jacksam Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 If the OP is referring to women that require payments to be in some sorts of relationships with guys, than these are not girlfriends but rather rent a wives or could be described as extra long time women of ill repute. And your gf or wife does exactly what? What salary. Get off your judgmental horsie A very sad state of affairs in my opinion if some guys become desperate enough to want to buy the companionship of women in the pretence of being in real relations and regarding them as girlfriends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacksam Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... Another self righteous w,,,,k...... And your gf or wife has what job exactly?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... Another self righteous w,,,,k...... And your gf or wife has what job exactly?? If you were called Jeffrey you'd be upset 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Beetlejuice Posted October 26, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 26, 2014 (edited) Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... Another self righteous w,,,,k...... And your gf or wife has what job exactly?? A few months ago I hit the big 60, although still regard myself as hansum man and at my age now, I too will have to pay if I want to play, and at times if I do choose someone to pay and play with, which I do on occasions and couldn`t give a rat`s behind about anyone`s opinions, I do not regard women I pay to be my short time companions or as companions on a regular basis as girlfriends. I am not living under any delusions, I except that I am now an old man even if I`m young at heart and as they say in Thailand; no money, no honey, it`s a pay as you go business transaction, these people are not my friends and I don`t kid myself that they are. My point being that there are some guys who are not placing these things into the right perspectives and are living in a cloud cuckoo land. I know that there are no desirable women who are going to want to be with me just for my good looks, charm and bubbling personality, Sad but true and that`s the reality. Edited October 26, 2014 by Beetlejuice 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
konying Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 Hey OP, its a great formula, but what happens if the gf is older? does he pay the guy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choochoo Posted October 26, 2014 Author Share Posted October 26, 2014 girls all over choose mates. Finances are a big factor. But in thailand it really is different. The girls are at the end of their ROPE. They really have NO choice. Its the fat smelly bald farang or nothing. i do see their point. Why is it i dont see many surburban couples.........................lol? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choochoo Posted October 26, 2014 Author Share Posted October 26, 2014 Hey OP, its a great formula, but what happens if the gf is older? does he pay the guy? YES she does. And i think they do......................lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 girls all over choose mates. Finances are a big factor. But in thailand it really is different. The girls are at the end of their ROPE. They really have NO choice. Its the fat smelly bald farang or nothing. i do see their point. Why is it i dont see many surburban couples.........................lol? So you know it all do you saying a fat smelly dald farang and I don't like using that word but that is your quote and no I am not like that but who in the hell do you think you are some man get like that when are old let's see you at I say 65 years old and see how you look smart ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffreyO Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 girls all over choose mates. Finances are a big factor. But in thailand it really is different. The girls are at the end of their ROPE. They really have NO choice. Its the fat smelly bald farang or nothing. i do see their point. Why is it i dont see many surburban couples.........................lol? So you know it all do you saying a fat smelly dald farang and I don't like using that word but that is your quote and no I am not like that but who in the hell do you think you are some man get like that when are old let's see you at I say 65 years old and see how you look smart ass. Hopefully by that age I have evolved my relationship into that of one with a loving wife. Then again, I'd imagine for some (not specifying anyone in particular) their personalities would make it difficult to maintain any long term relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffreyO Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... Another self righteous w,,,,k...... And your gf or wife has what job exactly?? She's a bi-lingual marketing & sales executive for a Japanese industry hardware business at their office here in Bangkok. She's not wealthy by western means but she makes roughly 50,000 thb a month which is enough for us to split bills. She cleans and I cook. She probably does significantly more around the house than me and never complains. I appreciate her and love her very much. She appreciates the way in which I treat her and she loves me very much. The day I have to give her baht just to stay by my side is the day I'll find another girlfriend. If I give her baht for something it's because I want her to be happy, not because I want her to stay with me. Actually, now that i think of it, I've never given her baht for anything although I have bought a few dinners if that counts . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 That's right Jeffrey. Where is Bungle? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... No. I think if you read the post previous to yours you'll see he's in the same holier-than-thou, self-righteous bag that you are. So what you're saying is, you're too pathetic to get a girl without paying for one. I understand. I would say I'm 'too old' rather than 'too pathetic'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffreyO Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... No. I think if you read the post previous to yours you'll see he's in the same holier-than-thou, self-righteous bag that you are. So what you're saying is, you're too pathetic to get a girl without paying for one. I understand. I would say I'm 'too old' rather than 'too pathetic'. At least you can admit the facts rather than act as if everyone who doesn't pay for a girl is some sort of self-righteous ego-maniac. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikebell Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 My wife has a part-time office job. She washes/irons/cooks/gardens/decorates/translates/protects me & my interests. Surely she deserves some financial stipend to support her aging parents/trainee teacher children? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timinuk Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Most Farang in Thailand wouldnt have a wife if it was not for their money. Fact. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4evermaat Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Most Farang in Thailand wouldnt have a wife if it was not for their money. Fact. not sure who is the usa gets married without money. It certainly wasnt my mom. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffreyO Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 I stand by the fact that marriage is not hte same as a 'live in girlfriend'. Marriage is (hopefully) permanent or at least semi-permanent. Girlfriends come and go about as quick as the rain in BKK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briggsy Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Salary? For what? Formula for gf salary = tell her to get of her arse and do something! In Thailand, I am sure she will, and that will be finding a more generous bloke! ^ "In Thailand, I am sure she will" She will just because your offerred??? Not only in Thailand. You are a demander!! They are a supplier...Thailand is the quality of this market. Silly old farang!!! I love Thailand. Xx You might have had a tipple, but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and say your English is limited. I genuinely cannot follow your drift, Mr. Cheater. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choochoo Posted October 27, 2014 Author Share Posted October 27, 2014 (edited) I forget. Salary goes down for each kid amd amount of customers girl has had.......................lol. Above about customers doesnt apply if you got your-self a good girl. But lets face it most of you dont have girls not FROM the INDUSTRY.................lol. Edited October 27, 2014 by choochoo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tongdee Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 One way or another, the woman always gets paid. It's only a question of the terms. Whether it's 3000 THB in Bangkok for two hours, 15,000 per month in Chiang Mai, or a diamond engagement ring, house, and rights to half (or more) of the assets for a multi-year contract in the US, she always gets paid. Those that understand this are likely to be freethinkers. Those that don't... ... ... No point in explaining anything to anyone who treasures their delusions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tongdee Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... Another self righteous w,,,,k...... And your gf or wife has what job exactly?? Womans jobs--- laundry, housecleaning, shopping, Translating communications with neibours & officials of every kind. Keepong the bills paid (with my money) chasing charlitans away, keeping hairs from growing where they shouldn't be, event reminder, plant waterer, manicurist, massage therapist, secretary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 Hopefully by that age I have evolved my relationship into that of one with a loving wife. Then again, I'd imagine for some (not specifying anyone in particular) their personalities would make it difficult to maintain any long term relationship. My neighbour is a retired schoolteacher, age 65, his wife is 56. He pays her 10k a month, just for herself to spend how she likes. Both Thai, chances of you 'evolving' your relationship, very small IMHO. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffreyO Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 Hopefully by that age I have evolved my relationship into that of one with a loving wife. Then again, I'd imagine for some (not specifying anyone in particular) their personalities would make it difficult to maintain any long term relationship. My neighbour is a retired schoolteacher, age 65, his wife is 56. He pays her 10k a month, just for herself to spend how she likes. Both Thai, chances of you 'evolving' your relationship, very small IMHO. That's a perfectly educated opinion to have but that doesn't make it fact. The day she starts demanding money is the day I move on. She knows it, I know it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellohello123 Posted October 31, 2014 Share Posted October 31, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick...No. I think if you read the post previous to yours you'll see he's in the same holier-than-thou, self-righteous bag that you are. Holier-than-thou, self-righteous or not, if I ever reach a point in my life when I have to pay someone to be in a relationship with me or be my friend, then that would be the time when I need to deeply reflect on whether my existence is worthwhile and possibly considering calling it a day. Well...i think there is a difference in paying for sex with a prostitute and paying someone to stay wih you in a relationship, dont you ? I knoe many who would say they are identical And I'm sure there are heaps of people in any country that would say being married for ten years and to be taken to the cleaners is no different and often the hourly rate is far better for the woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellohello123 Posted October 31, 2014 Share Posted October 31, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... Another self righteous w,,,,k...... And your gf or wife has what job exactly?? She's a bi-lingual marketing & sales executive for a Japanese industry hardware business at their office here in Bangkok. She's not wealthy by western means but she makes roughly 50,000 thb a month which is enough for us to split bills. She cleans and I cook. She probably does significantly more around the house than me and never complains. I appreciate her and love her very much. She appreciates the way in which I treat her and she loves me very much. The day I have to give her baht just to stay by my side is the day I'll find another girlfriend. If I give her baht for something it's because I want her to be happy, not because I want her to stay with me. Actually, now that i think of it, I've never given her baht for anything although I have bought a few dinners if that counts . Let me guess, she has four masters degrees, speaks 17 languagaea, and looks ten years younger then she is and you are fit and handsome and havr a full head of hair 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 31, 2014 Share Posted October 31, 2014 Am I the only one that feels disgusted by the idea of 'holiday girlfriends' or pay-to-play? Sick... Another self righteous w,,,,k...... And your gf or wife has what job exactly?? She's a bi-lingual marketing & sales executive for a Japanese industry hardware business at their office here in Bangkok. She's not wealthy by western means but she makes roughly 50,000 thb a month which is enough for us to split bills. She cleans and I cook. She probably does significantly more around the house than me and never complains. I appreciate her and love her very much. She appreciates the way in which I treat her and she loves me very much. The day I have to give her baht just to stay by my side is the day I'll find another girlfriend. If I give her baht for something it's because I want her to be happy, not because I want her to stay with me. Actually, now that i think of it, I've never given her baht for anything although I have bought a few dinners if that counts . Let me guess, she has four masters degrees, speaks 17 languagaea, and looks ten years younger then she is and you are fit and handsome and havr a full head of hair Hiso Chinese....from a good middle class family......how come you forgot to add ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellohello123 Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 (edited) Hiso Chinese....from a good middle class family......how come you forgot to add ? Ahhh yes damn I forgot, I'm slipping And how everyone ogles her when she walks down the street in total jealousy And how all ypur friends back home are shaking with jealousy (who are actually laughing at you, but you'll never know)l] Edited November 1, 2014 by hellohello123 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisinth Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 (edited) <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> a girlfriend which gets paid/ salary is called=hooker. Or a housewife..................... Never really understood the saying 'angel in the kitchen, devil in the bedroom' until just now. Edited November 1, 2014 by chrisinth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy chef 1 Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> a girlfriend which gets paid/ salary is called=hooker. Or a housewife..................... Never really understood the saying 'angel in the kitchen, devil in the bedroom' until just now. sorry Chris i disagree with you in this point.my wife is spending OUR money for our daily life that doesn't means she get a salary. a salary is defined imho to get a monetary reward to do a certain job and if this is for sex than it is paid sex=hooker. btw nothing wrong with hookers... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Hopefully by that age I have evolved my relationship into that of one with a loving wife. Then again, I'd imagine for some (not specifying anyone in particular) their personalities would make it difficult to maintain any long term relationship.My neighbour is a retired schoolteacher, age 65, his wife is 56.He pays her 10k a month, just for herself to spend how she likes. Both Thai, chances of you 'evolving' your relationship, very small IMHO. That's a perfectly educated opinion to have but that doesn't make it fact. The day she starts demanding money is the day I move on. She knows it, I know it. So naive in the intricacies of long term relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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