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I'm not attacking anyone and, as I said, the "special treatment" (I didn't say special rights) is fine for marginalised people. They deserve it if they are oppressed and need to "balance the scales" to make it so they are closer to being equal. However, once their treatment becomes normal and mainstream, the special treatment needs to taper off. If you believe that no one is asking for special treatment, then my stance should not bother you, as I then have nothing to object to.
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And I disagree with your opinion. I think reality is not to your liking, so you are ignoring it. You're welcome to think that, of course, as I am to disagree.
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Hardly. There's nothing wrong with oppressed or marginalised people wanting special treatment to balance the scales, but call it what it is. And I think you're overacting to basic critical thought because you don't like the result.
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Why did you feel the need to point out that they're chubby or from Isaan? Is that funny?
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There's nothing petty about what I have said, nor am I attacking anything or anyone. I'm merely thinking critically. As marginalised and oppressed groups become less so, as they become more mainstream and accepted, in various areas, it's logical that the level of support and special treatment they get will decrease. If there are people trying to keep up the support, finding different reasons to maintain it, there is obviously something else going on there.
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Does that mean that Pride could never do that? Not exclusively. As I said, it could easily go the other way. By way of an example, I'm not sure how long Pride has included "oppression around the world". It seems like a recent addition. This is not unusual. A movement claiming to fight oppression that begins with something local and specific gets traction and success, people become empowered, so they look for more oppression to include so that they still have that "cache", that "power".
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The point of "pride" is that people used to feel shame for being homosexual (and some still do struggle with it and with "coming out"). So the focus is on positivity and acceptance. The problem is, of course, that as the scales tip more and more, we can end up going from oppression, to equality, to supremacy. And I think that's something to be aware of. People like power and privilege, and once they get it they don't like to give it up. It's great to see the lives of previously marginalise people improve, but "oppression" has become a kind of social currency and we see people desperate to show how oppressed they are all the time.
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Yes. One of the problems is controlling access, but this is Thailand and it's even a problem in developed countries. Kids want to vape for the same reason they want to smoke, to feel grown-up. But it's easier for them to access and use vapes; and they are apparently less harmful than cigarettes, therefore more attractive. So the solution is to try to put them off using them. They wouldn't want nicotine-free vapes.
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I'm going to go out on a limb and say that there is likely a mismatch between the "decent Thai women" who are looking for (presumably successful) foreign men in their age group to marry and the men who marry much younger bargirls, and neither is interested in the other. The women probably want younger and more attractive, and the men want the same. ????♂️ It's kind of daft to ponder the question "If there are so many Thai women who are not bargirls looking for foreign men, why are there so many foreign men married to bargirls?" without thinking a little about what each group are and want.
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An abolition of conscription will mean more inequality : Nipit
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
So, he's saying that only poor people will join the army, so if we see a soldier we will know he is from a poor family, and that is inequality, and that's bad? Have I got that right? -
Students Fatally Stab Each Other at Sisaket Province School
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Isaan News
Not really, because you can't know how many of those 6 million students faced a situation where self-control was required. -
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Exactly. It's a topic that most people are aware of and have some sort of opinion on. It's been discussed openly in many parliaments and lots of very normal people (even left-leaning ones) have spoken out. With bills being passed that go against what trans activist would like. Some people simply try to pretend that only far-right, Nazi White Supremacist types are concerned about these issues, in an effort to try and silence people.
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Top 99 Reasons Why Being Over Age 70 Rules!
BangkokReady replied to GammaGlobulin's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
You would honestly rather be in your 70s than in your 20s? -
If they can cause bad things to happen to people as a consequence of saying something they consider to be anti-trans, if people think about not wanting to upset them when they make a public comment, then they have power. It's actually very mainstream. There's a lot of pushback from very normal centre and left leaning people. I'm sure you deny a lot of things, doesn't make it not so though. That doesn't really mean much. Absolutely.