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17 hours ago, shootrrdave said:

This line of attack is becoming rather annoying. She hasn't said "you can hold the baby if you increase my allowance". Nothing of the sort. It seems to be a protection issue. She genuinely seems concerned that I am incapable of holding the baby without hurting her. The one time I picked her up when the wife left the room she made a show of supporting the baby's head when she took her back from me even though I had one of my hands completely underneath her head and neck while I was holding her. 

are you a body builder or something?

unless you are going to pick up the baby by the neck,

18 hours ago, shootrrdave said:

I am allowed to touch her but not allowed to pick her up. 

 

"She is too small"

"She is not strong"

 

 

reply: "mother cannot hold the baby, Sky is too blue, Tv is too loud"

so you demand that he has to come to thailand to see his son, and you wont let the son go to Uk,

and now you are complaining about him getting upset and making threats, and still expect him to pay

Funny

the sense of entitlement for women doenst change no matter what country

On 8/3/2019 at 12:41 AM, richard_smith237 said:

Thai Customer service is only any good if you 'stay on script'... 

 

Deviate from the norm and the cracks in the veneer quickly appear...  ask for something and 'no-hab' is the most common response, we've all been there... "yes you do, its behind you" !!!!!....  

 

In many cases apathy of workers in Thailand is incredible and the flaws are everywhere but no one cares - it is this mindset which makes Thailand a 'jai-yen' and relaxing place to be, yet at the same time so infuriating when you need something....  its all about taking the rough with the smooth. 

 

 

 

 Sounds  exactly like a Filipino call centre

On 7/26/2019 at 5:30 AM, NCC1701A said:

the real question is, how does a 63 year old Farang man party with girls ten times hotter than your girlfriend and two at a time for a fraction of  what you have spent?

 

and they take the trash out.

just remember,

she is different

she can speak 15 languages,

she looks younger than she is

she has 15 masters, and earns $1m baht

On 7/26/2019 at 5:21 AM, RotBenz8888 said:

Can you post a picture of her, we can help you judge how much she's worth.

Please oh please dont let it be this one!

so its not just old white guys stupidly sending money into money pits!

2 minutes ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

Wait, so her car was parked, and he ran into it?? Damn right she has a right to be upset. Shitty journalism as usual.

trying to work out which journalism deserves the nobel peace prize,

this or

She clearly does not know that in the USA people can sue for very minor things for millions of dollars,

imagine her priorities change if some lawyer said she can sue someone for the damages to her car and life

20 hours ago, atyclb said:

 

all together 2 pubs, food drinks (thai neighborhood) about 2000 baht.

 

what is the baht threshold for being considered a "real catch" ?

some men think (and have no choice ) to splash money as their biggest asset

17 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

Yet, I am astonished at the number of otherwise smart and rational men telling me (and themselves!) that they met a woman at a bar, who just started working last week, has a university degree, and has only been with two other foreigners. 

 

There seems to be some sort of desire to believe their stories. When they are rarely ever true. Most are coached. To tell us what we want to hear. So, buy into the narrative at your own peril. 

 

I really think a private detective is a great idea, for a serious man, who wants to know the truth. Can’t be hard to dig up some “background” on these gals.

 

The real question is, are you man enough to handle the truth?

I honestly cant think the point of hiring a detective, if she is a prositutte, she will be with every guy that walks past, and offering the right price,

and she will be accepting money from anyone who is willing to pay and that she can handle

why would you need confirmation of the bleating obvious

3 minutes ago, DILLIGAD said:

Whilst she is writing down all the ATM pin-numbers?


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and ensuring her name is in his will

2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Every day another guy for more than 10 years? I am sure it's possible but I am also pretty sure that is not the typical average from Thai bar girls - especially if they are considered young and pretty.

funny how every bar girl under the age of 30 is in her first week on the job , or she is just the secretary and you are her first customer

38 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

Absolute, utter desperation and the total confidence that she is with him

only because of his striking resemblance to Brad Pitt. 

 

Some numskulls here arrive so emotionally vulnerable, so desperate for a little TLC, that they immediately forget the basic rules of self preservation. 

 

1. Take your time getting to know her. At least two years before you start spending anything more than a modest monthly allowance on her. 

 

2. If she is an “industry” gal, never take her word for anything. If she says she has been doing it for two weeks, assume that mean 5 years. 

 

3. If you must get involved with a hooker, than at least hire a private detective to do a background check. It is not expensive. If he comes back and says she has been with about 4400 guys, how would you then feel about her? Any chance she would be capable of a healthy relationship, at that stage? Around the world baby. 

 

4. Remember one thing. If it is good it is only going to get better over time. If there are issues, they will reveal themselves over time. So take your time. Pay tribute to your gender. Man up. 

 

5. By defiling all the rules, you are contorting society, twisting women’s minds and raising expectations. Word gets around. You are then personally responsible for corrupting the expectations of tens of thousands of very average women. That is not right. Only a fool and his money engages in this sort of behavior. 

 

Convince your GF’s sister to close the deal as soon as possible. 200k per rai for rural property is quite a sum for her! 

I think even a 8yr old will know that a hooker is more likely to be with 4000 men than 4, if you cant see that, then you deserve t obe taken for the biggest ride of your life

5 hours ago, BTB1958 said:

Your girlfriend us just telling  bullsh$t stories to get more money out of you.  My wife tried telling me stories of farang that bought this and that for friends.  I said great,  I want to meet these lucky couples. After 3 years together still waiting to meet just one.  The stories have stopped 

you should have offered to donate her to this guy

On 7/2/2019 at 7:43 PM, meand said:

Let's just break this down and be very honest about Pattaya for a moment. 

 

On the one hand, you have the expat visitors. I do not know if you could by design find a worse bunch of people, as a whole. Older, cheap, boring, ugly, bald, smelly, or obnoxious meat head Aussies/Americans/Euros. Of course you can find diamonds in the rough though, we all know that. 

 

On the other hand, you have a group of very attractive young Thai ladies that populate the other major demographic in the city, yet all they care about is emptying you. That is literally their life/daily goal. They have seen it all. They

Couldnt agree more,

thats the reality, it is what it is,

the funny thing is that these girls know thats what their goal is, the guys on the other hand think that the they are not "cheap, boring, ugly, bald, smelly, or obnoxious meat head Aussies/Americans/Euros" and the girls they hook up with are not "all they care about is emptying you. That is literally their life/daily goal."

given that every post starts with "mines different" and "I look younger than my age," and "she is different"

23 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think we should start a survey here at some time:

Did you ever pay lots of money for a girl you loved?

And in the hindsight, would you do it again?

I am pretty sure lots of guys would do it again even after they paid a fortune. Because some of these girls make the guys just happy, happy, happy.

 

Did you ever pay lots of money for a girl you loved? Pay as in per hour or spend more money than normally?

ive spent more on a girl than my normal levels for a girl that I was gaga for, but I will never be buying them cars/houses etc

admittedly, I lent a girl some money and never got it back ($2k USD equivalent) , lessen learnt eventually

And in the hindsight, would you do it again?

NO

23 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I find it interesting how many people are so 100% sure that this never works.

I have a friend who is over 70 and he has a Thai girlfriends who he met when she was 18 and now she is 21.

She lives with him in luxury and goes to school/university. 

He pays her a monthly "salary" which is good but a lot less than others might think.

And when I see them together (at their home or for dinner) both seem to be happy.

Obviously I am not 100% of the time together with them but for me it seems like a happy couple.

So it seems it is possible to have such a happy relationship.

if they are both happy, thats fine, its their live, its their choice, its none of our business,

but if he comes onto TV once the money runs out or she has found a higher bidder or another bidder and says "oh she was different" or "I never saw this coming" than hes going to get roasted,

if the worst case and likely scenerio happens, will he just accept it and move on?

2 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Did you consider what disgusting things you might have to do to get those heaps of staff?

 

im only half joking, ???? as I know thats not how the world works !

2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

It seems for rich Thai guys it's important to be seen with their young and beautiful mia-noi. And if everybody knows he bought her that apartment and the Mercedes that's even better.

Farangs just &*ck the bar girls and have fun.

We can argue which behavior make more sense.

rich thai guys arent my speciality, but i will take your word for it ????

im still waiting for a rich old lady of any nationality to buy me heaps of stuff,

ive asked Liz Hurley, but she hasnt replied yet......

5 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I agree with you when they are shouting in a bar. But some Thai girls have a lovely voice - especially when they want something. Tilac, my buffalo is so sick and I don't want to see him suffer. Can you help me tilac? ???? 

this is just a personal thing, but it turns me off when a few of them are talking normally and the next minute, they shout/howl in excitement, and its a sound, not words

maybe its just me

9 minutes ago, giddyup said:

You could say the same about any rich guy who marries. Even guys like Jagger and Rod Stewart get bored with the groupies and settle down with one woman eventually.

this may hurt a lot of peoples feelings but I often to say to people, the rich and famous in the east generally dont go for thai women let alone bar girls

which says a lot

5 minutes ago, sanemax said:

Didnt Jerry Hall divorce Mick Jagger when he got a another Woman pregnant ?

Same with Patsy Kensit /Liam Gallagher 

I am not insane/stupid/guillable enough to believe that I am in the same league as these guys!

15 hours ago, SteveK said:

I doubt very much that he thinks that. Some people undoubtedly reach a point in their lives where they have more money than they could ever spend - what they buy and do will no doubt seem crazy to the rest of us, but that 20 year old has something between her legs which he loves deeply and is willing to chuck away a few percent of his wealth on. Good for him. 

ill let you know  if this happens  but if I was nearing the end of my life and had too much money, and I wanted the company/attention of a hottie, id be hiring hookers every day with viagara ,

plus id be donating all my money to friends and family, and if I had no friends and families, to various charities and people who need help, not someone who takes the easy way out to hook up with rich old farangs for the sole purpose of money

in my mind, a girl in this position does not deserve 200k baht per month, plus a pickup truck, plus a house,

I could walk down the street of my country and find 100 people much more deserved

16 hours ago, giddyup said:

Is it any different than a wealthy sugar daddy in a western country having a blonde bimbo as his arm candy, buying her expensive gifts and paying her rent? You don't think old Hugh Hefner (when he was alive) was bonking all those stunners for free?

you mean it wasnt for his glowing personality, sexy wrinkles, false teeth and grey hairs?!?!!?!?!

damn, I better reevaluate my life plans then,