Bud1000 Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 I am new to Thailand and it seems as though it is easy to meet "a" Thai girl. But I am interested in meeting a loving and beautiful TG for a long term relationship and possible marriage. I know many people find the right girl in a bar and that is great but you do also here some horror stories. I was wondering if any long term residents and/or senior posters had any tips regarding finding an honest long term love in Thailand. Does Thailand have introduction agencies? Is there a "singles" scene for over 40s in Bangkok? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robski Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Is there a "singles" scene for over 40s in Bangkok? Over to you Terry57 old chap........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Any relationship is a risk, so meeting somone anywhere can create your own personal horror stories. Learning thai would be very beneficial. As for places - I'd think like the west - anywhere is a possibility!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bud1000 Posted November 28, 2006 Author Share Posted November 28, 2006 What about introduction agencies? Are there any reputable ones that care for the well being of these brave Thai ladies? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexth Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there Very sincere too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenmile Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 (edited) i don't know if it is a good idea going into any relationship expecting it to be long term. much healthier to take it slowly and see what happens. why are you particularly interested in thai ladies? it may be easy initially with a BG or whatever 0 but then you have your work cut out for you - same as in any relationship. good luck! by the way - cant seem to find an introduction section for newbies here. is there one? Edited November 28, 2006 by goldenmile Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Douggie Style Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 & make sure you wear lots of gold Seriously, avoid any type of 'meeting' designed to foster romance, simply attracts the wrong type. Meeting a girl through a day to day activity is best, eg work, tour, snorkelling. Or simply find a girl who is working in a regular job and slowly work your charms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
game4shame Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bud1000 Posted November 28, 2006 Author Share Posted November 28, 2006 If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me. Too stuck up for a nice village girl? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 by the way - cant seem to find an introduction section for newbies here. is there one? Have a gander at this thread... and say Hi to everyone there. If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me. Somehow.... I smell a troll... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buckwheat Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 by the way - cant seem to find an introduction section for newbies here. is there one? Have a gander at this thread... and say Hi to everyone there. If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me. Somehow.... I smell a troll... Sounds a lot like the "fire and brimstone" guy from up North Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Francis Maube Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 If you are new in LOS I suggest you take a back seat to long term relationship. Well, on a second though it applies everywhere doesn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bud1000 Posted November 28, 2006 Author Share Posted November 28, 2006 If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me. Too stuck up for a nice village girl? NO I am most respecting of bar girls but don't feel they are the right marriage for me. I am not knocking others' choices in ladies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briggsy Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 I recommend preparing an intelligence file on all members of her family. This is an excellent starting point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 I am not knocking others' choices in ladies. Very politically correct. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
migrant Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 How do you meet good ladies in your own country? I've met ladies in all places, never a guarantee they will be quality. Just look around and use common sense ( and a hefty dose of scepticism) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenmile Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 in my experience bar girls are quite different once you get to know them. even some bar girls don't like the others who take a nice man for a fool. mind you that may just be jealousy that they didnt get there first....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briggsy Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Investigate the contents of her bag when she's in the toilet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Not hard in thailand, but any relationship - don't know what you have until after a heap of time has gone by!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenmile Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Investigate the contents of her bag when she's in the toilet. and the contents of her sms message inbox Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briggsy Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Get one of your mates, whom she has never met, to chat her up and secretly video the reaction/encounter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenmile Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Get one of your mates, whom she has never met, to chat her up and secretly video the reaction/encounter. and please upload the vid to youtube and give us the link. cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briggsy Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Take her on a surprise date to the hospital and get her tested for all sexually transmitted diseases. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenmile Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Take her on a surprise date to the hospital and get her tested for all sexually transmitted diseases. and post the results here. hey and while you are there you could have some tests done too. maybe you will have something in common Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bud1000 Posted November 28, 2006 Author Share Posted November 28, 2006 You guys are for having the laugh. English isn't my best language so please don't have the joking with me too much. In my own country I would meet the right lady at work or the social engagment. Now that I have retired to Thailand most of the lovely ladies I meet are in the bar for long time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenmile Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 sorry bud, u sound a bit like a poor Borat impersonator to me....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 (edited) Any thai mates bud? Perhaps they might set you up with someone??? Thai ladies are notorious matchmakers.... Edited November 28, 2006 by britmaveric Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buckwheat Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 Any thai mates bud? Perhaps they might set you up with someone??? Thai ladies are notorious matchmakers.... Yeah, For a % of the final take! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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