Three reasons for Thai girls who live in Thailand want to marry Farang

[Somsrisonphimai]

It is just a nature of the relationship, the man wants something from the woman and the woman wants something from the man.

So "the woman needs money" and "the man needs sex", is that the implication?

Except, there must be something that is shared, this is not bartering in the market (actually it may be just that).

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I have never known a man who does not want sex from a woman who he has been supporting. Why is he supporting her if it is not for sex or for companionship? Does he do it out of his good heart? I doubt it really much.

OP needs to move and get on with her life.

I tell my girl friends, sisters and myself all the time, there will be a new girl who is younger and prettier than you that he may be interested in her, so don't get too comfortable, educate yourself, find your especial skills, expand your circle, and when the time comes, you can be independent and can support yourself.

[Morakot]

I like to talk some nasty or dirty joke sometimes...lol make people here bully me its good fun. 555+

Its not pain or hurt for me because i cant get the word. Probably" Numb " the best feeling for me now.

Some people get addicted to being bullied. You may want to possibly address this. It may make you feel better in the long run.

Best of luck.

Edited October 27, 2014 by Morakot

[Thai at Heart]

1.Farangs don't beat their wives as much as thai men do.

2. Farangs are generally more appreciative

3. She probably gets to work less nightshift

[otocheater]

I only feel better if i won. Nothing can made me addicted. Everything is depends on me ka.

Sorry I am not too polite but i much better than some guy i known well who suppose to wear a skirt.

Some guy want to survive on the family,wife and kids pain that need to be treat by Psychiatrist. Seem you only known little info na.

X

I like to talk some nasty or dirty joke sometimes...lol make people here bully me its good fun. 555+

Its not pain or hurt for me because i cant get the word. Probably" Numb " the best feeling for me now.

Some people get addicted to being bullied. You may want to possibly address this. It may make you feel better in the long run.

Best of luck.

[Morakot]

I only feel better if i won. Nothing can made me addicted. Everything is depends on me ka.

Sorry I might not be able to help much, but it'd like to say this. It sometimes can be very hard to acknowledge to oneself when something has gone wrong. Being fixated on winning can make one lose sight of the whole game -- that in the beginning it was meant to be enjoyable and not torture. Feelings of revenge or hate towards him will probably not help. Hope you get it sort out for you own sake, na krup.

[casualbiker]

Sorry about your breakup, otocheater. Now the question is, are you going to hunt for a farang?

In my life never had Asian or Thai guys. What do you think?

Hunting? Sounds stranged lol... if i am a hunter i got lots farang in my store already. I didnt collect one yet.

My heart still injured. Wait till its getting better to be fair with the next farang who is coming into my life.

Cheers,

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Just so your aware sex helps cure a broken heart .. give it a try. Just some no strings sex.. great fun :-D

[Briggsy]

All aboard the night train.

[otocheater]

I only feel better if i won. Nothing can made me addicted. Everything is depends on me ka.

Sorry I might not be able to help much, but it'd like to say this. It sometimes can be very hard to acknowledge to oneself when something has gone wrong. Being fixated on winning can make one lose sight of the whole game -- that in the beginning it was meant to be enjoyable and not torture. Feelings of revenge or hate towards him will probably not help. Hope you get it sort out for you own sake, na krup.

Some people are different you know? Something depressed can make you become an evil but it will treat by love not stamp on the face. Like i said. Can not make the word.

If i need to cut something out of my life just because i dont want to see or heard it again...

i am only one in the world...

555+

X

Regards,

[otocheater]

Sorry about your breakup, otocheater. Now the question is, are you going to hunt for a farang?

In my life never had Asian or Thai guys. What do you think?

Hunting? Sounds stranged lol... if i am a hunter i got lots farang in my store already. I didnt collect one yet.

My heart still injured. Wait till its getting better to be fair with the next farang who is coming into my life.

Cheers,

><

Just so your aware sex helps cure a broken heart .. give it a try. Just some no strings sex.. great fun :-D

I wanna try like i said but I am not addicted to sex. And i am fussy and picky. I feel more like diguesting and afraid to do. Lol. I will try after divorced.

Regards,

[David48]

otocheater ... you must be really fun to live with.

You must always have 'the last word' ...

[MAJIC]

Or maybe Thailand should get up to the 21st Century,and realise hand outs for a rich country (which it is) is not the answer! the The financial system in Thailand,with the SinSod and farang Pensions for Mama and Papa,have long out lived their sell by date! by hundreds of years!

why should they, theyre doin just fine with their ideas. I find it hilarious that a guy showin british flags would lecture anyone on how to run a country! lol

I'm glad I amused you!

To avoid confusion, the "Union Jack" also known as the "Union Flag" incorporates the Scottish National Flag (the Saltire), and also the National Flag of Wales, (The Dragon) and the Flag of St George (Red Cross on white) they are together in one avatar because it's a "United Kingdom"....... Sorry for the off topic,.

Edited October 27, 2014 by MAJIC

[Ws93]

I can't answer 3 but my mother was a good mum and genuinely loves my dad. She worked as a hair dresser when she met my dad and now works as a manager in Marriott.

She wasn't a bar girl etc but she did marry young. My cousins all work as accounts and are interested in farang men, not their money. Their friends as well are all lovely.

Their kindness runs in the family and looks after me well, going as far to stop me from spending as well and use their money. Not all Thai women are the same. I know from experience.

Edited October 27, 2014 by Ws93

[georgemandm]

I agree with some of what you say but no different to woman back home in the west but the woman in the the west get a lot of money if you part ways in thailand if you part ways with a thai lady it is just a little bit of money depends on how much you put in to your thai lady so me I would have a thai lady any day give her a little bit than lose 1 mill back home her lose $1000,000 not a lot of money for me .

[otocheater]

Or maybe Thailand should get up to the 21st Century,and realise hand outs for a rich country (which it is) is not the answer! the The financial system in Thailand,with the SinSod and farang Pensions for Mama and Papa,have long out lived their sell by date! by hundreds of years!

why should they, theyre doin just fine with their ideas. I find it hilarious that a guy showin british flags would lecture anyone on how to run a country! lol

I'm glad I amused you!

To avoid confusion, the "Union Jack" also known as the "Union Flag" incorporates the Scottish National Flag (the Saltire), and also the National Flag of Wales, (The Dragon) and the Flag of St George (Red Cross on white) they are together in one avatar because it's a "United Kingdom"....... Sorry for the off topic,.

Its okay but next time i will charge if the comment not concern in this thread.

[otocheater]

I can't answer 3 but my mother was a good mum and genuinely loves my dad. She worked as a hair dresser when she met my dad and now works as a manager in Marriott.

She wasn't a bar girl etc but she did marry young. My cousins all work as accounts and are interested in farang men, not their money. Their friends as well are all lovely.

Their kindness runs in the family and looks after me well, going as far to stop me from spending as well and use their money. Not all Thai women are the same. I know from experience.

Nice story.

Good luck. :-)

[Munger]

FWIW I think you're definitely wrong on two out of the three, going abroad and having half Thai children is very very low on the list of needs, support of the family is top priority by far hence you score one point - must try harder for next exam. .

Money is already cover for support family. They want money to support family. Understand?

Okay na. X

Don't expect that all westerners will take on board that idea without a fight. Western culture does not expect to support a family that they don't even know! Understand?

then they should look elsewhere

Only a loser supports a large extended Issan family, and pays sin sod.

[AYJAYDEE]

Only a loser supports a large extended Issan family, and pays sin sod.

who said anything about large extended families? and you obviously know nothing about sin sod. its a damn siight less than the cost of buying land for a house.

[David48]

Only a loser supports a large extended Issan family, and pays sin sod.

Well, it appears that I will have to change my user name from David48 to Loser48

While the extended family doesn't hail from Isaan^* I do pay a monthly stipend and, when the opportunity presents itself, pay a SinSot ... and do so happily.

Remember, not everyone's situation or family arrangements is the same.

^* More Central Thailand

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[smokie36]

She wants a new handbag...shoes and a big house with six bedrooms.

Don't kid yourselves!

[David48]

She wants a new handbag...shoes and a big house with six bedrooms.

Don't kid yourselves!

Come now Mr Smokie.

She has a large Farmhouse ... has 5 bedrooms.

Who wears shoes @ the Farm ...

Also, I bought her a new Nappy Bag ... what else could a girl want?

My romantic side is shining through now ... I'd better stop!

[smokie36]

She wants a new handbag...shoes and a big house with six bedrooms.

Don't kid yourselves!

Come now Mr Smokie.

She has a large Farmhouse ... has 5 bedrooms.

Who wears shoes @ the Farm ...

Also, I bought her a new Nappy Bag ... what else could a girl want?

My romantic side is shining through now ... I'd better stop!

Wait till she discovers Emporium!

[Mafesto]

Three other reasons

1. She is in love with her farang

2. She actually cares about her farang.

3. She makes his life in Thailand so much more enjoyable.

Not all Thai women are users, many of them get stung too.

Bravo to this comment sir...

[Faith2Love]

Thai women consider the pros and cons of a man just like women in other cultures.