Can it REALLY be genuine if she won't French kiss?

[YeahSiam]

I've been trying to make an

acquaintance realise that the

fact his young teerak won't

kiss him passionately is a

surefire sign that she doesn't

feel the same about him as

he does about her.

He's adamant that she's just

"one of those Thai girls who

don't like tongue kissing".

I don't think this kind of Thai

woman (or any nationality)

exists. All women enjoy

Frenchies - his GF is taking

him for a ride but he won't

accept it.

My question is do you think

a woman can be genuinely

"into" you when she won't

kiss you passionately?

[CharlieH]

10. Please keep topics related to the forums they are in. General Forum is for Thailand related topics not covered in other forums. Other forums cover other issues, the forum title and description will tell you if you are posting the right thing in the right place.

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[robertthebruce]

i have this vision your ''Mate'' walks about with his Tongue hanging out ???

French Kiss is maybe out for Her, but Maybe a ''Tunisian Kiss''' might be more what she is after...

[RolandRat]

In my experience of Thai ladies, if they know how to kiss like that then they have been with a few (many?) "ferangs" as nearly all Thai females I have encountered do not do that, some will try it, but its not the norm for them,

Thais "sniff" kiss as the norm in my experience.

Personally, if I met a Thai female, and she stuck her tongue down my throat, I'd drop her like a bad habit, as the mileage on the clock is way too high for my taste, and her background would be very questionable to me.

Edited October 10, 2015 by RolandRat

[wooloomooloo]

Personally, if I met a Thai female, and she stuck her tongue down my throat, I'd drop her like a bad habit, as the mileage on the clock is way too high for my taste.

Your experience, okay. But not mine.

My wife has had only one boyfriend and one husband and she loves nothing more than a Frenchie during love making.

[stoneyboy]

My missus is a specialist of the Glaswegian kiss.

[pgrahmm]

Sniff kiss is the accepted tradition here → shows intimacy & respect....And that might be after seeing each other for awhile....

The Thais by and large are a non kissing society - just as they also are a non hugging society.....

Any gal that is quick with her tongue has been experiencing and is aggressive in western ways....You have to wonder/worry about how/why they've come know/employ the western "triggers"......

Your friend needs to learn a bit more about the country he is in.....

He might have a gem - but mishandling her = bye bye

Depends on the type of woman he wants and what he wants her for......

[robertthebruce]

My missus is a specialist of the Glaswegian kiss.

Does she go by the name of ''Mary Doll'' ????

[pgrahmm]

Personally, if I met a Thai female, and she stuck her tongue down my throat, I'd drop her like a bad habit, as the mileage on the clock is way too high for my taste.

Your experience, okay. But not mine.

My wife has had only one boyfriend and one husband and she loves nothing more than a Frenchie during love making.

Different stage of relationships I would think - relatively speaking....That would be a more normal time for them to participate - including mine... .

But it's not like the west here where planting one on 'em standing or sitting next to each other is "the norm" or an anticipated/expected move/reaction, or practice.....

[White Christmas13]

I have been married for 14 years now and I have not managed to get what you call a french kiss

tell him to go to New Zealand he can rub noses over there

[Cypress Hill]

Sniff kiss is the accepted tradition here → shows intimacy & respect....And that might be after seeing each other for awhile....

The Thais by and large are a non kissing society - just as they also are a non hugging society.....

Any gal that is quick with her tongue has been experiencing and is aggressive in western ways....You have to wonder/worry about how/why they've come know/employ the western "triggers"......

Ridiculous but largely consistent with the observations of older men in Thailand whose younger partners generally can't bring themselves to exchange saliva with them.

Total nonsense to suggest that a Thai woman who can French kiss will have learned this from foreign men.

Next we'll be told that Thai women who have sex out of wedlock will have learned that from farangs

French kissing is ABSOLUTELY the norm among young couples here.

Go to a Thai bar or club with lots of young folks - then come back and tell us that sniff-kissing is the norm.

[CharlieH]

All depends where "here" is.

Rural Thailand, I highly doubt it, Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket, where larger Western influences abound, more progressive and modern, then possibly.

[stoneyboy]

Sniff kiss is the accepted tradition here → shows intimacy & respect....And that might be after seeing each other for awhile....

The Thais by and large are a non kissing society - just as they also are a non hugging society.....

Any gal that is quick with her tongue has been experiencing and is aggressive in western ways....You have to wonder/worry about how/why they've come know/employ the western "triggers"......

Ridiculous but largely consistent with the observations of older men in Thailand whose younger partners generally can't bring themselves to exchange saliva with them.

Total nonsense to suggest that a Thai woman who can French kiss will have learned this from foreign men.

Next we'll be told that Thai women who have sex out of wedlock will have learned that from farangs

French kissing is ABSOLUTELY the norm among young couples here.

Go to a Thai bar or club with lots of young folks - then come back and tell us that sniff-kissing is the norm.

Yeah they're even capable of making babies without the aid of a foreigner these days.

[wooloomooloo]

Jeez. My wife is from PHS and met me just as she graduated. Never had a boyfriend in her life. A Frenchie is innate to a woman. <deleted>.

If she ain't doing it, she ain't interested in you.

[wooloomooloo]

This is the most bizarre thread. Where are this lot from? Jeez.

[DP25]

Go to a Thai bar or club with lots of young folks - then come back and tell us that sniff-kissing is the norm.

I ONLY go to Thai bars and clubs, and not just trendy ones in Thonglor full of rich Thais who've lived abroad. No one is french kissing in the average Thai uni bar. No one is making out. The most PDA they display is a sneaky sniff kiss and holding hands. Secondly the crowd that frequents bars often are way more outgoing than average. There are lots of Thais girls that never go to them and are quite conservative.

Sniff kissing is still the norm for most. Some can french kiss, especially among trendy or rich types, but many many normal girls don't really know how and have not done it. Not french kissing is not at all a bad sign, but neither is it a gauranteed good sign. It's impossible for anyone to tell without knowing the girl and seeing the couple together.

[Mojomor]

Maybe she would like an Aussie kiss, cos they do it ''down under''

[manarak]

surprised nobody mentioned smoking and mouth odor

[Cypress Hill]

OK well this has gone off on a tangent

The OP asked whether a woman's feelings toward her man can be genuine if she refuses to kiss him "passionately".

Not much else shows how much you love someone than deep, sensuous kissing.

In my view, if your woman refuses to French kiss with you, then she's in it for something else besides the "love".

[Walter Travolta]

Sniff kiss? What the blazes is one of those?

[Gecko123]

Quote: "ALL women enjoy Frenchies."

You've made out with every woman on the planet, have you?

I just think human sexual preferences are so varied that it's misguided to try and impose a criteria about what constitutes "genuine love," especially when you're crossing cultural barriers, or for that matter, meddling in someone else's relationship.

Edited October 10, 2015 by Gecko123

[xen]

Sniff kiss is the accepted tradition here → shows intimacy & respect....And that might be after seeing each other for awhile....

The Thais by and large are a non kissing society - just as they also are a non hugging society.....

Any gal that is quick with her tongue has been experiencing and is aggressive in western ways....You have to wonder/worry about how/why they've come know/employ the western "triggers"......

Your friend needs to learn a bit more about the country he is in.....

He might have a gem - but mishandling her = bye bye

Depends on the type of woman he wants and what he wants her for......

I agree the sniff kiss or just rubbing cheeks is the traditional method of kissing . It is probably considered old style now especially with a generation exposed to western movies and culture . And this is probably why a girl who tickles your tonsils does not necessarily indicate she has been with too many falungs. She has probably seen it at the movies and tried it out on her boyfriend or girlfriend at school.

[meom]

This is the most bizarre thread. Where are this lot from? Jeez.

LOL.

Just another day in paradise.

I remember starting a similar topic years ago which ran for a few pages.

[YeahSiam]

Quote: "ALL women enjoy Frenchies."

You've made out with every woman on the planet, have you?

I just think human sexual preferences are so varied that it's misguided to try and impose a criteria about what constitutes "genuine love," especially when you're crossing cultural barriers, or for that matter, meddling in someone else's relationship

No, of course I haven't but every

woman I've made out with

(hundreds from many different

cultures and countries) has

regarded kissing as an

indispensable part of the physical

side of male/female relationships.

On the rare occasion a woman

hasn't been keen on it, I've

assumed it's because she just

wasn't that interested in me.

No big deal...not every woman is

gonna be into you which is why

I don't understand why this guy

is wasting his time and money on

his woman when there are so

many to choose from.

[Crazy chef 1]

Thought the topic is about the girl don't wanna kiss a French....good on her is say...

[arfurcrown]

Well who in their right mind would wish to kiss a French person or indeed the O.P. ?

[Patsycat]

I'm very good at Swiss Kisses. Men faint at my feet. And then i tap them on the head and they go on their way.

Edited October 11, 2015 by Patsycat

[BKKdreaming]

I like the sniff kiss , and I trade them for an Eskimo nose rub kiss

if that is going to be the test if she likes you maybe he needs to rethink what he really wants ,

[Crazy chef 1]

I'm very good at Swiss Kisses. Men faint at my feet. And then i tap them on the head and they go on their way.

Think you know what Germans understand as French kisses...would bring this topic to a whole new level...

[JLCrab]

Quote: "ALL women enjoy Frenchies."

You've made out with every woman on the planet, have you?

I just think human sexual preferences are so varied that it's misguided to try and impose a criteria about what constitutes "genuine love," especially when you're crossing cultural barriers, or for that matter, meddling in someone else's relationship

No, of course I haven't but every

woman I've made out with

(hundreds from many different

cultures and countries) < snip >

These type topics are often started by someone who just can't wait to get his scorecard on the board.