Why would a Thai girl want to dress up and behave like a man ?

Why would a Thai girl be interested in a Tom ?

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Toms are toms because thats who they are - same as in any society... [but you know this - right?]

And they are known for "good take care" -

Toms are toms because thats who they are - same as in any society... [but you know this - right?]

And they are known for "good take care" -

I think most of them are bums.

Some good care but most say storey

Bums?

All of the Toms I know have jobs...

What does that mean? - 'most say storey' - -

Who is Tom? Why is he in Thailand?

Why people don't understand that not everyone likes the same thing, even for older balding fat foreigners there is sometimes a lady they don't have to pay for.

Just accept that everyone has different likes and dislikes when it comes to who they want as a partner. You don't have to understand, just respect it if they are both of legal age. You could of course move to Iran, there you won't encounter it.

Imagine a spectrum of characters and individuals rather than trying to place an individual in a specific 'box'....

General society in Thailand allows for this 'non-conditioning' and general acceptance (on the surface at least), whereas in the West we are used to our gender conditioning... boxing people into Gay Man, Straight Man, Gay Woman, Straight Woman... of course these boxes are fundamentally flawed in the limited ability to explain the multifaceted variety of expression, feelings and identities of many...

Thailand doesn't seem to try to place people in these boxes as much as in the West... thus, there are simple individuals...

The psychology of a Tom ??... someone who's individuality is different to mine but whom I may related to in 'digging hot chicks' !!!

Why people don't understand that not everyone likes the same thing, even for older balding fat foreigners there is sometimes a lady they don't have to pay for.

Just accept that everyone has different likes and dislikes when it comes to who they want as a partner. You don't have to understand, just respect it if they are both of legal age. You could of course move to Iran, there you won't encounter it.

You can use this as a template to respond to every thread.

There is no discussion, just respect. No knowledge, just accept.

Well done !

This topic has nothing to do with health.

It also stereotypes people based ion sexual orientation/gender identity. Closed.