My personal advise is to never bonk a house mate, I think this is particularly important if like me you spent two years sharing a house with three gay men.

:D

Moss

Does this still apply if they were not Gay

Let's say the flatmate is out of the picture and suddenly it's just you and Miss Snoggins. Do you think you would get cold feet, Kayo?

That's what I wonder. I think she may likewise be using the "household harmony" to keep things at a suitable distance.

My personal advise is to never bonk a house mate, I think this is particularly important if like me you spent two years sharing a house with three gay men.

:D

Moss

Does this still apply if they were not Gay

Possibly even more so . It was a great house and they put on the absolute best parties. It used to freak out my family and friends but I never had any of the guys try to convert me. I also met some of the nicest people, male and female that I ever knew.

CB

wish this page existed when I needed such advise!

I'm also with Boo and the others that suggested getting rid of House mate #3...today is the perfect occasion to make him drunk..I mean...that drunk that he will retire early and has a hang over for at least two days....which makes him technically "away"....

Good luck mate and all the best for 2008!

Don't forget to post some pics!

Oh gawd .... he's back

"Yesterday, kayo, was the last time we do this. We don't cross the line any more.... We don't disrupt the harmony anymore.

That means: "I want you.......but let's wait a bit"

Happy New Year Kayo !

LaoPo

Hmm...

you need to get rid of the spare wheel....any way to get your other flat mate to move out??

RE: other bloke moving out... Unfortunately not... But wait.. My own tide may be turning... read on!

Let's say the flatmate is out of the picture and suddenly it's just you and Miss Snoggins. Do you think you would get cold feet, Kayo?

Maybe, Meadish... Maybe.

PS: Miss Snoggins?

Be wherry of the " Birthday" factor. It may have been a one off, induced by the general happiness bit. A bloke who you may not know very well, may have slapped you on the back, gave you one of his prize Cubans and been full of "hail fellow well met", for the day, but a bit stand offish again the next morning in the office. The good lady may have thought " why not " on one day and may be feeling a tad sorry for herself the following.

If in doubt, PM Crow Boy. He will tell you about the chemical balance of her hormones, and whether or not she will die if she doesn't get another shag quickly. Clever chap CB.

The actual context of that subject was female ferrets and not female humans. This is not the same even though I have know a number of women with shared characteristics including the temperament and the desire to find a way down into my trousers

CB, I await your wisdom?

Ok back to the the topic at (not in) hand. First up my grandfather was a wise old man with many years of accumulated knowledge. One thing he told me was to never never get your meat and bread in the same shop. Meaning don't get a girlfriend at the same place you work. Of course this was before the days of supermarkets and times and shopping trends have changed to where most people not only get their meat and bread at the same shop but also the things to clean up the mess and the prescriptions for the rashes and day after pill.

My personal advise is to never bonk a house mate, I think this is particularly important if like me you spent two years sharing a house with three gay men.

Things will always get complicated and it is bad enough that you have to make out you really don't mind her watching some stupid American sitcom instead of the football but when you have shared body fluids and hope to do so again you actually have to watch the dam_n thing because she will ask questions to make sure you really did watch it and not just zone out while thinking about her breasts.

So I think you should sit down and have a chat with her and find out if this is a one of deal in which case you need to discover that your birthday is every Friday night just so you can repeat the exercise. If she is wanting or hoping to continue the relationship then you will then need to discuss the situation with your other flatmate. Of course if he has also bonked her and is also hoping to do the same thing again then it is really going to be "hel_l in a handbasket time" and you should either move out or start posting pictures on "www.kayothestud.com and make the rest of us jealous.

CB

CB, First off: Great post! Love it.

Right, back to the topic in (not at) hand:

I've now been away for 9 or ten days, in the south of france. This has helped me to gain some perspective.

As has a french gal called Ocean whom I met on the easyjet flight down here and who lives in London. And is 20.

and a Danish 36 y.o gal called Pia who lives in Nice and saw in the new year with me. 2008 has started off with not so much a whimper as a ...g. And it wasn't the fireworks, if you know whaddeye mean.

And so, as fickle as we men are, I have - for the moment - new interests.

A change of scenery always does a lot of good.

But of course, in three or four days time, I shall be returning to the delightful ( ) "city" of Cambridge, and to my humble abode.

I think I'll let it go, TBH. if some drunken occurrence happens again, and if she initiates it, then so be it.

But I agree. I shouldn't buy my meat in the same place that I lay my head.

Now, about this 36 y.o Dane from Nice... she's ... she's... Should I start another thread?

PS:

and you should either move out or start posting pictures on "www.kayothestud.com and make the rest of us jealous.

Now, about this 36 y.o Dane from Nice... she's ... she's... Should I start another thread?

YES !!!

Danish people are probably the kindest and nicest people in Europe. I met and dated a Danish Countess once....and met some Danish Royalty members

Very nice people indeed.

LaoPo

Yes I like Scandinavians - great people, great food, great partyers. Pity the places are so expensive to live and party. Carlsberg Elephant beer - how could they go from that there to Chang here?

CB

we'll see. she's agreed to have dinner with me tomorrow night.

we'll see. she's agreed to have dinner with me tomorrow night.

NEVER and I mean never !!! mention the porn industry on the first date. Touchy subject with Scando ladies, a bit like deodorant with the French.

In my experience, Danish ladies are the llama's pyjamas. Sounds like a much better idea overall than your flatmate.

In my experience, Danish ladies are the llama's pyjamas. Sounds like a much better idea overall than your flatmate.

Danish women are great, they know they are beautiful and so not affected like it. A piece of advice for Kayo - if you like this girl don't try to get her drunk like your flat mate. Danish girls are taught how to drink by their fathers from a very early age and can out drink almost anyone on the planet. If she likes you, she will tell you - none of the coy or timid - just straight forward. The other thing you should be aware of is that ALL Danish girls have brothers and they are very protective of their little sister. Do the right thing and they are great guys - mess her around and they will turn you into rollmops.

Have fun

CB

we'll see. she's agreed to have dinner with me tomorrow night.

NEVER and I mean never !!! mention the porn industry on the first date. Touchy subject with Scando ladies, a bit like deodorant with the French.

Your on form today

Kayo, I had a girlfriend from Denmark. Seven years off and on, from a place called Birkerød, North of Copenhagen. All i can say is, marvellous mammaries memories

So it was around 11Pm on NYE, and there'd been some eye-action going on between me and this blonde... *our eyes met across a crowded, smoky room with a cheesy cover band playing in the corner*

Her and her two mates eventually made their way to the table next to the one my friends and I were inhabiting in this historic old town of Nice, just off the Promenade des Angrit.

I'd gone out with an old school mate of mine, and we'd met some scottish brothers and were drinking and laughing, when I suggested to the scots that we should invite the gals to join us. They agreed, but said their accents might be off-putting. I told them, "Codswallop!" and promptly turned to the blonde gal, asked her if she thought Scottish accents were sexy. She turned to me and said that if I spoke in a Scottish accent she'd love me long time - or words to that effect.

Within seconds, the gals were sat with us, blonde girl on my lap

At midnight, we all went out on the beach - we all had bottles of bubbly stashed for the occasion, and after wishing me mates a happy New year, I took the gal in my arms, gave her a long sip of bubbly, and kissed her, very gently, very erotically, and wished her a Happy New Year...

We all returned to the pub, me mates eventually left - despite my and the blonde gal's insistence that the blonde's german friendss were up for a good time - and hence, the gal and I stopped off in a club for a bit of a dance before heading back to her apartment.

And that is how it began.

My GOD! welcome to 2008!

Dinner's def. on for tonight. I'm not coming back to the parental abode this trip, as I'll be leaving for the UK from her apartment in two days time. I hope she enjoys tonight sufficiently for me to be able to stay again tomorrow... Dunno when my next online time will be, but probably not before Saturday or Sunday. Stay Tuned.

Oh to be young, fit and fancy free.... The most i got on NYE was my drunken Irish pal turning up at 11 pm and scoffing all my smoked salmon.

I think I might be in lurve.

Thursday went really well. Lovely dinner/drinks and stayed with her from then until today, Saturday, when she took me to the airport and we had the usual predictably difficult parting of ways.

Now back at home in the UK, missing someone and realising i've spent most of the year so far with this one girl.

And it was only supposed to be a bleedin' one night affair.

I dunno...

Maybe I'm getting old?

Only one way to find out, book a ticket to where she is, try spending a week there and see if the magic remains or not.

or have her visit you & see how comfortable things are in your house, you know, with your flatmates around too

Sorry just being a jokey biatch but one question you need to ask yourself, are you ready for any of this lady business?

or have her visit you & see how comfortable things are in your house, you know, with your flatmates around too

Sorry just being a jokey biatch but one question you need to ask yourself, are you ready for any of this lady business?

Good advice ..since it's difficult for Kayo because of his work/business to fly back again....but who knows ?

LaoPo

As I probably won't be able to get away until easter, she has mentioned the idea of coming here in a month or so, to spend a week-end or whatever with me.

With regards to the housemate... Well, we're all back from our christmas holidays now, and we're attempting to avoid any more disruption of the "harmonious houselhold".

Also, now I've met this Danish lady, I'm kind of distracted. I saw my housemate this morning, and chatted loads with her about the holidays etc... I didn't feel the same as I did before the holidays. I think Denmark has ermm... made a mark.

Boo, frankly, (whether I'm ready for any of this lady business) I think i am.

It'll take some gettin' used to, but It's obviously been on my mind a bit lately.

Don't Easyjet do really good cheap flights to Nice? Get a few booked early on for cheapy prices. Your parents would be please too, might see a bit more of you!!!

yeah, easyjet do... But I don't use credit cards!!! I can't buy anything online.

Swedish banks issue debit ATM cards with VISA or Master Card symbols and codes just like credit cards, that can be used for internet payments. You cannot overdraft them by more than 100 kronor (approx. 6-7 pounds). No such thing in the UK?

ah maybe.. I've still not got a bank account in the uk..

It was troublesome, and a long story, but essentialy: I needed at least two household bills with my name/address on them and some wage (salary) slips, with my name and address.

Since this mornig i finally have them all, so tomoowor I will try, after ten month of living in my own country, try to to open a bank account.

PS: I have a bank in thailand, and I have one in Guatemala.... With only proof of identity....... the world has changed.

I remember you mentioning this just as you came back to the UK. Hope it sorts itself out.

That's right. I should probably update that thread... I think I promised updates every 8 weeks.

I guess life here is not so exciting. Meadish, this girl is like 8 years older than me, but mate, serioulsy, I've dates scandic women before but this one has me thinkikng about ... ya know.... grown up ideas... I'm scared of that, but I like it too.

That's right. I should probably update that thread... I think I promised updates every 8 weeks.

I guess life here is not so exciting. Meadish, this girl is like 8 years older than me, but mate, serioulsy, I've dates scandic women before but this one has me thinkikng about ... ya know.... grown up ideas... I'm scared of that, but I like it too.

.......and her biological clock ticking.......who knows we have lots of small Kayo's in a few years....

LaoPo

That's right. I should probably update that thread... I think I promised updates every 8 weeks.

I guess life here is not so exciting. Meadish, this girl is like 8 years older than me, but mate, serioulsy, I've dates scandic women before but this one has me thinkikng about ... ya know.... grown up ideas... I'm scared of that, but I like it too.

.......and her biological clock ticking.......who knows we have lots of small Kayo's in a few years....

LaoPo

I was doing really well until I read that -

CB

... uhm, so was I. Are we all supposed to blow up or something, like a bomb?

Swedish banks issue debit ATM cards with VISA or Master Card symbols and codes just like credit cards, that can be used for internet payments. You cannot overdraft them by more than 100 kronor (approx. 6-7 pounds). No such thing in the UK?

There is, The Nationwide.

You can apply for a Flex Account on-line (nationwide.co.uk) they post the forms to you, you fill them in and post them back (that takes care of the proof of address bit for them) They supply a Visa Debit Card, this can be used the same way as any Visa card, except you don't get any credit, money not there, it will be rejected.

When you have the Flex Account, you apply on-line for an e-savings account, last time I looked it was paying 5.75% interest AER (it always pays over the base rate) this is better than you can get in most off-shore accounts. Plus you keep all your cash in the e-savings account and just transfer what you need when you need it to the Flex account, that way, if your card ever gets scammed, you can't lose anything (the transfer is instantaneous btw)

... uhm, so was I. Are we all supposed to blow up or something, like a bomb?

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