@rocketboybkk.

in reply I can tell you that my g/f does not mug me off while I do the shopping.

She has her own business, and works 6 days a week, 50-60 hours and asks for nothing.

I raised 4 kids alone, 3 daughters so I guess I'm a feminist and taught them to demand equality and stand on their own feet.

Your the exact type I warned them about.

Women can be a Mother and a wife, but a maid and a slave............guess your still single.

Well how did you fix it dear Henry dear Henry?

With a lecture dear bgrassboy, bgrassboy, with a lecture dear bgrassboy, with a lecture, we fixed it.

Hey 'Faz'................... My two Bahts worth, Things that piss me off; 'change the things I can, live with the thing I can't'. If you can adopt this and make it part of your life, things become easier!

For me........... It's a work in progress.

As an aside, Big C phoned the g/f last night to say my card has been returned.

We went to collect it this morning. They were very apologetic for the inconvenience and trouble it had caused and gave me a pile of freebies, toothpastes, hair shampoos, Nivea cream sachets, Comfort conditioner sachets and a nice Mug, all loaded into a very nice zip up bag with handles.

They can misplace my card anytime.

The problem of contacting my g/f in an hour of need has been resolved, the son has accepted her phone is off limits now and hasn't mentioned it again.

As an aside, Big C phoned the g/f last night to say my card has been returned.

We went to collect it this morning. They were very apologetic for the inconvenience and trouble it had caused and gave me a pile of freebies, toothpastes, hair shampoos, Nivea cream sachets, Comfort conditioner sachets and a nice Mug, all loaded into a very nice zip up bag with handles.

They can misplace my card anytime.

The problem of contacting my g/f in an hour of need has been resolved, the son has accepted her phone is off limits now and hasn't mentioned it again.

And now bigc give happy endings.