I prefer mature Thai ladies

[NativeSon360]

I briefly dated a 57-year-old,, educated, retired professional, ethnic Chinese-Thai lady. A very nice lady, with a pleasant personality, who spoke excellent English, but could hold a conversation (on any topic) lasting more than 5-minutes.

She further kept small Teddy Bears mounted on the dashboard of her car. She also had a larger Teddy Bear in her home, that she hugged while watching television, and also slept with, when sleeping alone in her bed.

She also couldn't spend time with me, on the week-ends, because she felt obligated to spend her week-ends at home, together with her Mama & Papa (who happened to be living in the house, next-door to her Medical Doctor brother's house), and with a full-time paid live-in housekeeper, to provide for them.

The sex was, sigh.......well I've seen more life in goldfish, swimming around in an aquarium. You say you're looking for a mature Thai lady? If 14-years-old is mature enough for you, then great, because a 55-year-old teenager, is as good as it gets, practically everywhere in Asia, including the LOS. The only maturity to be found in a relationship with an Asian woman, is what you bring into that relationship, yourself. Good Luck

And don't forget to keep a mental diaper bag handy. Asian women require considerable patience and perseverance (just like toddlers), if the relationship is to survive, for any length of time.

[JAFO]

I wanted to additionally comment my posts about "Mature women" is my point of view and I am not saying my view is the right or best view. I just offered up a post to the OP. We are all different and we are all in Thailand(for the ones that actually are) for different reasons. My reasons started as business, was not on a 2 week holiday, was not looking for a gal. I enjoyed that I got to come and assess Thailand under a western companies umbrella.. After time I liked the place, felt my money could work for me here and decided might be a good place to stay, get off the US work hamster wheel very early and if lucky meet a respectful, intelligent, English speaking, responsible gal and live out the rest of my life. Being I had been here for quite sometime and been out and about a lot I knew I could never handle a gal that called me "Teerak" or spoke some terribly broken English. That I had to explain things to her all the time or that she spoke Thai and left me to just sit there and smile like I understood as I had witnessed many many times with other westerners. The pink rooms, Hello Kitty, Facebook, selfies, stuff animals, trying to lead me around like I was a dog on a leash wouldn't work either. At some point my friends and colleagues in the states would meet her as I was traveling back and forth. It would be uncomfortable for me if she displayed those characteristics. Plus I did not want a gal that would just sit there and smile and not socialize. It wouldn't work for her either making the relationship stressed. I will admit I was very selective and knew there was a lot in meeting and having a serious relationship with any gal from another country. I figured this was my last rodeo with a woman. After 4+ years I got lucky enough to meet that gal that was the balance I wanted.

Glad to read that there are always exceptions to the norms. Best wishes , and Cheers

Thanks Nativeson360, I will tell you it was not an easy task as you noted and my wife is not perfect by any means. I met a few older professional business owner types around 40 (Boutique shop and Pastry/coffee shop) but they were far too committed to their job. As you know in Thailand after about 35 yrs old it is hard for an older woman to land employment unless they start their own business and if that's there only source of income it becomes priority #1 especially if they are caring for aging parents. I find it an admirable quality but the question is "where do you fit in long term". I also dated some young educated professional gals very early on and I went crazy quickly. Great to look at, sexy and cute but their life experience was so limited(a couple had even been out of Thailand for a few years) that I felt like a teacher or father figure more than being part of a relationship. Was simply too much work. I felt intellectually shunted and I mentioned before once that sex rush is over, whats next? Its like a candy store. Buy a big bag and after you eat enough it all tastes the same and you get sick of it quick if their is nothing else to stimulate you.

All I can say is think long and carefully. I have met plenty in my passing and read tons of stories on the internet of some terrible events with foreigners and Thai woman. They can't believe this young gal is interested in them but after the shine wears off they find themselves lost.

A quick story, one day in BKK I was in the lobby of a hotel where I was meeting a few folks to go have dinner. There was a little general store for the tenants that had an internet cafe section. Through the window I watched this gal skyping with 2 different western men while her GF sat on the other side of the monitors laughing and giggling. I thought to myself. OUCH!!!. Lessons are learned very hard in Thailand.

[fang37]

Once I met a mature Thai lady. She became my MIL.

Oldies are not always goodies.

[NoshowJones]

At age 20 I thought like you. I preferred women 35 years.

At 40 I confirmed this preference for women 35 years.

Today I am 65 and my wife 35 ...

Don't want to burst your bubble, but there is almost no chance that she genuinely loves you.

I believe she will always be loving towards you as long as you provide the financial requirements for her.

and probably for her family as well.

[NoshowJones]

I just like women all of them ,full stop

Even the overweight ones?

[NoshowJones]

I think that if you come across a potential partner, no matter the age gap, and they show a love and affection of animals, rabbits, hamsters,

as well as dogs and cats, even pet rats, then as far as their nature goes, you have found a winner.

[fang37]

I am real desperate.

I'll settle for any lady - young, old, skinny or fat.

OK, I'll pay above the odds.

[puukao]

I love mature women.......ideally 23 years old....yee-sip saam bpii for you non-fluent members...i would write thai but they don't like that here....slightly ironic.

i am only 73 and when i turn 80 i will go for 30+ women of the LOS.....when i was 20, she was 20. when i was 60, she was 20. of course, i have the money!!!!!!

and they tell me how great i am.......

now where did i put my ATM? oh, i think i misplaced it again..........

[happy Joe]

At age 20 I thought like you. I preferred women 35 years.

At 40 I confirmed this preference for women 35 years.

Today I am 65 and my wife 35 ...

Don't want to burst your bubble, but there is almost no chance that she genuinely loves you.

I believe she will always be loving towards you as long as you provide the financial requirements for her.

and probably for her family as well.

Love, love, love ... there are those who speak and those who do. From what it seems to me urgent to keep silent.

[NoshowJones]

At age 20 I thought like you. I preferred women 35 years.

At 40 I confirmed this preference for women 35 years.

Today I am 65 and my wife 35 ...

Don't want to burst your bubble, but there is almost no chance that she genuinely loves you.

I believe she will always be loving towards you as long as you provide the financial requirements for her.

and probably for her family as well.

Love, love, love ... there are those who speak and those who do. From what it seems to me urgent to keep silent.

I'm sorry I cannot understand your post as you are probably not an English Native Speaker, nothing wrong with that at all.

It is still good to have you on Thaivisa.

[Gordy Gambino]

Momma is on my bucket list. After 6 kids yep I'm gonna get a bucket. Farang can do what teelak say is ok but you pay. Sister??? you pay.

You pay, you pay, sounds like a cockatoo.

[thehelmsman]

I have a "what if question" for all who have True love in their lives.

If you the farang became ill with mounting medical bills, more than your pension or income could ever cover. If you were working, now the income stops. She is forced to make a decision......her income alone cannot cover living expenses, now she has to sell her car and house to pay for your mounting bills.

What would she do?

[fang37]

Varicose veins & stretch marks - a real turn on!

[JAFO]

I have a "what if question" for all who have True love in their lives.

If you the farang became ill with mounting medical bills, more than your pension or income could ever cover. If you were working, now the income stops. She is forced to make a decision......her income alone cannot cover living expenses, now she has to sell her car and house to pay for your mounting bills.

What would she do?

That's a no brainer Helmsman, I told her to get a nice glass of the 40 year old unopened Scotch that I have been saving. Lace it with something pleasant that will let me slip away and let me go. I said please burn me quick so there is no worries they think you killed me or let me pour it and make sure you are out of town. Now go on with life. I absolutely do not want to be a burden to anyone. I am a huge supporter of Euthanasia.

Here is how I feel about all this medical stuff many westerners are totally gripped by and plan their last bit of life around which I find totally silly.. I have watched some family members and friends family members die an unnecessarily long and slow death. Spend everything they have, mortgage the house, Sell the cars, max out credit cards, file bankruptcy to sustain a piss poor quality of life and leave others in the poor house to recover. Coupled with that you were a HUGE burden to them even though they will never admit it. The only people enjoying it are the doctors, the nurses and med companies. Why would I want to give my money to those strangers to prolong the inevitable when if I left it to someone who shared and cared for me during the good years in life would need and enjoy it more. I am not too much older than my wife but her instructions are clear.

Edited October 17, 2015 by JAFO

[JAFO]

Varicose veins & stretch marks - a real turn on!

Flip the mirror around for a minute Fang37 . Consider what some of these foreigner looks like? In my travels I have seen some gals with gimpy old crippled men. over weight, scraggly looking. Can't care for themselves, unshaven etc. I wonder what she is thinking? Just something to think about. Doubt she thinks he is a huge turn on.... I find its about balance in life. You take some good with some inevitable as we age.

Again though, if you are just mongering then who looks anyway. You do not even need to know their name. She turns a blind eye, sets aside her self dignity, thinks about the money. The old coffin dodger thinks he is a stud and for a few baht they both get what they want.

[Stan42]

[fang37]

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

[JHolmesJr]

A bump.

For MILFS.