These days smart phones are ubiquitous and the array of apps that you can choose to message with friends or strangers is huge. LINE, Whatsapp, Wechat, Tinder, Viber, Facebook, snapchat and the list goes on

Would you check the phone of a romantic interest?

Do you see it as an issue of trust?

Is it an issue of trust built up over time?

Is it prudent to verify?

Are there circumstances where you would?

i dont and would never check her phone. I still havent found out her password.

Nuh, I'd never check.

If its got to that stage then the relationship is doomed anyway.

My missus knows that if I even have the remotest suspicion that she is being emotionally (or otherwise) unfaithful, she's out on her ear with the clothes she's wearing and FA else.

Call me old fashioned, but on my planet, it's my way or the highway.

Nope, I don't care what she gets up to.

I don't own her.

If she wants a bf, new husband, gik ...... up to her.

Yes.

No. If things had got to the checking stage, the end would be nigh.

Anyway, her phone's all in Thai. I can't read that, so it'd be a waste of time.

As above

If things had got to the checking stage, the end would be nigh. (that apply's both ways)

No, never would.

No.

And I hope she would never check the browsing history on my PC.

^^^

Learn to use delete session, delete item, etc., from your browsing history.

If I felt I needed to, its already too late. as clearly their is a trust issue, and not much point proceeding beyond that as without trust you are BOTH wasting your time.

Yes I would and you are all liars.

Or cant use a phone.

Sent from my c64

Yes I would and you are all liars.

Or cant use a phone.

Sent from my c64

Yes, i would, if i have doubts about a relationship, i will check everything i can, why lose time with the wrong person ?

I could not care less as long as i gets mines 3 times a day.

But i operate on the assumption that a woman will check mine so there is a password and screen notifications are off. Hehe.

Absolutely not and neither would I open her mail.

I know it seems impossible for some guys to get

to That point, but it's up to you, self control, trust

just get on with your business and let get on with

hers.

Well. as soon as i realised that women are somehow smarter than men, i will do my best to keep up to date.

At a certain age, or you get used to eat s##t, or you decide you won't eat s##t anymore.... Pardon my French

Nuh, I'd never check.

If its got to that stage then the relationship is doomed anyway.

My missus knows that if I even have the remotest suspicion that she is being emotionally (or otherwise) unfaithful, she's out on her ear with the clothes she's wearing and FA else.

Call me old fashioned, but on my planet, it's my way or the highway.

spoken like it should be , a real man, many of you need to read this and act on it. one thing I would add and I've seen it many times lots of men, I have herd say things like this but when they find the girl is playing around they look the other way and do sweet F A about it and ignored the fact she is messing him around. many men walk the walk but cant talk the talk.

No.

And I hope she would never check the browsing history on my PC.

make it password protected

Heello,

A relationship is based on mutual trust.

If you don't trust her then leave her.

It's better than always asking yourself where she is, what she does and who is with her. And if you check her phone or her handbag, it's sure that the storm will start in your brain.

Nope. If I didn't trust her, we wouldn't be together in the first place.

My missus is not allowed back onto my property until I have thoroughly checked her phone each time she returns from where ever she goes.

no ... two things make a good relationship .... honesty & trust .....

break either and you don't really have a relationship

No. Just because I have married someone does not mean that either one of us gave up a right to personal privacy...

It also would serve no purpose other than erosion. Having no need to violate someone's privacy strengthens a relationship - distrust erodes it.

Never would and if I saw her anywhere near my phone she would be out on her ear,,,,,,,

I might...if she did not keep me locked out...

It is mostly an irrelevant point with us as we use the same password for our phones and all emails are compiled in the same place. We never pry but we also don't feel the need for privacy. It is a nonissue for us.

NO NO NO

Why check?

If you feel a need to it it means you already lost the trust.

And there are so many other ways if people really want to do things you mention.

So you are shadowong too when the partenr is going to do shopping or go to the toilet. That is where this ends up

If start checking and spying is equal to start the end of trust and realation.

We both know password of our mobiles and see email from our ipads but both of us never do that.

She is talking too mach anyway and I have to listen,

now you want that I'll read her boring messeges too?