OneMoreFarang

Now I would probably look for a girl who didn't work in a bar. But here are some reasons why a bargirl is maybe an option: Many of us elder guys want a pretty cute sexy girl. And many of us accept the fact that those girls would typically not look for an old guy - even he is fit and handsome and whatever. So, money, and all the things which money can buy, are a good incentive to get such girl. Bargirls are obviously willing to exchange money for their company. So that makes them already a good fit. In bars it is easy to see 1000 girls a night. We see them with few clothes so before we even exchange one single word, we can decide already which once look and move the way we like it. In just one night it should be easy to talk to at least 10 girls which we preselected from the 1000 on stage. And if we think "she is the one" then let's go and an hour later we have a better idea how we match. What's the alternative? "Normal" bars where some girls are ordinary girls and others are out to make money? Online dating with the same problem? Maybe girls from work or randomly from the skytrain, supermarket, whatever? Bars are definitely a place where there are lots of available girls. Some of them are new in business and nice. We don't need hundreds of them. One is enough.

If the price is right, then people buy 2nd hand cars. It's not really that difficult to understand.

I guess they didn't practice much of playful conversation and flirting. But they know all the tiktok influencers...

With my gf, that happened many years ago. I was also a little younger at that time. And obviously she was different. 😉 I don't know if I could and would like to handle this today. Some young girls, i.e. in supermarkets, seem to be nice, and if I would look for a new gf then maybe I would spend some time with them. Would it work? I don't know.

Yes, I know there is more to it than just connecting them to a big amp. I spend a lot of time learning about many of those details. And I have already the miniDSP SHD Studio which takes care of all those little things.

I don't know, I never actively searched for them. But I am sure you could ask some girls if they have a little sister who is lonely.

I have no statistic. But talk to the girls and you will often hear stories about their mother demanding money. Are that 10% or the mothers or 80%? I don't know. I would be happy if all parents all around the world would take care of all their children. Feed them, play with them, send them to school, be good parents. But we all know that there are lots of bad parents. Some just don't care, and their children end up in not so good conditions. And some parents force their children into bad situations. How many do that? I don't know. Too many. And about participating: We can argue about what is good. Was it good that my gf stopped working in a bar and lived together with me? I didn't force her to do that. It was her choice. And she is still together with me. So, it seems she is happy enough with the situation. And when I go to bars and buy girls some drinks or more, is that good? I don't think it's bad. I don't force any girl to spend time with me. And I am sure when girls have to choose to spend time with nice guys or with aholes, then they prefer the nice guys.

I don't know how much he knew. We never talked about that. Her elder stepsister was the one who decided that little sister should work in a bar. And, in a way surprisingly, the elder stepsister allowed her little sister to stay with me. I promised the older sister to take care of the little sister. And that's what I did. I pay for everyday expenses; I didn't have to pay anything to the big sister or anybody else in the family. She worked only a few weeks in a bar. And she was happy to leave that job and live with me.

Good. I also like beautiful and healthy mentally. And IMHO many people get more and more damaged (and stubborn) the older they get. I think it is probably easier to find a beautiful and healthy mentally girl with 20 than one with 30 or 40. With 20 she didn't have time to accumulate too much damage (and bad habits).

And many young girls work and worked in bars because their mother or older sister told them to do that. That is unfortunately very normal in Thailand. Mother wants money, mother tells her daughters to work and give her lots of money. And mother knows what the girls have to do to make that money. And mother doesn't care. TiT

Correct. But it's not illegal to ask a 16 year old to become your girlfriend and live with her together. That's what I did. Her parents are legally allowed to complain - if they want that. But maybe the parents are happy that a guy loves their daughter and takes care of her. The father of my gf knows me in person, and he never complained. Her mother died when she was only a few years old.

I am pretty sure Thaksin wanted to be back in Thailand, home. I guess is that some people thought something like this: If we don't let Thaksin back then he will continue to make problems from outside of Thailand. We don't want that. Maybe we can make a deal with him like: We let you come back and live as a free man. And for that in return you are quiet and live the rest of your life in peace at home. Maybe there was also part like: If you come back and are not quiet, then we will fight you again. The problem with Thaksin and people like him is that he just can't get enough. He could live in peace in luxury at home. But he wants more. Sad.

To do what? Getting money to make her happy?

I know already where to find hookers. And I certainly don't want a 12" version of one of those!

Personally, I guess the deal was more like: Thaksin can come back and play with his grandchildren. He should not openly meddle in politics. Live and let live and all that. But Thaksin, not surprisingly, wants it all. And there are just too many people who don't want that. IMHO he has two choices. Behave and go away from politics - at least in public. Or he will be removed by the courts, election commissions, whatever. He has enough enemies, and I can't imagine that he will get away with what he does now for a long time. Let's see.

Guilty as charged. Do it!

Of course I am serious. And you can ask any guy who lives in Thailand for decades and they will confirm you that some time ago 16 yo girls were not unusual in bars. In one well known police owned bar in Soi Cowboy they put the youngest girls at the front of the stage - naked.

Don't worry, I always showed an interest in girls above 18 and even above 20. But there were and properly still are some very cute girls who are above the age of consent and who like to have a farang boyfriend.

I hope that process is fast and transparent. Obviously, it is good when money laundry and scams are stopped. Nut on the other hand, it can ruin lives of innocent people if they are wrongly accused of such things. AI can handle a million things at the same time. How about officials who should make sure innocent people don't have to suffer because of this.

You got that wrong. She was already 16. 😉 And considering the fact that I am also already a little older by now, I accept girls 20 - 25. I even met once a 27-year-old girl who I liked a lot.

Yes, some people smoke in some places. I never cared about that. And in some places, I like the music, in others not so much. The good thing is that there are many bars.

I never tried online dating. I might be wrong, but I don't think I would like it. The reason is the chemistry - for lack of a better word. Show me 100 pictures of girls and I might pick 10 who I think look the way I want. And then? Look is just one thing. I wouldn't want to meet them and 5 min later I know already that I am not interested - and for them it's maybe the same. In a bar I see maybe 50 girls on stage. I seldom pick the best-looking girl. How do they move? Do they look at me? Do they smile? A few minutes just looking at them, without talking, filters already most of them out - often including many of the good-looking girls. And maybe suddenly one of the not top looking girls makes a good impression. Add a drink and a few minutes of conversation, and there is another big part where I know: This is not what I want. Fine, no problem, let's go to the next bar. With online dating and chats and meetings that process would be very different. I don't think I would like it.

in my experience Cowboy has lots of old women, and a few nice girls. I used to go there a lot, now not so much anymore. In average I think Nana is better.

I think about subwoofers, additional to my speakers which include 8" woofers. Until now this is an idea which maybe I will do, maybe not. The best would be if I can borrow/rent one or two subwoofers and try them at home. And then make up my mind if they make enough of a difference that I want some.

I am sure there are also plenty of 20 to 25 year olds in Nana. But it seems to me that they are "different". I guess growing up with mobile phones in their faces doesn't help. I don't know if that is the main reason. It is for sure part of the reason why they behave differently. But obviously it is difficult to compare, because my point of view also changed over the years.