haja5 Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 Im curious have any of you had a situation similar to this? I met her online, and now she wants to come to BKK and stay with me for a week. I have work so there would be days where I wouldnt be home ( im not okay with that). Im also curious in why just meeting me online she feels ready to just come live with me for a week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i claudius Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 Come on your a big boy your guess is as good as oursSent from my SM-A720F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worgeordie Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 When you go to work in the morning lock the door,give her 500 THB,and tell her you'll see her when you finish work,but make sure you get your 500 THB 's worth,in case she does not come back,or you could take a few days off work,and maybe you need to start thinking for yourself. regards Worgeordie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jdiddy Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 (edited) I'd say yes if i was single as im an ex momma's boy so i need domestic goddesses to do the laundry, washing up, put my phone on charge, tell me to go brush my teeth etc Edited August 3, 2017 by Jdiddy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rijb Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 You have work there. So does she. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomwct Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 She wants to cook and clean for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4evermaat Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 You can arrange it so that the days you go to work, she must stay at her friends. When i first came to thailand (Patong)... checked into a guesthouse. Met the maid that day or the next. Asked her if she wanted a massage after her shift. Gave her a hip and thigh rub down that same afternoon. Things move very quickly in the mating dept here. Welcome to Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeab1980 Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 Just meet her bonk her and see how it goes. Sure you have work and not school? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thongkorn Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 7 hours ago, tomwct said: She wants to cook and clean you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
observer90210 Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 (edited) Make sure you get to see her place, real fast... lock up or put away all valuables, in a safe place... put well hidden covert "nanny cams" in all the rooms of your house, to get footage on what she's upto when you are away... leave some 100THB notes hanging around..not to obviously visible but accessible enough for her to find and see what happens when you are away... this could be a good for a start. Edited August 3, 2017 by observer90210 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inThailand Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 It's because your ahandsome man. Or its low season where marks are harder to find. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nasa123 Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 Girl or Lady Boy ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 she wants to clean your house ... ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gumballl Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 Post a picture of her. Maybe someone knows her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meatboy Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 4 hours ago, inThailand said: It's because your ahandsome man. Or its low season where marks are harder to find. its also because she hasnt a handsome man that week,the weeks after she's fully booked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamypoko Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Guests must be registered with the local police - ID please Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Im curious have any of you had a situation similar to this? I met her online, and now she wants to come to BKK and stay with me for a week. I have work so there would be days where I wouldnt be home ( im not okay with that). Im also curious in why just meeting me online she feels ready to just come live with me for a week. MONEY ?????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klauskunkel Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 (edited) 14 hours ago, haja5 said: I met her online you met Nfoufou Napoleon M'Bwege from Ouagadougou. Good luck. Edited August 4, 2017 by klauskunkel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 (edited) 14 hours ago, Jdiddy said: I'd say yes if i was single as im an ex momma's boy so i need domestic goddesses to do the laundry, washing up, put my phone on charge, tell me to go brush my teeth etc More than likely when you get home, your laundry will still be dirty, you will have more dirty pans in the sink, your TV will be on while she sleeps on the sofa, and your electricity bill will be through the roof. Edited August 4, 2017 by tonray Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Been there done that Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 45 minutes ago, catman20 said: Im curious have any of you had a situation similar to this? I met her online, and now she wants to come to BKK and stay with me for a week. I have work so there would be days where I wouldnt be home ( im not okay with that). Im also curious in why just meeting me online she feels ready to just come live with me for a week. MONEY ?????? The negativity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heybuz Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 doesn't"t come from phetchebun does she Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Straight8 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Nope, never happened to me. They always wanna go home back to their boyfriend. OP is just too sexy man!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craftyhen Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 i say go for it, you'll get sex and she'll get free meals and accommodation for a week if she asks for any more than this kick her out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realenglish1 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 From her perspective you are Farang and therefore the pot at the end of the rainbow I would not suspect anything nefarious about her wanting to stay with you . This is a sure thing Take advantage of it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimmym40 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Whatever you decide. Would be beneficial to obtain a copy of her ID card and ask for her home address. See what her reaction is.... If anything goes south, this info is valuable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichardColeman Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 I a little experience of this - sort of. I spoke to a lady for 2 months from the UK and then took the plunge to come out to Thailand for a month. I was 50 , she was 37. We lived together in the same room/apartment for this time, she I think was a little nervous, but our communication before put us at ease more. This lady was a school teacher from Nan - not a bar girl from Pattaya before all the mass idiots on here start ranting - not that it should matter too much if you are happy together. Point is, we got on really well from the first night onwards, both had a lot in common and I ended up going back to the UK, renting out my house and came to live with her here. we now have a daughter and are very happy and content. I would say if you are happy with your conversations with her then go for it, take a punt - as long as those same conversations are not based solely on a weeks. But, I wouldn't stay at your house for the week. I'd take a break from work and go stay in a resort for a while. This fr security and peace of mind. If she wants you, she will be happy with you by the sea, just as much as at home. It also means she wont be hanging outside your abode if it all goes *its up But your post is vague on details. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pilotman Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Ignore the cynics, it may be genuine. If you met online, she may just be one of thousands of woman online, not just in Asia, desperate to improve their lives by finding a man with some means. Nothing wrong in that. Lots of successful marriages start that way nowadays . However, you need to be realistic and enter this week of meeting her cautiously and with your eyes wide open. The only thing going for her may be her charm , youth, looks etc and she will no doubt use them. Nothing wrong in that either, Don't western woman do the same, and men for that matter? . I personally wouldn't want a long term relationship with a woman who jumped into bed with me on day one (but lots of marriages start that way too), so see what her attitude is. She may not want that either. She offered to come and meet you in BKK.. So what? How else would she finally meet with you and she probably doesn't have the means to travel and stay in a hotel to meet you, so don't dismiss it as a scam just yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aussieinphuket Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 a friend of mine was telling me over lunch yesterday, when he was on one of these dating sights he kept getting the same request but send me thb10k and i will come down, no i will give you money when here. next step i need thb8k for airfare to fly to phuket, he replies i will book you air ticket it only costs thb2k, her reply i don't like flying ....... as you can blantantly see th is is a scam to get you too send money and they no show. why would you want to get involved with someone you have never seen and met in the flesh, come on be a big boy 'smell the roses'.... this happens in thailand not once a day but many many times its more then likely some african nigerian on the other end who posts a photo of a nice looking thai girl who is trying to extort money from some gullible farang .... understand now .... or if you go ahead let us know the outcome i need another good laugh .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Sounds like a woman of loose morals. best to avoid her. I suggest you talk this over with your mum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrDudley Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 I strongly suggest you stop thinking with your brain and start thinking with Mr. Happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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