I mentioned eleven years earlier. Is that long enough for you? No we aren't tired of each other, but continually discovering new things. If it sounds like I'm exploiting women, that's simply a creation of your own. Perhaps you can think about why you have created that, for yourself. What pattern is it that you feel that I have created? Long term relationships, not based on money. One that continuously supports and grows. If that's a pattern, would you not agree that it is a positive one? No need for me to be married. If there was some benefit for us, then we would consider that, as a team. I 'step up' every day. My partner can answer that for you. She's right here. I am already a responsible man and a partner right now. Future is now. Answered all your questions or do you have more? I should add, for the purposes of disclosure, that my partner is a qualified counsellor, amongst other qualifications, so she will have her own opinion on the behaviour of some here.