Where to find a good family lawyer during crisis time...

[properties365]

So, we are on the day when you have a 3.5 years old child and are the legitimate father, but the wife deserted the family home and took all the papers you need to extend your marriage Visa (marriage certificate, child birth certificate, etc...). She is a recidivist. She already tried to steal the baby twice in the past and 2 years ago you ended at the court. You have no doubt this time she will try again to steal the daughter and block you to see her during months, interrupting scholarship etc....

On that day, you feel more like a foreigner as ever, with the fear to lose your child in an hostile country where you cannot read documents and don't understand people when they start to shout everywhere around you.

On that day, you send a few emails to some lawyers you found on the Internet. And 24 hours later, you still have no answers to your questions because:
- I** S**** F*** answered only after 24 hours, and just to give their rates : 200,000 for divorce , 200,000 for child custody. Thank you very much guys. So helpfull.
- S*** L**** deactivated their chat system, and didn't read your messages. After 3 emails, R**** still didn't read I am the legitimate father of my child. After the 4th email, he just gave me his rate and talked about the court in a few months. I believed they were more serious than that.

- A few others still didn't answer. They maybe try to appear in Google first page, but they don't answer emails.

So, In every cases, nobody gave me advise about what to do NOW.

Do I have to go to the police station to make a statement saying my wife deserted home with original documents and we don't know where she is for 4 days now?

Do I have to move and try to put my daughter somewhere before she comes with people to try to catch her? The last time I couldn't see my daughter during 3 months and it took ages to make my daughter recover to her normal development.

So, on that day, what am I supposed to do exactly????

Thanks........

P.

Edited September 23, 2014 by properties365

[Mario2008]

If you fear that the mother will not return anytime soon reporting her missing might be a wise thing, especially if you care thinking about a divorce.

If you fear she will take your daughter, moving to another place might certainly be in order.

A lawyer can't do much for you, unless you want to get a divorce OR your wife is a danger to the child/mentally unable to raise a child so you can apply for sole parental rights over the child.

[properties365]

Thanks Mario

I have another question. 2 years ago we had a similar problem. I found myself in a difficult situation : my daughter was inside the house of my brother in law. My family in law told me it was their land and I could not enter their garden or house, or they will do very bad things to me. But my daughter was inside this house. It made me very uncomfortable as I knew one of them could potentially be very dangerous.

What are my rights in such a situation ? Can I enter to see my daughter ? Or can I complain they block me to see my daughter ?

The last time I couldn't see her during 3 months and I had to use the court with conciliation to make things go back to normal.

All this is a nightmare, but now the child is here and I have to try to find the best way to arrange things when I can... And I cannot afford 400,000 Baht at the moment

So, if someone put your legitimate baby in their house and say they will assault you if you enter the premises, what is the thing to do ?

P.

Edited September 23, 2014 by properties365