thai wives behaviour

[transam]

Your wife and mine must be related...............

[recycler]

If you give her a garden she will do it there too, my wife plays chess against herself with plants in our garden ;-)

But I think it's something many young woman do regardless of where they come from, 30 years ago my friends made a joke about the room being rearranged when they returned from a visit to the toilet.

Edited February 16, 2015 by recycler

[Irishrogue]

Perhaps she is just happy to have a nice home and takes pride in rearranging things. I provided a nice home for my Thai wife and can honestly say that I would love for her to take an interest in the home. She is more likely to gamble, sleep or bitch and moan about anything that enters her crazy mind. But we have beautiful children and that keeps me sane.

[captainhornblower]

My wife does it all the time and I don't mind until she moves around my shaving gear, toothbrush etc. Very frustrating when I am trying to get ready in the mornings and can't find my stuff!

As for the rest of the house she can do what she wants - always happy for a new look.

[dao16]

My wife periodically moves everything. Don't know where the motivation comes from. I think a lot of times it is because she moves a big piece of furniture to dust and then decides to move it completely away from that spot.

One day, I woke up in a different place to where I had gone to sleep. I am a heavy sleeper, and my wife had pulled the bed, with me on it, across the room!!!

[wombat]

Better she rearrange rooms, rather than undies.

[Guest]

You are lucky, do not jinx it.

Worry when she stops doing all the little things that say "I like it here, and am here to stay."

This is how a (Thai) woman shows that she is a good wife and interested in a happy space. In that, there is a Thai component, for taking care of the husband is important. I think your wife is programed to do the "good things" whether in Paris or Phuket.

Yesterday we visited my wife's family ... it is very important for me to patiently let her feed me and fuss over me.

At one point she came over and gave me a foot massage, and I really think it was to show here Mother and family what a good wife she is.

And she really is, every day she asks if I want a foot or body massage.

I am a nice guy, so I let her do it.

555

[peterb17]

Instead of enquiring on TV- where you will get no sensible answers and the thread somehow will descend into Thai / Pattaya / Udon / buffalo / driving etc etc etc etc bashing, why don't you ask her yourself- there may be a perfectly sensible reason.

[enufsaid]

Fredrico, let me put your mind to rest, it's a female thing. I'm australian & I do this as well

[godman20005]

this is standard procedure.nothing to worry about.one way i fixed this was to have built in furniture .can not be moved.cheers.

[Jungle Jim]

Is she eating enough ketchup ? Lack of ketchup on pizza and other foreign foods for a Thai can cause serious side effects. Buy her a case and see if she improves.

[samsensam]

maybe you should ask her...?

[ToddinChonburi]

She is redecorating, and your getting by very cheap. American women want paint, draperies,carpet, sheets, pillows. Do you get what I am saying ? Try noticing the things she is doing and tell her it looks nice. I have seen perfectly good furniture tossed for new. Thank god for desperate college dorm kids.

[KhnomKhnom]

This is not a problem, friend......... asking for 10000 franks is......... relax.

[NickJ]

This is a matter I would very much lose sleep over. There is no doubt. Purhase a hidden camera....perhaps a small fury animal, perhaps a bear. Keep us posted.

[micmichd]

Hello everybody,

I am married for 6 years with a wonderful thai woman and we live in Paris. Life is great with her, and i thank Buddha everyday for meeting her. But there is something that seems very strange to me : every once in a while, when i come back home from work, i find she has changed things from one place to an other : some table in the back of the living room is now by the window, some artefacts on the bookshelves now stands in the bedroom, and the plants are frequently travelling from one room to an other. I clarify that i dont mind it at all. I only wish one day she dont need to change her husband for an other...

And i clarify too that she's not bored because she works and has a real social and professional life here.

I wonder if you guys have already noticed such behaviours with your thai wife, or is it only mine ?

Thanks for reading,

Cheers,

Fred

[thejcb]

Can't help you there.

I've been married to Thai about 6 months. In USA. She's livid and upset that she saw that I'd sent text messages to Ex wife. I sent mesage about child between Ex and I. Ex asked about my job search which I mentioned. This is because I am getting laid off and I asked ex wife about putting daughters on her insurance before I'm laid off.

Anyway, that came up on Valentines day and came up again today. That AND previous relationships I don't care about. She cares. I don't ask about her past or care (she has an ex-husband).

Anyway, she said she will go back to Thailand or some crap. Whatever. She can go if she is not happy. Ive' done a lot for her and made her life much better and she will have a good future either way (she was career government, but up to her butt in debt). Now she can work in America. I got her here. I paid for her daughter's medical care. I won't pay for her debt, she can do that.

I won't feel bad if she leaves. Fine with me. I can love someone, but I'm never going to get worked up over issues.

If you can't help then what is the <deleted> point in replying ?

Instead you scribble some nonsense that is barely understandable.

Ridiculous !

[micmichd]

I have never lived with a woman with a different behaviour.

Women love to rearrange things.

[transam]

I have never lived with a woman with a different behaviour.

Women love to rearrange things.

NOT my socks and boxers chum........................I am still looking...............

[StefanBBK]

Completely normal. Stop worrying.

[msealey]

Can't help you there.

I've been married to Thai about 6 months. In USA. She's livid and upset that she saw that I'd sent text messages to Ex wife. I sent mesage about child between Ex and I. Ex asked about my job search which I mentioned. This is because I am getting laid off and I asked ex wife about putting daughters on her insurance before I'm laid off.

Anyway, that came up on Valentines day and came up again today. That AND previous relationships I don't care about. She cares. I don't ask about her past or care (she has an ex-husband).

Anyway, she said she will go back to Thailand or some crap. Whatever. She can go if she is not happy. Ive' done a lot for her and made her life much better and she will have a good future either way (she was career government, but up to her butt in debt). Now she can work in America. I got her here. I paid for her daughter's medical care. I won't pay for her debt, she can do that.

I won't feel bad if she leaves. Fine with me. I can love someone, but I'm never going to get worked up over issues.

Dude, sorry to hear you're getting laid off from work and your wife's leaving you, but it's totally not OK to try and hijack this poor guys thread with a marginally more interesting albeit equally as pathetic story.

[lucifer666]

Are you serious ?. I have never met a woman who DOESN"T do that.

[Tchooptip]

My mother did that regularly...she was not Thai . But so for for me nothing unusual

...since I'm doing it myself

[pgrahmm]

Furniture stays in place...everything is moved to clean...little things re-arranged......garden is ALWAYS changing......part of it I think is a "busy ethic" or ingrained taking care of which a part is taking charge of household.....

Women.....choose you battles/comments wisely.....especially if some language translation problems/possibilies - they NEVER forget.....

[arrowsdawdle]

Our house looks exactly as it was 5 years ago. I would love to find it rearranged.

i send you my wife for a moving shift, just ask

There's your answer, Fred. She senses your indifference and is seeking attention. If you are truly concerned, why have you not installed a camera to watch the process?

[pigge]

Well, some women act weirdly. I work nights and often when I come home in the morning I meet my wife outside the house. She says she has taken an early morning walk, but she is dressed in an evening gown and seems very upset somehow. Sometimes when I come home there is another man in the house whom she says is her brother. When I ask why they hav slept in the same bed she says its because they are used to to that since they were kids. Strange!

[Broeno]

When she is your wife for so long, how come that you dont say anything about asking her.

It seems to be normal among married people.

[EmptyHead]

Mine doesn't have a place for anything, except the sink which is apparently a bin. And the sponge must go in the Som Tum.

[micmichd]

Well, some women act weirdly. I work nights and often when I come home in the morning I meet my wife outside the house. She says she has taken an early morning walk, but she is dressed in an evening gown and seems very upset somehow. Sometimes when I come home there is another man in the house whom she says is her brother. When I ask why they hav slept in the same bed she says its because they are used to to that since they were kids. Strange!

[micmichd]

Nothing strange if you take into account that in some areas the whole family share one room. Ask her brother if you can use his perfume or aftershave or at least his soap.