said that each partner knows if they are genuinely loved, or not by watching the actions of the other. Words were just words. Eminently practical, I think. Edited August 3, 2014 by KarenBravo 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 MikeRR, Mostly i think they are looking for grammar lessons! Thank you for off topic comet english is not my first language But it is your first lady.........? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeRR Posted August 3, 2014 Author Share Posted August 3, 2014 The problem here is the difference between the ideas and obligations of Romantic Love by Thais and Westerners. In the west, each partner is perceived to be equal. Decisions and costs are shared. This is becoming more prevalent in Thailand, but, really only in the larger cities. The traditional Thai concept is that the man is the bread-winner and chief decision maker. He has to "take-care" of the wife and in return the domestic decisions and tasks are taken care of for him. Thais do not say "I love you" to each other nearly so much as Western couples do. When I asked a Thai about this, they said that each partner knows if they are genuinely loved, or not by watching the actions of the other. Words were just words. Eminently practical, I think. Thank You very much for an intelligent reply My mam was a house wife so I full understand responsibilities Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
konying Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 OP, sadly you would be mocked because most if not all esteem Thai visa members are married to hard working , upper class Thai women , because Thai women just love retired foreign pensioners living off their pension. To answer your original post, sadly vast majority are looking for "better and easier " life by being with foreigners. They expect financial support for them and entire family , because they simply do not grasp the concept that money does not fall from the trees for foreigners . 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeRR Posted August 3, 2014 Author Share Posted August 3, 2014 OP, sadly you would be mocked because most if not all esteem Thai visa members are married to hard working , upper class Thai women , because Thai women just love retired foreign pensioners living off their pension. To answer your original post, sadly vast majority are looking for "better and easier " life by being with foreigners. They expect financial support for them and entire family , because they simply do not grasp the concept that money does not fall from the trees for foreigners . Well, I sold my business and retired at almost 50 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Room at your coffee table? ... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KarenBravo Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 OP, sadly you would be mocked because most if not all esteem Thai visa members are married to hard working , upper class Thai women I thought that most esteemed TV members were married to Thai-Chinese wives who are doctors and lawyers with a degree from Chulalongkorn and were definitely not ex-bar girls. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craigt3365 Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Topic moved to the Farang Pub. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 OP, sadly you would be mocked because most if not all esteem Thai visa members are married to hard working , upper class Thai women , because Thai women just love retired foreign pensioners living off their pension. To answer your original post, sadly vast majority are looking for "better and easier " life by being with foreigners. They expect financial support for them and entire family , because they simply do not grasp the concept that money does not fall from the trees for foreigners . vast majority? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starky Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Yes all Thai girls are money hungry harpies desperate for land and money, all tattooed people are violent thugs, all Muslims are terrorists, all Irish people are drunks and all expats living in Thailand are old, overweight pensioners preying on young girls.... NEXT 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Thakkar Posted August 3, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted August 3, 2014 Meanwhile, there's a Thai lady on an Issan forum asking: "These loser Farangs--is it true that all they want is free sex with a woman half their age?" T 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choochoo Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Theres some hot issarn girls-they dont seem to want houses- just short time...................lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FireMedic Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Pretend you are a dairy cow....pretend your man bits are the utters....pretend milk is money..........what happens to dairy cows when the milk runs out? They get shipped off for ground beef....not even quality steaks...just ground beef. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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