Why not Marry / live with a Bar lady, in my 21 years in Thailand i have had 3 long term relationships, Two of them were University/ Office/ Bank workers, and one was a Bar lady, the Bar lady was the only one who didnt reguarly ask for money like the other two did, the Bar lady did'nt screw around like one of the others did, so i see nothing wrong with a lady who works in a Bar..