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Everyone do what they think is best for themselves and their partner, and not for one second I believe I can change your mind, Im just saying life is what you decide to do with it with your experiences and what you want to do with your life. If Pattaya feels good for you, then good for you.
What I know, is that Isaan and Pattaya have its own challenges and not for everyone. Im happy to be able to have a decent base, and can travel whenever I want, not everybody is so lucky.
To me it is a bit single minded trying to make fun of people who avle to make their own decisions even we would not think about Isaan as an destination if we married a Bangkok girl!
A good life is what you make it to be! Right?