Hummin

I guess you ideal woman changed with location? When younger my was bland with blue eyes, tits and ass. Later, I got a taste for women no matter, just not to skinny, and to fat. Good memories with one 190cm to the more petite 152cm.

The locals and bar punters think the same, and the rest, who cares? No matter where you met your gf/wife, most think the same.

The good thing we both know we have options, and thats called freedom. I enjoy my freedom as well, and maybe that makes my life easier, because I do not need to do anything I do not like to do. It takes some work to adopt and cultivate equal feelings by time for each other, and it is not just up to me, I also need the right response from here, to manage to keep our relationship alive.

Thumb of rule if you want a happy good life with a wife who appreciate you and not just your money, is to find a woman who's appearance score lower than yours. If you choose one who everyone wants, she knows her price and her pride. Good luck I want a life partner who is proud of me, and we together try to make both lifes better, not only satisfactorily one part. Maybe hard to find, but it is possible.

Again, thats your opinion and your fix that makes you going, but it will keep you in the bar forever, continuous searching, because no woman will be able to pleasure you in the long term

Obviously, a bar is a perfect playground for those who seek out younger girls, and much younger girls than themselves, because they are available for take out for little money, and no complications or consequences. If any, very few even if your gf/wife finds out who now is older, but is kind of locked in your grip, because she have no other options than stay or go back where she came from. Thats why many thai wife accept it, or maybe even happy to se the man go elsewhere out of good reasons, she doesnt need to perform for him to often if ever anymore. Im happy where I am and also feel good about my choice of woman, and even her appearance changes by time, I will still love her, and I know she will become older, so do I, right? Why ruin a good life, a good woman calling out the women you love for ugly, and want to change her out? Its all in your brain, and sometimes brainwashing is a good thing to for good reasons.

Have to admit one of my longer relationships was with a 19 when I was 28. But she had the maturity and IQ very few could compare with. In my experience, very few so young girls do turn me on emotionally, nice to look at, thats all. When it comes to sex my preference is above 30 up to 50. Some of my greater experiences have been with olde women than me when I was younger, and I guess that was the trigger experience I wanted to repeat. How to evolve sexually? You need someone with experience to guide you, and also willing to do the extra with confidence and pleasure, not just because someone requires it.

Think about it, the sexy model and ideal of women, is in majority made by gay men. The fashion industry created the opposite ideal of women what real men like, so who is talking about brainwashing? Quite shallow if you ask me

I'm speaking the truth as many do these days, and I'm sure my truth is not the popular one on this fora, but I can live with it. The Emperor's New Clothes comes to mind

Sexy girls, really? Who decide what a sexy girl is? Think about it, what is sexy? Never found a girl below 20 sexy since I was at that age myself.

Hehe, hugh Hefner now, from David Bowie to all kind of other famous people and their girls appears often her. Hugh Hefner was a joke and an abuser!

You can loose weight on any diet! When I lost 16 kg in 3 months, I eat Banana, oats, cheese, cottage cheese, yoghurt, bacon, clean meat, alot of fish, rye kracker bread. About 2700kal a day with Saturday as my eat day. Important info, I did not drink alcohol, cakes, chips or any candy at all. The most Important, I walk in the morning, in the evening after work, and also hit the gym 5 days a week. Since then, I pretty much keep the same diet but not so strict anymore, but it takes dicipline, motivation and some work to maintain the weight, and in my opinion, the most important factors.

Seems promising for me but still carbs from fruit, and a quarter rice portion once and awhile, so well 30g oat pudding in the morning 5 days a week with yoghurt

It might as well come down to the nature of the establishment and experience forced sex, rape and other type of abuse, not really a number thing. Most bars I frequently visited in Thailand, the girls I got to know for a longer time not as customer, maybe had one to three customers a week, and often long term holiday boy friends. Some others was experts in short times, and was typical adhd or had other mental challenges and was not to work long hours in bar waiting with no action, or had much patience with customers. The new innocent younger pretty girls came and went quick as customers took them out of bar rather quick. Some came back, most didn't. There is not one easy answer based on numbers, but the individual and their back ground as their mental health as well social intelligence.

Any statistics and scientific researches?

When you want a 5 star chef, do you call a carpenter?

I guess thats the problem, people look at the figure, and decides thats not a good person to grow old with. There is alot of good sex in a larger woman, its all in your brain

A good argument is keto on a limited time, but lifelong ? I do not think so, and as said many times before, diet is a belief, when you start talking about genetic diet suitable for your metabolism. In few cases it can be true due to health issues, but for normal people, there is no differences, just crap food and lifestyles. Almost anything will help short time, and with a strong belief as well in what you doing, placebo effect will help to.

I know a few I know managed to live a decent normal life after working bars for quite awhile. Some is damaged before they started, some get damaged working in bars, others is just like a rebel party story many of us experience and done that. The same goes for sex tourists. Yes some girls leave the bar for good, and never look back.

We talking about fanatics here, expect nothing else ????

The answer is having a small garden or a small land, and you will manage to stay healthy if you put in the necessary effort. Live healthy in a city or tourist destination cost a little bit more, and take a bit work to find all the healthy nutrients we need, but possible. Just have stay off late nights ( yes sleeps matter), drink less, eat less crap food, but very few want to change lifestyle for better health, and instead pop a multivitamin. Mostly excuses when we discuss health in here. So many old Thais in village who had nothing than rice, fruit, vegetables, egg, chicken, fish and little bit meat, and still going strong. Common for them all, their did not drink much or smoke.

Fair enough, for a x amount of people their lifestyle and diet is not good enough, but you shouldn't just start taking vitamins without a proper blood tests for a longer period before adding supplements. One blood test doesn't give you all the answers. Proper screening and follow up is necessary if you are concerned about your health. It just a matter of priority.

And where in Thailand ended you up?

Indeed, also my short stand and understanding of such episodes. Many (no data available, so just personal observation and experience) have experienced awakening after or during life crises, also in combination with experienced guidance, but my experience was after a few more or less long periods with depression and retraction from society. Those periods I worked and lived partly quite remote, and had alot of time outdoors when I finely managed to get out of the most severe depression, reaching new life, new motivation, new understanding and with great energy managed to puzzle life back on track. I can with certain strong convince say, it was release of natural chemicals in my brain and great experiences observing nature around me as well people and animals, not to mention the connection it gave me. I choosed not to dig deeper when I finely was satisfied and could return to who I believe is me, and how I look outwards as my actions to survive and keep my sanity in this world in the reality we experience. Meaning be true to our Nature as much we can, even we constantly is challenged be it treat and trait, also consequences for not succeed in the set norms of society.

Sounds like the answers I got when asking one of their represents some critical questions on social media.