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[SoiBiker]

Well perhaps the OP will explain why she prefers to go shopping with a man who thinks like a woman thinks rather than go with a female companion.

Is there some reason why she should have to explain that?

[smokie36]

Fairly easy to spot those in happy relationships here.

I go shopping with her...but I get bored after a couple of hours I must admit.

I just offer a simple yes or no and the odd shrug of my shoulders....I can't get too enthusiastic about clothes....except maybe jeans.

Women treat these days out as shopping dates....whereas for most of us it's just an inconvenience.

[rogeroc]

Up to her, i have a strong feeling she can speak for herself. Is there any reason why i shouldn't ask the question?

[SoiBiker]

Being interested in clothes isn't 'thinking like a woman' - except perhaps from a caveman point of view.

[Minnie the Minx]

It's a couple thing, I have plenty of girls to go shopping with, for some it's a career btw, just nice when your hubby takes an interest.

I'm sure women here buy their husbands/bf/partner things so reverse is also very nice.

Cheers for the replies.

[Laughing Gravy]

Good luck to the OP and if it's their thing him trying her clothes on, well go for it. A bit weird for me but who am I to criticize. If you saw me trying to put my Mrs. tops on you would be screaming and laughing, as the only item that might fit, would be socks and I doubt that either.

[dick dasterdly]

'Give me a man who actually thinks about the whole experience of the shopping thing.

Not about showing the cash " Yeah baby, go buy what you want" but a guy who thinks as a woman thinks. That's rare.'

Why not just go with another woman then? Or is that you want the man to think the same as a woman and to pay as well?

Personally, I find it easier and more bearable to go shopping on my own. Quick decisions (albeit sometimes later regretted...), and no need to hang about whilst others faff about.

[Donutz]

My late wife and I would go shopping together regulary (perhaps half the time? the other times she'd go alone). She'd advice me and I'd advice her when looking for cloths or discussing to buy some electronic machine or some gadget. We'd both get bored after say an hour or two, then grab something to eat or drink and go home. Simply had a fun time and a wardrobe that your loved one for the most part also found to be the example of good taste.

Who would pay? Both of us, sometimes using her debitcard, sometimes mine. Not really kept track, using eachothers debitcard aswell. Overall the costs were shared fairly. most important is that we had fun. When shopping alone I'd ofcourse prepare in advance (read about some equipment, think about what specs would be the best price/qualty ratio for me), walk in, buy the product, walk out. Not much point in window shopping by yourself. Shopping itself isn't much fun, the conversations and fun you have with your partner, that is what puts the fun in it.

Things like this, and all the other things, oh how I do miss them greatly. Fond memories, such as when she had just immigrated to the Netherlands and at 21:00 said to me "let's go to the mall together", and I gave her that looking, explaing that most shops close at 17:00-18:00 during the week. She didn't believe her ears, replyign " but if people work all day, how are the supposed to go shopping after finishing work and dinner???". She was ofcourse used to the BKK opening times. Could see her thinking "what kidn of third country hell hole have I gotten into???" 5555

Edited June 8, 2016 by Donutz

[SantiSuk]

I bought..sorry..paid for three bra sets yesterday..bored shittless...not allowed into the fitting room..a bit difficult for a guy to look nonchalant in a women's underwear section.

I'm a guy and I once went shopping for a silk night gown for my then current squeeze in Peter Robinson on Kings Road in London.

As I was wandering around the aisles, which also had bras en route a middle aged lady of WASP appearance came up to me and hissed "disgusting!"

I don't think I look or dress dress like a perv - quite took me aback.

That's my excuse for not buying bras or underwear for the last 20 years!

[Patsycat]

You may find that times have changed. Over the Xmas period in the UK they have "men only" evenings in lingerie shops. Where men can go and buy their loved one sexy stuff.

My ex was never shy about buying me undies or even t-shirts on a whim. But it was never anything i really liked. And the sizes were wrong. Bless. At least he tried!!

I did propose once that he cut the size ticket out of my clothes. And was rebuffed!!

So, back to the shop we would have to go...!! The thought counted.

A pair or jeans was the best - all he had to do was look at the label on the Levi's and buy them. My size.

He bought a pair that you could have got me and him in them at the same time!!

[overherebc]

I can handle shopping with SWMBO for about an hour or two but when we have what was planned for and it starts to morph into why don't we have a look in this department type shopping I'm out of there.

WE have now learned that at that point I just find a coffee shop or whatever, watch the girls go by and relax.

Food shopping we do a lot together, clothes no way.

Edited June 10, 2016 by overherebc

[dick dasterdly]

I bought..sorry..paid for three bra sets yesterday..bored shittless...not allowed into the fitting room..a bit difficult for a guy to look nonchalant in a women's underwear section.

I'm a guy and I once went shopping for a silk night gown for my then current squeeze in Peter Robinson on Kings Road in London.

As I was wandering around the aisles, which also had bras en route a middle aged lady of WASP appearance came up to me and hissed "disgusting!"

I don't think I look or dress dress like a perv - quite took me aback.

That's my excuse for not buying bras or underwear for the last 20 years!

Many years ago I'd dragged my husband into a lingerie shop and as it was coming up to Xmas, said how much I loved a silk dressing gown on display.

Sure enough, I got the dressing gown for Xmas - only in pink, not the black gown I'd admired .

To be fair, I have it to this day and wear it on the rare cold mornings.

[JAFO]

Just caught this thread. @ Minnie the Minx, I love shopping with my wife. When we were in the states she would say "hey I got some discount coupons for Victoria Secret, want to go and see what you would like? " LOL...!!!!. I would jump at the opportunity.

Whether here in Thailand or when we visit the states my wife likes my input to her attire. I have no problem offering it. I find shopping with my wife to be a great way to share a day together. My wife also goes with me to sporting events .