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Naturally we all (Unawakened) find ourselves attached to thought (amongst other things).

My thoughts include such things as the Sangha Hierarchy being permeated with attachment to sexism, prejudice, & a total misunderstanding of what core Dharma is all about.

What does gender have to do with a path of practice leading to insight into the true nature of reality?

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Naturally we all (Unawakened) find ourselves attached to thought (amongst other things).

My thoughts include such things as the Sangha Hierarchy being permeated with attachment to sexism, prejudice, & a total misunderstanding of what core Dharma is all about.

What does gender have to do with a path of practice leading to insight into the true nature of reality?

My thoughts also focus, on some (including women), who think to be born a woman is ones negative kharma for past transgressions.

Such thoughts suggest a belief that women are inferior and their birth is a way of expending the fruits of kharma (vipaka).

One woman even confided that it was not possible for her to Awaken due to her current gender and that her time will come as a Bikkhu in a future re birth as a man.

Does all this align with the Buddhas teachings?

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Does all this align with the Buddhas teachings?

It doesn't, it aligns with cultural conditioning. If we lived 100 years ago we might have had the same cultural conditioning but ours has changed over that time.

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Does all this align with the Buddhas teachings?

It doesn't, it aligns with cultural conditioning. If we lived 100 years ago we might have had the same cultural conditioning but ours has changed over that time.

I guess everything aligns with cultural conditioning, even Science to some degree, although I would agree that Science at its best tends to smash cultural conditioning, excepting perhaps the cultural conditioning of the scientific method itself, which must remain intact for science to progress, (ie. the methodology of repeated experimentation by different individuals or organisations over time, in order to confirm or falsify the existing, current theories).
However, I think religions in general are notorious for resisting change, and perhaps understandably because their founders are claimed to have achieved the maximum, humanly possible, state of enlightenment. What was good enough for them must surely be good enough for any follower of those religions, and if society changes the cultural practices too much there is an argument to be made that certain individuals might be deprived of the opportunity to achieve that maximum state of enlightenment.
In the article from The Nation, I find the following comment particularly relevant.
"The Buddha's reason for refusing three times the request of Mahapajapati Gotami, his maternal aunt and adoptive mother, to be ordained, should be pondered in depth," adds Phra Kru Suthammanath."
There might have been sound practical reasons for Gotama's initial reluctance to ordain women, just as there are today practical reasons against women becoming soldiers in the firing line, in the army.
There may also have been ingrained cultural reasons for Buddha's initial reluctance to ordain women. I recall some reference in the Pali scriptures to Gotama's initial reluctance to even teach his method of reaching enlightenment to others, on the grounds that it would be too difficult and a waste of time. Perhaps someone could identify where that reported initial reluctance of Gotama to teach his method, after enlightenment, occurs in the scriptures. As you know, I'm no Pali Scholar. wink.png
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"The Buddha's reason for refusing three times the request of Mahapajapati Gotami, his maternal aunt and adoptive mother, to be ordained, should be pondered in depth," adds Phra Kru Suthammanath."

There may be other reasons but the most obvious one is that it's a standard formula throughout scripture and the tradition when making a request to ask for something three times, I think it's supposed to be a demonstration of sincerity.

So we take refuge 3 times, we ask for the precepts 3 times etc. etc.

There may have been other dynamics in this particular situation with her being the Buddha's foster mother and in a leadership position over 500 women see http://www.academia.edu/9441592/Questions_about_Mah%C4%81paj%C4%81pat%C4%AB_Gotam%C4%AB_s_Ordination for more info.

The main thing is that the Buddha confirmed there wasn't any suggestion women were not "spiritually" capable;

Respectfully he questioned the Buddha, "Lord, are women capable of realising the various stages of sainthood as nuns?"

"They are, Ananda," said the Buddha.

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"The Buddha's reason for refusing three times the request of Mahapajapati Gotami, his maternal aunt and adoptive mother, to be ordained, should be pondered in depth," adds Phra Kru Suthammanath."

There may be other reasons but the most obvious one is that it's a standard formula throughout scripture and the tradition when making a request to ask for something three times, I think it's supposed to be a demonstration of sincerity.

So we take refuge 3 times, we ask for the precepts 3 times etc. etc.

There may have been other dynamics in this particular situation with her being the Buddha's foster mother and in a leadership position over 500 women see http://www.academia.edu/9441592/Questions_about_Mah%C4%81paj%C4%81pat%C4%AB_Gotam%C4%AB_s_Ordination for more info.

The main thing is that the Buddha confirmed there wasn't any suggestion women were not "spiritually" capable;

Respectfully he questioned the Buddha, "Lord, are women capable of realising the various stages of sainthood as nuns?"

"They are, Ananda," said the Buddha.

Bruce,

The article "Questions about Mahāpajāpatī Gotamī’s Ordination" to which you linked, strongly implies that the cultural practice of asking for something 3 times in order to confirm one's sincerity, was not sufficient in this situation.

The following extracts from that article reveal that the Buddha refused at least 3 times and that he relented only as a result of the persuasive and emotional arguments from Ananda who reminded Buddha, when his mother died, Mahāpajāpatī suckled him at her own breast.

"According to the story, the protagonist Mahāpajāpatī requested the Buddha three times to be accepted as a nun and take up the homeless life of a wandering ascetic............

Buddha refused three times without giving any reasons for his refusal.............

"Enough, Gotami. Don't set your heart on women being allowed to do this." ...........

Ānanda persisted to implore the Buddha on behalf of the future nuns. Interestingly it was after reminding the Buddha of the role that Mahāpajāpatī had played in his life, as a mother and nurse that the Buddha gave up his resistance."

The following pdf I found on the internet presents another interesting perspective.

https://bhikkhucintita.files.wordpress.com/2012/12/whatdidbuddhathinkofwomen.pdf

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Further pondering the reasons for Buddha's reluctance to agree to the ordination of women (as recommended by Phra Kru Suthammanath in the article by The Nation), let's imagine how the situation would have developed if the Buddha had immediately agreed to the ordination of women on the basis that there was no physiological impediment to the female gender being able to achieve enlightenment.

Is it reasonable to make an assumption that those who are attracted to the way of life of a Buddhist monk are those who have become aware, at least at some basic level, of the wide prevalence of suffering in all its degrees of anxiety and discomfort, and who have the perception to understand that the teachings of the Buddha might offer a solution to the problem and provide even complete and enduring freedom from such suffering?

If we imagine what the conditions would have been like for women in India during the time the Buddha lived, is it reasonable to presume that women in general would have been more aware of, and more exposed to additional suffering, not only due to their inequality in society and resulting humiliation, but also due to the extreme pain of giving birth to children, year after year?

In such a society, imagine what might happen if a new organisation claiming to teach freedom from all types of suffering, were to admit women with full equality to men in all respects. Would there not be a wild rush by women from all quarters in society to grab such opportunity to free themselves, not only from suffering but also to become equal in status to men?

Would there not soon develop a situation where Bhikkhunis outnumbered Bhikkhus by a hundred to one? Would chaos not result in normal society? Would there not be continual arguments between father and daughter, the father wanting his daughter to marry a particular suitor, and the daughter demanding that she be allowed to join the order of Bhikkhunis to achieve full equality with men?

Would there not result a shortage of women in normal society to do the cooking and provide the free food for the deluge of Bhikkhunis and the modest number of Bhikkhus? wink.png

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Would there not soon develop a situation where Bhikkhunis outnumbered Bhikkhus by a hundred to one? Would chaos not result in normal society? Would there not be continual arguments between father and daughter, the father wanting his daughter to marry a particular suitor, and the daughter demanding that she be allowed to join the order of Bhikkhunis to achieve full equality with men?

Would there not result a shortage of women in normal society to do the cooking and provide the free food for the deluge of Bhikkhunis and the modest number of Bhikkhus? wink.png

Perhaps, but then couldn't you use this very same argument to ponder on what would happen if everyone on the planet decided to ordain?

Unlikely, but would it lead to the human race dieing of starvation en masse?

A female work colleague I observe is so efficient, not only does she complete her allocated work, she gets involved in helping others, and volunteers additional tasks.

Upon quizzing her, it was revealed that she has a compulsion to keep busy.

Her home is spotless, having been daily vacuumed, curtains washed regularly amongst a myriad of other duties.

During periods of inactivity she is beside herself, not being able to stand idleness for any length of time.

She has an anxious disposition, which she masks by keeping herself busy.

Incidentally she is wearing herself out over a long period.

We all reside in our own little prisons.

The invisible prison bars being fashioned by the personal conditioning we find ourselves with.

Certainly, many women may wish for equality, but I'd say most would be thwarted (held back) by a glass ceiling of their own making (conditioning).

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Would there not soon develop a situation where Bhikkhunis outnumbered Bhikkhus by a hundred to one? Would chaos not result in normal society? Would there not be continual arguments between father and daughter, the father wanting his daughter to marry a particular suitor, and the daughter demanding that she be allowed to join the order of Bhikkhunis to achieve full equality with men?

Would there not result a shortage of women in normal society to do the cooking and provide the free food for the deluge of Bhikkhunis and the modest number of Bhikkhus? wink.png

Perhaps, but then couldn't you use this very same argument to ponder on what would happen if everyone on the planet decided to ordain?

Unlikely, but would it lead to the human race dieing of starvation en masse?

Hi Rocky,

That's not a realistic scenario in any way. What would happen if everyone on the planet decided to become a carpenter, or a postman, or a teacher, or an astrophysicist? It simply wouldn't be possible because there aren't the vacancies.

Likewise, long before everyone became ordained as a monk, even if they wanted to do so, starvation would force a change in policy. Maybe the Santi Asoke group could manage that, if they allowed the monks to till the soil.

(By the way, I visited a Santi Asoke retreat a couple of months ago near Ubon Ratchathani and was expecting to see monks and nuns tending to the gardens and tilling the soil. I was disappointed to hear from one of the monks who spoke a little English that they weren't allowed to do this because they might accidentally kill a few worms and insects. It seems I'd got it wrong, reading the reports on the internet.) wink.png

To continue, since the male is traditionally, and in practice, the bread-winner, it would be technically possible for the Sangha to accommodate larger numbers of women and still feed them.

Certainly, many women may wish for equality, but I'd say most would be thwarted (held back) by a glass ceiling of their own making (conditioning).

I imagine whether one is male or female, the celibate life of a monk will appeal only to certain individuals who are able to perceive the long term benefits and who have the confidence they can deal with the challenges. I also imagine that certain males in modern Buddhist societies, who might find difficulty in finding any sort of job that interests them and that pays reasonably well, might find the 'lazy' and 'relaxed' lifestyle of a monk very appealing, especially if they have a computer and internet connection in their forest hut. biggrin.png

The offer of full equality with men, in the Sangha order, would be a sufficient incentivet to tip the balance in favour of women. They would have more to gain so it is reasonable to expect they would soon outnumber the men.

However, I see another strong reason why those in power in any society would not want such a situation to occur. Women in numbers are more important than men for the propagation of the species. One man and 500 concubines could produce 500 children per year, whereas 500 men and just one woman could produce only one child per year (excluding the rare events of twins and triplets etc).

Having large numbers of celibate women in society is not a good idea. It would increase the rivalry and fighting amongst men, for the favours of the relatively few women available, and would almost certainly reduce the population growth, which might be a good idea in certain modern societies today, with overpopulation a problem, but wouldn't have been appreciated by the ruling class during the times of Gautama.

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Hi Rocky,

That's not a realistic scenario in any way. What would happen if everyone on the planet decided to become a carpenter, or a postman, or a teacher, or an astrophysicist? It simply wouldn't be possible because there aren't the vacancies.

Likewise, long before everyone became ordained as a monk, even if they wanted to do so, starvation would force a change in policy. Maybe the Santi Asoke group could manage that, if they allowed the monks to till the soil.

(By the way, I visited a Santi Asoke retreat a couple of months ago near Ubon Ratchathani and was expecting to see monks and nuns tending to the gardens and tilling the soil. I was disappointed to hear from one of the monks who spoke a little English that they weren't allowed to do this because they might accidentally kill a few worms and insects. It seems I'd got it wrong, reading the reports on the internet.) wink.png

To continue, since the male is traditionally, and in practice, the bread-winner, it would be technically possible for the Sangha to accommodate larger numbers of women and still feed them.

Certainly, many women may wish for equality, but I'd say most would be thwarted (held back) by a glass ceiling of their own making (conditioning).

I imagine whether one is male or female, the celibate life of a monk will appeal only to certain individuals who are able to perceive the long term benefits and who have the confidence they can deal with the challenges. I also imagine that certain males in modern Buddhist societies, who might find difficulty in finding any sort of job that interests them and that pays reasonably well, might find the 'lazy' and 'relaxed' lifestyle of a monk very appealing, especially if they have a computer and internet connection in their forest hut. biggrin.png

The offer of full equality with men, in the Sangha order, would be a sufficient incentivet to tip the balance in favour of women. They would have more to gain so it is reasonable to expect they would soon outnumber the men.

However, I see another strong reason why those in power in any society would not want such a situation to occur. Women in numbers are more important than men for the propagation of the species. One man and 500 concubines could produce 500 children per year, whereas 500 men and just one woman could produce only one child per year (excluding the rare events of twins and triplets etc).

Having large numbers of celibate women in society is not a good idea. It would increase the rivalry and fighting amongst men, for the favours of the relatively few women available, and would almost certainly reduce the population growth, which might be a good idea in certain modern societies today, with overpopulation a problem, but wouldn't have been appreciated by the ruling class during the times of Gautama.

Hi V.

Agreed, however my response was related to:

"In such a society, imagine what might happen if a new organisation claiming to teach freedom from all types of suffering, were to admit women with full equality to men in all respects. Would there not be a wild rush by women from all quarters in society to grab such opportunity to free themselves, not only from suffering but also to become equal in status to men?

Would there not soon develop a situation where Bhikkhunis outnumbered Bhikkhus by a hundred to one? Would chaos not result in normal society?"

Even if the number of Bikkhunis outnumbered Bikkhus 50 to 1, the affect on the general population would still be negligible given that worldwide Ordained Buddhist Monks is probably less than 0.1% of the population.

The rush of women seeking equality would still be very small indeed, most likely due to a humans ingrained conditioning compelling one to continue toiling in a path set by subconscious programming.

This rush would be further tempered by the drop out rate, once these new devotees start to sample the deluge of thoughts thrown at them by their recalcitrant minds.

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Hi Rocky,

That's not a realistic scenario in any way. What would happen if everyone on the planet decided to become a carpenter, or a postman, or a teacher, or an astrophysicist? It simply wouldn't be possible because there aren't the vacancies.

Likewise, long before everyone became ordained as a monk, even if they wanted to do so, starvation would force a change in policy. Maybe the Santi Asoke group could manage that, if they allowed the monks to till the soil.

(By the way, I visited a Santi Asoke retreat a couple of months ago near Ubon Ratchathani and was expecting to see monks and nuns tending to the gardens and tilling the soil. I was disappointed to hear from one of the monks who spoke a little English that they weren't allowed to do this because they might accidentally kill a few worms and insects. It seems I'd got it wrong, reading the reports on the internet.) wink.png

To continue, since the male is traditionally, and in practice, the bread-winner, it would be technically possible for the Sangha to accommodate larger numbers of women and still feed them.

Certainly, many women may wish for equality, but I'd say most would be thwarted (held back) by a glass ceiling of their own making (conditioning).

I imagine whether one is male or female, the celibate life of a monk will appeal only to certain individuals who are able to perceive the long term benefits and who have the confidence they can deal with the challenges. I also imagine that certain males in modern Buddhist societies, who might find difficulty in finding any sort of job that interests them and that pays reasonably well, might find the 'lazy' and 'relaxed' lifestyle of a monk very appealing, especially if they have a computer and internet connection in their forest hut. biggrin.png

The offer of full equality with men, in the Sangha order, would be a sufficient incentivet to tip the balance in favour of women. They would have more to gain so it is reasonable to expect they would soon outnumber the men.

However, I see another strong reason why those in power in any society would not want such a situation to occur. Women in numbers are more important than men for the propagation of the species. One man and 500 concubines could produce 500 children per year, whereas 500 men and just one woman could produce only one child per year (excluding the rare events of twins and triplets etc).

Having large numbers of celibate women in society is not a good idea. It would increase the rivalry and fighting amongst men, for the favours of the relatively few women available, and would almost certainly reduce the population growth, which might be a good idea in certain modern societies today, with overpopulation a problem, but wouldn't have been appreciated by the ruling class during the times of Gautama.

Hi V.

Agreed, however my response was related to:

"In such a society, imagine what might happen if a new organisation claiming to teach freedom from all types of suffering, were to admit women with full equality to men in all respects. Would there not be a wild rush by women from all quarters in society to grab such opportunity to free themselves, not only from suffering but also to become equal in status to men?

Would there not soon develop a situation where Bhikkhunis outnumbered Bhikkhus by a hundred to one? Would chaos not result in normal society?"

Even if the number of Bikkhunis outnumbered Bikkhus 50 to 1, the affect on the general population would still be negligible given that worldwide Ordained Buddhist Monks is probably less than 0.1% of the population.

The rush of women seeking equality would still be very small indeed, most likely due to a humans ingrained conditioning compelling one to continue toiling in a path set by subconscious programming.

This rush would be further tempered by the drop out rate, once these new devotees start to sample the deluge of thoughts thrown at them by their recalcitrant minds.

Rocky,

I certainly agree that overpopulation of nuns, or monks, would never be a problem in modern societies. I think in general, religions are currently on the decline. Woman nowadays have much more equality with men than they used to have in the past, so whilst one would expect that reforming the Buddhist monastic rules and practices, and completely removing all discrimination against women would definitely result in an increase in the number of Bhikkhunis, it would not likely be an alarming increase economically, but it might cause the male monks to feel a bit uncomfortable if they are outnumbered by Bhikkhunis. wink.png

I was really addressing the historical reasons for this discrimination against women which seems to be embedded in the religion of Buddhism, despite reports that the Buddha admitted that women are able to achieve enlightenment.

I imagine that certain devoutly Buddhist societies in the past would have had a fairly large percentage of the population living the monastic life. Doing a bit of internet research, I came across the following statistic relating to Tibet.

"During the heyday of Tibetan Buddhism, each Tibetan family was required to provide at least one member to become a monk or nun. This is why Tibetan monks and nuns made up 25 percent of the Tibetan population in the 16th century and thereafter."

That's a very significant percentage. If one adds to that the natural unemployment rate of a primitive feudal society, including all the beggars and the homeless, then the percentage of the adult population who were free to engage in productive work, to produce the food and build the houses and the many monasteries that existed before the Chinese invasion of Tibet, would probably have been relatively small.

I imagine the Buddha would have foreseen many practical difficulties in granting full status to women, considering he lived in a similarly unequal society as ancient Tibet, influenced by a rigid caste system which still has a social effect to this day in India.

Here's a relevant extract from Wikipedia:

"When Ywan Chwang (or Yuan Chuang) traveled to South India after the period of the Chalukyan Empire (7th century AD), he noticed that the caste system had existed among the Buddhists and Jains.

In parts of India, such as Ladakh, with significant historical presence of Buddhists, a caste system existed in a manner similar to the caste structure in Tibet. The upper castes belongs to sger gzhis, and they are called sgar pa. The priestly caste belonged to monastery, and are called chos-gzhis. Miser are the serf caste. Serfs, the majority of the people, farmed and paid taxes.

An individual's social status and lifelong occupation was destined by birth, closed, and depending on the family one was born into, the individual inherited a tenure document known as khral-rten. Buddhist castes had sub-castes, such as nang gzan, khral pa and dud chung. Buddhist also had castes that were shunned by their community and ostracised, such as hereditary fishermen, butchers and undertakers. The untouchables in Buddhist regions, as in Tibet, are known as Ragyappa, who lived in isolated ghettos, and their occupation was to remove corpses (human or animal) and dispose of sewage."

Now, please don't think that I'm using such arguments to justify the discrimination of women. Rather, I'm trying to understand how it came about. Why was the Buddha so reluctant to allow women to be ordained, despite admitting that women were capable of achieving enlightenment?

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One hypothesis put forward was that dharma went against much of the beliefs (religion & custom) of the day.

One would have to be very careful how to approach the promotion of a new way of thinking and living without fear of persecution and/or ridicule.

A woman's status was already heavily ingrained in society at that time.

A small footnote. Although the workforce in relation to monks in Tibet in the 16th century left relatively few to undertake construction of buildings, in those days structures were well made and often lasted centuries in comparison to the shoddy examples going up today.

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One hypothesis put forward was that dharma went against much of the beliefs (religion & custom) of the day.

One would have to be very careful how to approach the promotion of a new way of thinking and living without fear of persecution and/or ridicule.

A woman's status was already heavily ingrained in society at that time.

That makes complete sense to me, Rocky. However, what attracts me towards the philosophy of Buddhism is the existence of teachings such as the Kalama Sutta which advised people not to accept doctrines and customs simply because they are traditional, or because they are written in scriptures, or because a teacher or some other authority claims that certain practices are right and must be followed.

For Buddhist attitudes towards women to change, I think that greater prominence needs to be given to the Kalama Sutta. This Sutta is often dismissed by apologists who claim that it was specifically addressed to an unusually skeptical group of villagers (the Kalamas) who had previously experienced a number of different gurus passing through their village, each expounding different doctrines and offering conflicting advice.

However, as I see it, the whole world has now become like the village of Kesaputta occupied by the Kalamas. We no longer have to rely upon wandering ascetics to physically pass through our place of habitation to advise us how to behave. We have a modern media and education system, and huge, freely available encyclopedias on the internet which can inform us of all the different, authoritative opinions on any subject we care to explore.

The Kalama Sutta is more relevant today than it has ever been.

A small footnote. Although the workforce in relation to monks in Tibet in the 16th century left relatively few to undertake construction of buildings, in those days structures were well made and often lasted centuries in comparison to the shoddy examples going up today.

Different economies, Rocky. Our modern economies are obsessed with continuous economic growth and low unemployment rates. We have the technology to make durable products which could last a lifetime, and longer, but the economy relies upon people buying new clothes, and cars, and TV sets, and houses etc, so what's the point of making something more durable than it needs to be and raising the production cost in the process. Imagine what would happen to the car industry if manufacturers began designing cars to last 20 years with minimum maintenance requirements and a 10 year, unlimited-kilometre warranty. wink.png

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so what's the point of making something more durable than it needs to be and raising the production cost in the process. Imagine what would happen to the car industry if manufacturers began designing cars to last 20 years with minimum maintenance requirements and a 10 year, unlimited-kilometre warranty. wink.png

Granted we shouldn't make things more durable than they need be. wink.png

However it is madness to build everything with a limited life purely for profit.

Madness on many levels, not least of all the destruction of our environment.

But getting back to the OP.

Perhaps if women have equal opportunity for ordination, the world might have a less "planned obsolescence" focus.

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Speaking of equality, ought that apply to just gender or also orientation?

http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/thailand-ban-gays-monkhood260315

Buddhist-majority Thailand has approved a bill that would ban LGBT people from the entering the monkhood.

The junta cabinet approved the bill in August and is now preparing to submit it to the National Legislative Assembly.

Religious authorities have unsuccessfully tried to propose the Bill to Patronize and Protect Buddhism since 2006 but previous military and civilian governments rejected the measure.

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