Joke?
Here is cut paste...
"I have applied for a visa based on retirement, not marriage"
Your posts are all over the shop.
If you "HAVE applied for Non O retirement" then you cannot apply for 30 day extension.
Also in another post you stated,
"And yes, Form TM.86, paperwork accepted and we had the visit yesterday, no issues."
Seriously! All indicates that you HAVE applied for Non O retirement