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I didn't say I was bored all the time. I have a nice Thai girlfriend, one I'd like to take back with me, but likely she'll stay to take care of her parents and will only visit me. I said Thailand is mostly a boring place, which I and many others have agreed on. Yes, you can keep busy doing the same things every day, and if that satisfies you, all the better. i didn't say all people here are bored. Obviously some like it, and I have friends here that also like it, but every one of them are here because of wives, and stay because their wives don't want to leave. Some of them have houses in their own countries and leave half of the year. I never said Thailand was a bad place. I see clearly and have known way before I moved here what it was like, which was proven since then. It's not for me, and not a good place for females. That, along with me not able to enjoy my hobbies, will have us leaving. To each heir own. Where you're comfortable you stay.

"I post facts. You post opinions", "All forums mean nothing.", "Most of them seem to be happy. You start arguments everyday for no reason", ."I've also won 25 days. Only lefties hate me. I bet most of them have no Uni degree either. They whinge about Trump 16 hours a day and are miserable. You have won 1 day in 6 years despite being on here a lot. So most don't like you", all your opinions just from this page. I'm still waiting..

I think you got that the other way around. I'm still waiting for you to show my opinions and prove my facts wrong. This is like arguing with my teen daughter, before she realized her mistakes.

Do you not realize you are the one who's arguing with me, and making things up just to keep it going? Do you not realize why I'm keeping it going?

You bait everyday, and keep arguments going with assumptions and invalid stats. You have your reasons and I, along with many others here, understand them.

Winning here means nothing. it only shows how much time you're here with inane topics. Putting people that argue with your comments as lefties is yet another assumption. Some others do this because it's the "in" thing to do. You exaggerate constantly, making up stats that aren't valid whatsoever. You think others here are miserable yet you're here causing arguments just for the sake of arguing, and again, contributing nothing. I know if everyone here met me, almost all would like me, as talking in person with body language, along with faster responses and facial expressions says a lot more than typed words. Some, like you and that select few, I wouldn't get along with for a reason. All of my life, the only people I didn't get along with in person have proven to be mentally ill.

If you don't live in Thailand, why have you said many times you were just at many places? You assume you're more educated than I. having a degree doesn't mean more education. It only means more education of certain things. There are other ways to educate yourself, much of what we're talking about here that you dismiss. You stick up for certain people here that argue with me. reason? They're just like you and that select other 4. You assume how others here are in their lives. You know nothing about anyone here besides what they've said, and you're pretty gullible if you believe everything from people you don't personally know. Everything you say can also be a lie. Take away your assumptions and you have little to contribute.

There you go again, answering for everyone. I'm seeing the opposite. Look at the reactions to your posts and look at mine. Take away the thumbs down I get from you and a select other 4 or 5, and I'd rarely have any. You on the other hand have been called out by many members here.

Do you live with everyone here? No? That means you are only answering for yourself, which means nothing as I always prove you wrong. Before you again answer with another one liner, show me what I asked.

A question? How old are you? Maybe you haven't realized what I'm doing is exposing you more with each reply. You answer fast, without real thought, and usually with one liner baitings that everyone here has seen. You are always making up your own stats with absolutely NO evidence of them being valid. You and a few others here are the usual suspects that always put thumbs down on others posts, thinking you're ruining their reputation, which means nothing here, and not understanding that we know who does this, which has somehow slipped your mind. You also think you've "won" days, somehow thinking this is some kind of accomplishment. I don't lie. You certainly do or are so confused about what is real and what isn't, and can't help yourself just joining a discussion just to hijack it. You offer little in the way of a good discussion, arguing just to argue. You certainly know you are wrong, yet can't just admit it. You keep saying I'm making opinions, yet have no evidence to the contrary. You are only here to argue, without offering anything constructive, and sadly some still don't realize this. Look at your posts. EVERY one eventually has a thumbs down and it isn't coming from me or just a couple of others. I'm willing to bet 99% of those I get are from you and the few others that are just like you, The usual suspects who argue for the same reasons, use women, are heavy drinkers who drive afterwards, and have been proven wrong by not only me but a few select observers that have you figured out just as I have.

100% of what I say is factual, from research and evidence. Just saying what you said shows a severe lack of common sense and a very bad memory, plus a lack of research on any particular subject and going by your own opinions. Show me my opinions, and maybe if you researched more on what I said, you might see they are valid, with evidence to back them up. You have a bad habit of baiting, so I have to keep proving you wrong. I could ignore you, but it's fun when I prove people like you wrong. You also like to make up stats which don't exist, trying to prove your point to someone that knows more about the subject than you.

No, blatantly obvious when you keep referring to things I've said before but forgotten so I need to repeat myself.

You would have to ask a large percentage of the population to get a true answer to that, and that still wouldn't be totally accurate. Yes, many people are attracted to others, but most don't act on it and end up with their own kind.

I post facts. Opinions I don't make because they mean nothing. Just because you don't understand something, doesn't mean it's my opinion.

Who told you that? In actuality, most people aren't happy much of the time, as money can't buy the most important things in life that do make humans happy. Most of the time, we don't get what we want, but some get what they need and still aren't happy. Many reasons for this. Lifestyle, addictions, bad diet, bad partners, too much stress, living in a country without freedom, driving on roads that aren't safe, diseases, depression, narcissism and other mental illnesses, bad schooling, corruption and bad leaders, greed, harsh weather conditions, venomous snakes, insects, crappy wifi, power outages, and many other things we all suffer from at times.

I actually post fasts. You post many opinions, so we could call that BS. A degree means nothing besides what you use it for. It doesn't mean you're more intelligent than a homeless man living on the streets of NYC. People aren't obvious narcs unless they're malignant, like your buddy Trump. Covert means exactly that. When you're attracted to someone, which isn't a choice, you sometimes let your guard down. Ever wonder how many marriages end in divorce and how many stay even thought they're not happy? The two main things are narcissism and depression. I don't claim to be smarter than anyone. A smart person can spot another pretty easily, which is why some here have trouble understanding others, and only go by their own blind opinions. I'm living in a boring village because most of Thailand is a boring place, most of it being much the same as everywhere else, with the beaches an exception. I'm only here because of my daughter, as this is her mom's village. You seem to keep forgetting things while I don't.

Yes, they did lie, and now I have to move back to the states so my daughter will have a better life than letting her stay here and suffer. Remember what I said. Most of the books were on how to relate to and treat women and children. The last 5 years were more on narcissism. Children were created, so that's a positive from a negative.

Which could mean, she's out with someone else, she's a 4, can't read, and you've never read any books at all.

I don't have to google it. I've read hundreds of articles and listened to many videos from psychologists that have also written books on narcissism. Narcissists are liars, which means they love bomb people into getting involved with them, then when thy have them hooked, begin to tear them down, and take what they can and go on to another. There are many types of narcissists, and they behave differently.

You're talking about a tiny fraction of a whole nationality. SOME German women like SOME Turkish guys, MOST German women are married to Germans, Polish, or other close country's people. SOME Thai women are attracted to foreigners. Most aren't. Most that end up with them do so for monetary reasons, or the promise of such. Some guys experience is but a tiny fraction of one percent of what really happens.

To reiterate,"Again, you know NOTHING about me besides what I type here." How is your relationship with your supposed girlfriend? If you spend as much time as you do on here, that means she is being neglected, as it isn't just in the morning but all day long.

No, they taught me how to be the best partner I can be. Attraction was what hurt my choices in a couple, especially those I had children with. Most of my reading on covert narcissism came when I moved here and saw my ex being her true self.

Western child support is enforced. Here it isn't. It won't stop some, but will make sure many pay for the children they create. Sitting in jail isn't better than working and helping out your children. My ex went to jail because she didn't keep up her payments to me.

Well, the books I've read are all on the best sellers lists for a reason. I learned from them, so that would make then not inferior.

No, I actually didn't know a lot about narcissists besides the malignant ones like Trump and many world leaders, celebrities and some billionaires. I learned more about the covert kind by reading about them. I'm thinking you don't realize most of the world's problems come from narcissists, which means you and many others don't see them for who they really are also.