Crazy chef 1 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 what age difference is socially and morality acceptable? my point is if you're 70 and your partner is 50-i think quiet ok... if you be 40 and your partner is 20 - not sure don't wanna get below... just read in another thread about a chap who proudly announced his partner is 30 years his junior... good for the guy(maybe) at the moment but what is with a COMMON future,interests,friends,humor... once i asked my dad if he would like a 30 year younger girl...and his reply was: no because i would feel like sha$$ing my own kid... on the other hand i know a couple (in the west)where she is 25 years older than him and they seems to be happy.... don't know- what do you think is acceptable? btw Costas i mean between humans not mammals... PS who am i to judge( not my intention) just want to read your views.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 Age is just a number, relationships are about people not numbers. Note: Lets keep this about "adults" and no references to "younger" than adult age please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy chef 1 Posted December 5, 2014 Author Share Posted December 5, 2014 quiet right. real age and physical or mental age sometimes differ... but i think from a certain (number) difference it's becoming obvious difficult...thats the purpose of this topic to find out when... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeverSure Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 We had a long running and pretty interesting thread on this not too long ago. Anyone remember what it was called? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stat088 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 The bigger the age difference the more brief the relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gonsalviz Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 58-38. 20 years is very acceptable in this society. More than that is also acceptable if the 2 are compatible. Working very well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 Mid 30s is my upper limit, no matter what my age becomes. As I get older, the gap becomes wider. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rgs2001uk Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 Depends what part of the country you live in. Depends on whether the buffalo farang has built a farang mansion and bought a 'Tuna. Depends on whether the buffalo farang has to pay his mrs and her family a stipend every month. Depends on whether the CC buffalo farang lost face and didnt pay at least 5 million baht sin sot for some second hand girl and her 3 kids. Depends on wheter the farang understands that not really her brother but her gik. Where in Thailand do you live? Can you speak Thai and understand what the "pak jat" old yais are saying about you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naam Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 when i got married our age difference was 7 years. now after 35 years of marriage that difference is still 7 years. could it be that there's something wrong with my wife or me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Costas2008 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 btw chef, humans are mammals. Mai Ben Rai, back to OP's question. I'm 67 my Thai wife is 41. My ex-wife is 65. The connection, understanding and friendship I have with my present wife never had with my ex. The sex life I have with my present wife never had with my ex. I'm not going to speak about love, may be yes may be no, for both the present and ex, I was younger then I'm older now and more pragmatic than then. Thai society has never expressed anything negative about our age difference. Greek and English society are against our marriage. According to my daughter that she is 33 I'm a paedophile marrying a woman 26 years younger than me. I'm not really bothered. I'm happy as I am and she seems to be happy with me. If for one moment I realise that she can't stand me, I will go and she can have the house the car and everything else. She's given me already the 7 happiest years of my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naam Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 Depends what part of the country you live in. Depends on whether the buffalo farang has built a farang mansion and bought a 'Tuna. Depends on whether the buffalo farang has to pay his mrs and her family a stipend every month. Depends on whether the CC buffalo farang lost face and didnt pay at least 5 million baht sin sot for some second hand girl and her 3 kids. Depends on wheter the farang understands that not really her brother but her gik. Where in Thailand do you live? Can you speak Thai and understand what the "pak jat" old yais are saying about you? it also depends whether you give a flying fàrt or not what other people think Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loptr Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 There is an equation for this that has been around a long time: Take your age, divide by 2, then add 7... 40 / 2 = 20 + 7 = 27 years old... The gap gets wider the older the man gets... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villagefarang Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 20 years is good for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i claudius Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 (edited) The bigger the age difference the more brief the relationship. Well my wife is 24 years younger than me ,and only a few years older than my daughter ,we have a son ,who is 21 and have been together 22 years , my question is ,is my relationship doomed ,do you think she will leave after shuch a" brief" relationship.? Edited December 5, 2014 by i claudius Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rgs2001uk Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 Depends what part of the country you live in. Depends on whether the buffalo farang has built a farang mansion and bought a 'Tuna. Depends on whether the buffalo farang has to pay his mrs and her family a stipend every month. Depends on whether the CC buffalo farang lost face and didnt pay at least 5 million baht sin sot for some second hand girl and her 3 kids. Depends on wheter the farang understands that not really her brother but her gik. Where in Thailand do you live? Can you speak Thai and understand what the "pak jat" old yais are saying about you? it also depends whether you give a flying fàrt or not what other people think Personally I couldnt give a flying fig. Depends on whether you actually believe the kid is yours, despite being out the country at the time it was concieved, Depends on how desperate you are for company that you have to pay for. Depends on whether you really care what your mrs is up to or who she sees. Depends on whether you can afford to walk away or not. Depends on how much of a buffalo you want to make of yourself. Depends on how much you feel the need to be a hansam man. Who really gives a shyt, keep on making a fool of yourself, no one cares. http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/781851-i-dont-suppose-i-will-be-the-last/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hugocnx Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 (edited) 20 years is good for me. And you are what age? Edited December 5, 2014 by hugocnx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villagefarang Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 20 years is good for me. And you are what age? We met when she was 23 and I was 43. She is now 40 and I am 60. Never married before and no children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naam Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 The bigger the age difference the more brief the relationship. Well my wife is 24 years younger than me ,and only a few years older than my daughter ,we have a son ,who is 21 and have been together 22 years , my question is ,is my relationship doomed ,do you think she will leave after shuch a" brief" relationship.? doomed for sure! give it another 22 years and you will see Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hugocnx Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 20 years is good for me. And you are what age? We met when she was 23 and I was 43. She is now 40 and I am 60. Never married before and no children. Phew, glad you are 40 plus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hugocnx Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 20 years seems nice. Bummer, I have only 9. Som nam naa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stat088 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 The bigger the age difference the more brief the relationship. Well my wife is 24 years younger than me ,and only a few years older than my daughter ,we have a son ,who is 21 and have been together 22 years , my question is ,is my relationship doomed ,do you think she will leave after shuch a" brief" relationship.? Good for you. I think maybe it's not the age difference but the age of the two people getting married that is more important for a lasting relationship. My wife is 10 years younger than me. I was 37 when i got married. First and last time hopefully. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hugocnx Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 The bigger the age difference the more brief the relationship. Well my wife is 24 years younger than me ,and only a few years older than my daughter ,we have a son ,who is 21 and have been together 22 years , my question is ,is my relationship doomed ,do you think she will leave after shuch a" brief" relationship.? Good for you. I think maybe it's not the age difference but the age of the two people getting married that is more important for a lasting relationship. My wife is 10 years younger than me. I was 37 when i got married. First and last time hopefully. Haha, welcome to the club. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elgordo38 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 The bigger the age difference the more brief the relationship. Hey I am 76 and she is 25 been together 3 years now. She will hang in there for the long haul. No she has not tried to take me to the cleaners. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 The bigger the age difference the more brief the relationship. Hey I am 76 and she is 25 been together 3 years now. She will hang in there for the long haul. No she has not tried to take me to the cleaners. I've seen their photo ... he's a very hansom 76 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wooloomooloo Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 (edited) It makes little odds, seventeen and half years between my wife and I. I'm the oldest, if you needed to know. We just get on with it. Edited December 5, 2014 by wooloomooloo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wooloomooloo Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 I've seen their photo Of what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 I've seen their photo Of what? Them ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wooloomooloo Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 I've seen their photo Of what? Them ? Nothing exciting? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAJIC Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 The bigger the age difference the more brief the relationship If one partner is towards 90 years old, and the other is around 20 years then there may be some sense in your Post, (on longevity alone,or a similar wide age gap) but otherwise the claims (the bigger the age difference the brief the relalationship) are nonsense! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy chef 1 Posted December 6, 2014 Author Share Posted December 6, 2014 though that means as older someone gets the age gap becomes more irrelevant? two years ago i was invited to a wedding where a German fellow aged 63 "married" a girl of 18...haven't attend... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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